Draw a clear line between people.

Everyone should know how to set a boundary for himself, and at the same time understand where the boundaries of others are.

The best relationship between people is to appreciate each other's strengths. It is not easy to know each other's strengths, so we appreciate each other, pay attention to each other, stay out of other people's lives and open our doors. Keep your own boundaries and don't violate others' boundaries, so that everyone can be independent of each other.

? The future society will be very interesting: some people can't understand others at all, and this person can't understand another person around him at all. It doesn't matter if you don't understand, but respecting each other's differences is the highest state of cultivation.

? This is the progress of civilization. Never ask cold and hot, intimacy and alienation, flattery and abuse, attachment and trampling again. Let everyone live in their own dusty dreams, no one owes anyone, and everyone doesn't have to abuse each other, let alone change their lives.

On the topic of boundaries, I have no intention of seeing the life introduction of Jiang Dongdong, the wife of Professor Hu Shi, as follows:

Jiang Dongxiu Zodiac is a tiger, a woman with little feet in a feudal family. When Mr. Hu Shi was young, his mother arranged his marriage.

Mr. Hu Shi is a doctoral student studying in the United States. He is handsome and charming, and naturally he is prone to philandering.

Shortly after their marriage, Hu Shizhi wrote to his American girlfriend, Williams, and often flirted with Cao Peisheng on the grounds of work. As long as everything doesn't interfere with Jiang Dongxiu's face and she hasn't been poked out, she always likes to turn a blind eye. But if it goes too far, the neighbors make fun of her spine, and Dong Xiu will go to her mother-in-law and just cry. That night, Hu Shizhi came back, and he was required to kneel for one night. Then Hu Shizhi will be bound.

? So a few years later, Jiang Dongxiu gave birth to two big fat boys for Hu Shizhi. Hu Shizhi treats his two sons as pets and dotes on them. With a son, Jiang Dongxiu has something to rely on, and she no longer has to worry about her husband fooling around outside.

? She knew that as a feudal uneducated woman, she was not worthy of Mr. Hu, the most handsome and versatile man in Beijing. All she can give is to take care of her husband, take care of her wife and children, do housework and let her husband work without worry. However, she has no ability and can't fill the spiritual gap. Therefore, for the husband who has been writing to his first girlfriend, she has always let nature take its course and even encouraged them to communicate spiritually. During their ten years in the United States, Hu Shizhi and she visited Williamson many times and became good friends with her. They confided in each other, hoping that Williamson could replace himself and communicate with her husband more letters to relieve his depression. Their words are sincere and touching. After Hu Shizhi died, she specially asked William to send a photo and put it in his coffin, so that he and his soul could rest in peace.

On the other hand, when Hu Shi was a master from Dewey, he angered Dewey's secretary Lowitz and made her lose confidence. During his stay in the United States, Jiang Dongxiu gradually got to know this spoony unfortunate woman. I really appreciate her spirit of not sticking to ceremony. After hearing that Lowitz can't be depressed into a disease because of love, I came to comfort Lowitz personally and expressed my understanding of her inner anguish. The two of them poured out to each other, which led to their rebellion.

Jiang Dongxiu's understanding of her position is so profound, and she is so magnanimous. She finally won the admiration and respect of her rival Wei Liansi and stayed away from Hu's family and marriage all her life.

Cao Peisheng participated in the marriage between Hu and Jiang, and his revenge will win the hearts of the people.

Her tolerance is limited and is based on mutual understanding and respect. As long as it doesn't endanger her marriage and family status, she will be generous, fat and let nature take its course. But once someone crossed the line, she immediately took severe measures and punished them mercilessly.

/kloc-in the autumn of 0/923, Hu Shizhi went to Hangzhou on business. At that time, my cousin Cao Peisheng was studying in Hangzhou, and Jiang Dongxiu specially wrote to ask her cousin to take care of her husband who was in poor health. As we all know, when they got married in Jixi's hometown, they saw the right eye. During this trip to Hangzhou, Cao Peisheng quickly took good care of his cousin and got pregnant. After having children, Cao Peisheng simply urged him to divorce Jiang and then married himself.

Later, it reached the ears of Jiang Dongxiu. Once Hu Shi came home and saw his wife holding two sons and staring at him angrily. Now he said sideways, "She's pregnant, and this thing has come to this. Let's divorce! " Trying to make peace with Jiang Dongxiu.

Unexpectedly, Dong Xiu went to the kitchen without saying anything, took a kitchen knife, grabbed two sons, held a knife to his neck and said, "Do you want her or us?"

Hit the snake seven inches, directly caught Hu Shizhi's weakness, so he had to submit and promised not to mention the separation again.

Obviously, Dong Xiu knows her husband's playboy very well. To say the least, with her husband's handsome appearance, it is inevitable to attract bees and butterflies, so she threatened Hu Shizhi: "If you want to mix with her again, I will go to your school and New Youth, and let Mr. Cai and Mr. Chen (Cai Yuanpei and Chen Duxiu) make decisions for our mother and son."

This makes Hu Shizhi more afraid.

You know, when Hu Shizhi urinated, he made a vow to be a saint, and he especially liked being a "little saint" in his life. He valued fame most and cared for his wings more. Jiang Dongxiu immediately threatened Hu Shizhi to write a letter of guarantee, and it has nothing to do with Cao Peisheng ever since. In desperation, Cao Peisheng had to have an abortion and gave up his broad dream.

What Jiang Dongxiu did next was hot enough and hard enough. Cao Peisheng talked about a new object backstage. When talking about marriage, Jiang Dongxiu deliberately found the man and told Cao Peisheng all the past things, which provoked the man to be furious and revoked the marriage. Cao Peisheng was so angry that he had to cut his hair for Nepal.

? As you can see, Jiang Dongxiu's cleverness lies in making the sense of boundaries clear in the principle of defending his marriage. I should be tolerant and unconditional, but I must be cruel.