I am a security guard, and I am often looked down upon by others, even abused in person. what do you think?

First of all, I sympathize with your situation. I also tell you that no matter what job you do, it is not easy. You should be more confident. You should study more at work, consult others and communicate with others. When you meet someone you don't know, you should be sensible and rational, and let him get rid of his mistakes completely. At work, you should care more about and help others, and gradually your popularity will get better. Everyone will recognize your work, and you should do well in every project. happy

You should learn to deal with people, stick to principles and be flexible.

I was a security guard. I worked in a service area of Beijing-Shanghai Expressway for six years. According to my own experience, I will talk about my personal views and experiences on this job.

360 lines, okay, okay, someone is doing it. Security is also a noble profession. There is no distinction between high and low jobs, but different positions. If you want to make some achievements in this position and let others recognize and respect you, first of all, you should be conscientious, hard-working, enthusiastic and strict in management; External image, internal quality; To deal with problems, we must not only adhere to principles, but also move with emotion, understand them with reason, and guide them with actions; Excellent style and correct thinking; Be strict with yourself and learn to be a man.

When I first started as a security guard, because I didn't know much about my work, my working methods were simple, I didn't pay attention to my personal image, and I even spoke rudely. Some customers complained directly to the service area management office and were criticized by the leaders. I seriously sum up my experience and lessons, and deeply reflect on the problems and shortcomings exposed in my work. I have realized and found my own problems. Since then, I have been strict with myself, working hard on the external image and internal quality, and adhering to the principle that customers come first and customers are God. Under the premise of strict management, always think of customers, take the initiative and enthusiasm, be civilized in language, try our best to help customers solve practical difficulties, change their working attitude, improve their working methods, improve their image and improve their service quality, which not only won the praise of leaders, but also won the recognition and respect of drivers and passengers all over the country; And not only became the captain of the security guard, but also was rated as an excellent security guard every year.

I don't know what kind of security you are. If you are a community security guard, it is normal for someone to look down on you, because the hatred of the owners for the property is deep-rooted, so it is normal to look down on you. But I make money, no matter what he thinks. ...

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2065438+At the end of August 2008, I went through the resignation procedures and worked in Liubei Power Plant Community.

I work 12 hours every day, responsible for the collection of temporary parking fees in the community. Although I have been working in the second district for a long time, I am not allowed to sleep, but I am very happy to find a job as soon as I am laid off. After half a year's work, a property management company named Dongniu won the bid. Female managers often go to the first and second districts to learn about various situations and talk to us one by one. She said she could charge 95% property management fee, which made me curious and stayed.

"I know your situation, and I will manage them as your monitor. Will you? " Looking at the trusted and sincere eyes of the female manager, I nodded without hesitation. After that, I added her WeChat and received her scheduling information every day. Sometimes I am asked to take the printed notice to two communities and post it on the bulletin board. Sometimes I am asked to persuade people who distribute leaflets and want to put up posters to leave the community. Sometimes the lights in the building don't work, so I'm asked to help the electrician repair them. Sometimes I just have to copy the water and electricity meter, because the recruited young women don't do it.

One day, I was patrolling the second district when an old van stopped. The entrance guard charging panel shows that the vehicle charges overtime. When the driver got off the bus, he suddenly quarreled with the female toll collector, to the effect that we used to be in charge of affairs and didn't want you to be in charge of the property. It was an insult to scold others for being arrogant. I calmly observed the development of the situation, and the toll collector didn't care and patiently explained, and kindly said that he could do a monthly pass. Slowly, the driver paid the temporary fee, stepped on the gas pedal and drove away.

1 District charge management is chaotic. Before Dongniu Property Management Company moved in, it recruited several security guards, some of whom had poor working attitudes. In the middle of the night shift, in order to have a good sleep, he lifted the railing manually, so that the driver who paid overtime didn't have to pay, just put his card on the iron box cover. No wonder every time the manager comes to charge, he says he won't pay. The owners of the 1 area have discovered this secret, but they are unwilling to tell it because it is good for them.

