A woman in Hubei married a neighbor's house and "shared food" with her family. What are the advantages and disadvantages of marrying too close?

Many parents want their daughters to marry near home, not too far away. Because marrying closer can let the mother see her daughter's situation and return to her parents' home when her daughter is wronged, it can be seen that marrying closer is good for the girl. Of course, everything has advantages and disadvantages, and marrying too close is also harmful. For example, some small quarrels at ordinary times can easily lead to wars between two families.

First, the benefits of getting married.

It can be said that there are many advantages for girls to get married. Because of the close marriage, I can return to my parents' house quickly when my husband's family is wronged. Most importantly, you can always go home to see your mother when you are near. When you reach a certain age, you miss your parents very much, worry that your parents are ill at home and get married soon, so you can go back to take care of your parents and let them visit you often, which will bring some happiness to the elderly. Of course, when you get married and have conflicts with your husband, you also have family support. Don't always look at the faces of your husband and in-laws.

Second, the disadvantages of marriage.

In fact, there are still some disadvantages to getting married. Because the family relationship is close, the in-laws know each other and have relations with some relatives and friends, so whenever something happens, it is always easy to spread. For example, a little quarrel with my husband generally doesn't matter in the future, but the older generation will exaggerate and spread it out constantly, which will damage their image. There is also consanguineous marriage. Nine times out of ten, my husband and myself will take root in this place, and it is difficult to go out and see the outside world. Sometimes getting close is a mistake, and it's not good for too many people to know the details.

Many things are hard to be perfect, and so is marriage. When you choose to marry someone you like, there are bound to be some problems. When it is difficult to choose, we can choose the one with the greatest benefit to make ourselves obey. The same is true of consanguineous marriage. There is a reason why parents often ask us to find a closer boyfriend. It can be seen that the advantages of marrying near outweigh the disadvantages, and sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing to listen to your parents.