Life is not easy, the world of the poor, you don't understand

In Nanchang subway, a mother shouted at her children because she lost her 5 yuan subway ticket.

Passers-by have advised her not to hit the child: "It's only 5 yuan. You should make up for it. You shouldn't hit him. Is 5 yuan a lot? "

She said: "A lot, money is hard to earn."

She later admitted that she had been separated from her husband for a long time and that her mother was ill and hospitalized. She earns more than 900 yuan a month.

Beating and scolding the child is not because the child is naughty and disobedient, but because he lost a ticket of 5 yuan.

It's only 5 yuan!

Extreme behavior towards children is only an instinctive reaction caused by inner insecurity, depriving children of the right to a happy life.

This is reality, naked reality.

A blogger in Weibo said:

The first growth of adults is to find that money is hard to earn, and the second growth is to find that money is really hard to earn.

Think of a sentence: it is enough to drive an adult crazy and lack money once.

0 1. I'd like to, but I

Professor Hatsune Hatsune once told such a story in Seven Pa Shuo.

One of his students worked hard in college, so he was excellent. He had intended to go abroad as a lawyer.

However, when I was in senior three, my plan fell through because my family didn't raise money.

My father is a teacher who teaches in the town and has been assigned books all his life.

The professor invited their father and daughter to a bar for dinner. Finally, they drank too much and cried. They took the child's hand and said, "I'm sorry, girl. Dad is sorry for you. Dad has no skill."

Originally, children could have a bigger future, but they were unable to help because of incompetence. How helpless!

There is a dialogue that goes like this:

"Do you know what it's like to be powerless?"

"What feeling"?

"There is something between your teeth, and your tongue knows where it is, but your hand can't be pulled out."

Children are the greatest meaning for parents to live.

. This reminds me of a joke I have seen before. Dad went shopping with his son and passed by a toy store. His son stared at a toy inside through the window for a long time.

Dad asked: Do you like it?

Son: I like it!

Dad said, just watch it for a while if you like.

So, they saw it from morning till night. ...

The embarrassment of others has become a joke in our eyes.

Dad can't afford his son's favorite toys, and his son can't get what he wants. Both of them are embarrassed.

02. Disappointed with marriage, are you confident to leave?

There is a saying on the internet: I hope I am the kind of person who feels moved as soon as I meet, not the kind of person who feels good after weighing the pros and cons.

In my twenties, I have illusions about love, but reality is slapping me in the face.

I got married at an ignorant age. The man who is willing to marry you loves you, and it took several years to find out that it was just my wishful thinking.

My stomach trouble recurs, and I can't digest what I eat every day. I feel terrible. Because I dare not go to the hospital for gastroscopy, I have been planning to go alone these days.

He said to me, "Who doesn't have a little stomach trouble?"

The implication is that I don't have to go to the hospital and waste money.

For the first time, I feel that money is more important than me in his eyes.

When my eldest daughter was about to be born, my mother-in-law accompanied me to the hospital for examination. The due date is coming, and the doctor advised me to be hospitalized.

After he knew it, he accused me of saying, "My mother doesn't know, and you don't understand? The hospital is lying to you, you haven't been born to the hospital yet. "

In my nervous and scared days, instead of comforting him, he added fuel to the fire, which made me disheartened.

Repeated injuries have made my expectations for marriage much less. I won't hurt anyone, and I can barely get by, but the reality won't go according to your expectations. Repeated concessions will only make the other side worse.

It's useless for him to accuse me. I haven't done anything for so many years.

Self-esteem and pride completely collapsed at that moment, and I felt that my courage to live was almost exhausted.

I want a divorce, but I have no money. If I divorce, I will return to the state when I just graduated in my twenties, and my courage to leave will be much reduced, leaving me at the crossroads.

If I have worked hard to run my own business in the past few years, I can simply and neatly say no to junk marriage.

Lack of money is a gap in front of me, which makes me afraid to fight for my happy life.

03. My mother's illness made me despair.

Read such a news:

Because my mother suddenly got leukemia, she needed 800 thousand for surgery. As the eldest son of the family, looking at the weak mother, the elderly father and the younger brother, Wang Hao really couldn't come up with the mother's life-saving money. Finally, while his father went to the hospital, Wang Hao committed suicide by jumping off a building.

It is no exaggeration to say that a penny is worth a penny.

There is a saying: a person can live without money, but he can't help but be afraid of money and can't even have the minimum guarantee.

Sometimes, money is life. Can you still say that money is not important?

04. Making money hard is what a person should look like.

Speaking of Baby Zhang, people are familiar with it. A song "All My Bitterness and Sorrow" is popular all over the country.

But what waited for her immediately after the explosion was boundless silence. She hasn't worked for five years.

In order to survive, she went to Chinese opera for further study and switched to acting, but there were not many opportunities and she was rejected before seeing the group.

She tried to tear off the label that once brought her a "sour and sweet" aura, but the reality made you confused.

In the first season of I am a singer, she asked Wu Xiubo, "Uncle Bo, you were a singer. How to overcome it and how to face it? "

Wu Xiubo admits that he has not only been a singer, but also opened restaurants and companies. There is no way out, so he can only be an actor, and that is to live.

He said, "Someone else played it once. After I have played once, I will think about it fifty times, take him seriously and like him. Maybe this business can repay you. "

No one can succeed casually without experiencing wind and rain, and no one has been busy in vain. Behind those who have made great achievements, there must be extraordinary hardships and efforts.

We tend to be stingy with our own efforts, but we are also troubled by the present situation of life. We obviously worked hard, but we didn't get any reward, but we didn't know that our efforts were far from enough.

Our efforts are like a dragonfly, but we expect big waves to wash sand. We have a deep misunderstanding about our efforts.

Hard work is to go all out and pay more hardships and efforts than ordinary people.

There is a saying that:

The real meaning of work is the capital for you to settle down, the platform for you to realize your self-worth, the money for you to eat, raise your baby and be filial to your parents, and the fear of waking up in the middle of the night.

Hard-working people are well aware of this, and these are the driving forces of their efforts.

The so-called high salary, in fact, there is no shortcut, nothing more than working hard and dying.

In order to let their children experience the beauty of this world and grow up happily;

In order to have the courage to leave when the marriage is desperate.

In order to give more protection to relatives and give more confidence to life;

We have no reason not to be cruel to ourselves, because our family is waiting for your care, and our lives are saved by ourselves.

Hard work is the attitude that life should have. Let's go