How do college students cultivate themselves?

[Introspection] A mass of snow-white sponge can not only absorb water, but also be easily contaminated with dirt. If it is polluted, it is quite difficult to clean it. For a colorful, complicated and colorful world, we should keep an unshakable heart, always pay attention to our words and deeds, ask ourselves, and never slack off. Lu Ziri said, "I save myself three times a day." After years of self-reflection, constantly checking what we have done wrong and what we need to improve, summing up experience and learning lessons, we will naturally have a modest and broad heart. Ambition Great ambition can only be achieved through hard work. Poverty and poverty do not prevent a person from being ambitious and doing great things. "the poor are determined" and "the quiet are far away, indifferent to clear aspirations". Success lies in diligence and the accumulation of ideas. Nature is important, and then a day's hard work is the most important. I think everyone understands that stupid birds fly first. It's late at night, late at night. [Self-restraint] Everyone wants to talk eloquently, but without profound cultural background and solid refutation, they will only fall into affectation, mystify and tie their hands and feet. Everyone wants beauty, The Story Of Diu Sim's looks, but no noble conduct. Being a man with three strokes and four styles and being a woman with an affair will only leave a lasting legacy and a lasting stigma. Dr. Hu Lang told us: "Purulent blood and bones" and "handsome men and beautiful women" are just different in the way of atomic layer stacking, and there is no difference in essence! "Strengthen your self-restraint! Man's cultivation is a gradual process. We should do a lot of things to improve our self-cultivation. Don't do it because of small evils, and don't do it because of small goodness! Luz, a disciple of Confucius, does not feel inferior in front of the rich because he is in rags, because he has innate talent and knowledge. [Adversity] Life is not smooth sailing. Facing adversity, giving in inappropriately, facing hardship and fatigue are physical and mental tests for people. Only those who are hungry and cold will work harder and achieve their careers. There are many books in the world. Reading is to increase your knowledge and broaden your horizons. Some books have survived for a long time and undoubtedly have strong vitality. Whether it's for self-cultivation or for Qiang Bing, a rich country, you should study all your life! As mentioned earlier, when Jiangnan read through the three books, it was a stroke, and it was felt without finishing. Note: Three books: Hong Yingming [Ming] wrote "Caigen Tan", Hong Yingming [Ming] wrote "In the Small Window" and Wang Yongbin [Qing] wrote "Night Talk Around the Furnace", and said that "China people must read three books for self-cultivation". They believe that inflexible people are the mother of virtue and goodness, practice all kinds of good laws, break doubts, show love and show nirvana. -A critic of Hua Yan Jing once said: "Observing things should be as big as birds in the air and as small as reptiles on the ground. "That is to say, on the one hand, we should look down on the whole and omit the details; On the other hand, we should enlarge the details with a microscope and look at them with a perspective. Without these two eyes, you can only see the general situation, but you can't see the characteristics of the individual; Otherwise, there will be a situation of "only seeing trees, not seeing forests", and you can't know the whole leopard from a glimpse. People can't be biased. If they are psychologically biased towards either side, they will lose themselves. Buddhism is an out-and-out golden mean, which advocates "looking at the individual as a whole and looking at the whole from the individual". This is not just a bird's eye view or a worm's eye view to observe each other, but to get to know each other better through each other, that is, to achieve a "man and me" situation. Therefore, an inflexible and stubborn person often sticks to his own opinions, can't accept each other but can understand each other, and often conflicts with others. " Color is no different from space. " The phenomenon (color) seen by the naked eye has no entity (space). So the existence of matter is a phenomenon. Due to numerous reasons and conditions, matter is constantly changing, and there is absolutely no unchanging entity. Nothing is a different color. Everything that exists in this world has no substance. But because the naked eye can only observe the phenomenon, but can't see the entity, it can only assume that the phenomenon remains unchanged and that the phenomenon that the eye can see exists. "Color is empty, and emptiness is color" means that what the eyes see is neither existence nor nothingness. It is not subject to any constraints. Only by understanding