One day at noon, I just finished lunch and stood at the door. There are three cones not far from me. A 5-year-old boy was practicing his leg skills, and he kicked all three cones to the ground. These cones are used to separate pedestrians from motor vehicles and can be used as warning signs. I went up to talk about the little boy, and the mother of the child casually said a few words to the little boy while playing the mobile phone, but the spoiled child still went his own way. You must talk about your children. I'm tired of dealing with many complicated things every day. I want to know how to respect the fruits of others' labor. The other party was very upset and then quarreled with me. "I don't need you to discipline my son. I've been talking about him." I yelled at her for swearing. I glared at her with anger and clenched my fist. I really wanted to rush over and give her a good beating, but I finally held back.

I worked as a doorman in a cotton community for six years, and I heard something from the patrolling security guards. One day, a female owner inexplicably asked the doorman to say something that made people angry: "I am better than you even if I pay 14 yuan property management fee to feed the dog." In the face of arrogant owners, the doorman always keeps a restrained attitude and does not argue with them. I met an old man in the Agricultural Bank. He was in a bad mood and made a scene with many employees. I went over and said he was cursing. In a couple of days, he even brought someone to complain about me and the bank, which made people angry and speechless.

Property and owners have always been opposites. Some owners are unwilling to pay property fees and parking fees, but there is no reason to take it out on the doorman and security guard. Some innocent and humiliated security guards retorted, some argued with them, and some were so angry that they threw their fists at them. However, for the long-term benefit, some properties even shed tears and beheaded Masu's cruel resignation security guard. Something happened in Yimian Property. The female security guard guarding the electric shed refused to move the car with the owner and was slapped. Afterwards, the female manager came to apologize to the host and became the news of everyone's discussion after dinner.

I am a security guard, and I am often looked down upon. what do you think?

I've been a lot of property security. No matter how well I do, someone will look down on you. The reason is that the owner paid the property fee. They are God's right to speak and supervise. If they lose money in gambling, get drunk or feel bad, they will take it out on you for no reason. If they encounter fierce security guards, they will make a detour and dare not provoke them. If you meet a kind security guard, they will put their hands on their hips or point their fingers at your forehead to vent. During the interview, the manager repeatedly stressed that don't quarrel with the host, learn to communicate with the host more, and even instill a lifestyle without fighting back. Therefore, when being abused or looked down upon by others, many security guards choose to give in and make peace in order to survive, because security guards are a vulnerable group and cannot be respected and respected by others.

Some pictures are taken from the internet, thanks to the author.

No matter what kind of work you do, it is to support your family. If someone looks down on you, turn around and let him or her face your ass. If he scolds you, you pull your dog over to talk to him or her.

As a security guard, everywhere, there will always be people who discriminate against security guards. Customers always use God to oppress people. They looked at the security guards, refused to listen to the security guards in violation of regulations, and complained after scolding the security guards, saying that the attitude of the security guards was not good, the employers would not speak for the security guards, and the security guards were under great psychological pressure. Just because we are security guards, we must have strong psychological endurance to be security guards. Otherwise, we can't do safety work.

First, be yourself. I don't know about you. Many of our security guards are fooling around, wearing different clothes and smoking cigarettes in their mouths. So if you want to be respected by others, you must first respect yourself.

Hello, first of all, I sympathize with you!

Security work is a service industry, and it is normal to be wronged and not understood. If you are strict, you will be angry with others, but if you are too casual, you will be angry with the company leader.

I suggest you use it flexibly within the scope of your duties, not too rigid, and use rules and regulations flexibly, and learn to shift the responsibility to the leader, especially those who are related and engaged in special activities, and let him or her directly find the leader, or you can ask the leader for instructions. In case of emergencies and illegal people and things, you should call the police immediately!

In short, being a security guard is a job, a legitimate job, and there is no distinction between high and low.