Why not eat minced meat for education? The joke is there

In history, Emperor Hui of Jin Dynasty was laughed at for thousands of years because he said: "The people have no corn to satisfy their hunger, so why not eat minced meat?"

Today, it is not uncommon.

It is understandable that Emperor Hui of Jin did not realize the sufferings of the people. After all, he was living in the palace compound. He had been well-dressed and well-fed since he was a child, enjoying wealth and splendor. He was objectively isolated from the world.

But many children today are subjectively isolated from reality.

In the morning, Xixi said: "Mom, hurry up the courier and ask him to deliver my toys as soon as possible."

"Xixi, the weather is so hot, express delivery The uncles are also working hard, so we have to understand them. You don’t like doing things under the sun, do you?”

“But mom, aren’t they driving?”

"It's also very hot when driving."

"There is air conditioning in the car."

"Who told you there is air conditioning in the car?"

"Dad's car has air conditioning."

"Not all cars have air conditioning. Many couriers even drive tricycles to deliver express delivery..."

Unfortunately, He still missed his toys and couldn't understand why the courier would drive a car without air conditioning.

So, I came up with the idea of ??taking him to wait for the express delivery at the door, and let him see how the sweating courier delivered the express delivery to him.

I remember reading an interview about Jet Li. He said that when he was a child, he really wanted a bicycle and pestered his mother for a long time, and finally her mother bought it for him.

But later, his mother took him to buy groceries and participate in the family's expenses, and he realized that the bicycle was their family's living expenses for several months.

His mother didn’t say anything to him, but he was ashamed and sold the bicycle on the second-hand market.

Children have their own conscience, but they also have greed.

Why do some children restrain their greed and take on family responsibilities? Some children are becoming more and more greedy and take it for granted?

Parents have an unshirkable responsibility.

"No matter how hard it is, it will not hurt the children" is the biggest lie. It uses all the strength of a family to compress everyone's space, just to satisfy the children's various wishes, or even to exceed the expectations of the children.

This is not love, this is harm.

As a member of the family, children should participate in the construction of the family, not just ask for it. As he grows older and gradually assumes corresponding responsibilities, he will become more and more responsible.

We cannot suppress our children’s desires and tell them that everything will be possible if they work hard when they are full of yearning for a better life. But we cannot fully satisfy our children and do our best to satisfy them when they ask for them.

This degree is indeed difficult to grasp.

My husband is still wise. He once told me that you should not be too anxious and just treat your children as part of the family, and they are ordinary people like you and me.

Because it is ordinary, there is no need to be praised by the stars.

Because we are ordinary, we have rights and obligations.

You must let him understand that nothing can be obtained by just opening your mouth.

The hand that moves the cradle moves the world.

Educate children’s minds and plan for the future.

Good night!