these two aspects can we see the truth. According to an instructor who is in charge of training pilots, to be an excellent pilot, you must have two abilities: centralized (comprehensive) and decentralized (analytical). The plane has nothing to support it. If you want to fly in the air without any entity, you must always pay attention to the changes of altitude, direction, temperature, air pressure and other tangible information (color) such as instruments. When flying, the flight data should be completely consistent with the actual situation; But in the actual operation process, the actual situation is often different from the displayed data. For example, on the other side of the mountain at an altitude of 500 meters, the actual flying height is 600 meters, and the instrument shows 1000 meters. At this time, if the pilot blindly relies on the instrument display, the consequences are not difficult to imagine. In this case, the pilot must first accurately understand all kinds of situations and information, and then take calm, sensitive and decisive countermeasures according to the situation at that time. So is our daily life. When the surrounding situation changes, if the parties still stick to the rules and don't know how to make appropriate changes, they will be isolated and finally regret it. I am not a saint and I am not stupid to those who are regarded as useless. I'm just an ordinary person. Article 17 Some people in the constitutional world are considered useless by others. Being reprimanded by superiors and despised by colleagues in the company is very painful. A radio station once played a section called "Genius? Scholar? Fool "program. Q: "What is a fool?" The genius said, "I don't know. "The scholar said," I don't know. I'll look it up in the dictionary. " The fool said, "Don't worry. "Therefore, even if you are regarded as a fool, don't care. If you think you are really a little stupid, then it is the best policy to find the cause and remedy it quickly. Don't comment on things you don't know, or you will be doubly stupid. When muny was alive. There was an apprentice named Zhou Lipante, who was often laughed at by others because of his plain qualifications. Zhou Lipan is straightforward by nature, and the Buddha is very sympathetic and concerned about him. Shi Zun called him to his side and warned him earnestly: "Shut your mouth and don't reveal your meaning;" Don't do things you shouldn't do; If you can really remember this, you will make progress. "It took several years for Zhou Lipan to finally remember the master's teachings. So Shi Zun said to him, "It took you three years to learn this sentence. Now I want to tell you the meaning of this sentence. "The ten evils of life are the three evils of body, mouth and heart. Among them, there are three evils, namely, killing, stealing,; There are four evils in the mouth, namely, nonsense, two tongues, bad mouth and foul language; There are three evils, namely greed, anger and Jaken. " Together, these crimes are called heinous. As long as you can avoid heinous crimes, you can get a thorough understanding. "Zhou Lipan followed the teacher's instruction and practiced devoutly. Soon, the doubts and puzzles in his heart gradually disappeared, and he finally became a thoroughly understood person. One day, the Buddha sent Zhou Lipante to teach Buddhism to 500 female disciples. Many disciples thought, "that fool is going to preach to us and see what he can say." If he comes, we must refute him. "Zhou Lipante finally came, and he said," Everyone knows that I am a slow-witted fool. I have only learned one sentence in my life, but I can go on from beginning to end ... "The whole Dojo suddenly fell silent. Those who had intended to embarrass him were tongue-tied. Once, the Buddha took Zhou Lipante into the palace to be king, and Zhou Lipante was stopped by the guards at the door. So Zhou Lipante had to wait outside the door. The Buddha went in to explain the situation to the king and told him that Zhou Lipante was the awakened one. Wang Wei asked: "I heard that he is a fool and only learned one sentence;" "How can a person like him fully understand?" Shi Zun smiled and said, "Your Majesty, I don't know much. Practice is very important. Yes, he only knows one sentence I taught him, but he can thoroughly understand the truth and work hard, so he can keep his body, mouth and mind clean. " French sentence classics? The fable says, "Even if you can recite thousands of poems, if you can't understand the true meaning, you might as well learn only one important sentence, but you can get rid of evil." "In other words, reciting a thousand words without getting to the point is better than following a mantra all the time." Many people are chanting and don't understand what the meaning and function are. It is better to understand a sentence thoroughly and then practice it, which is more in line with Buddhism and Taoism. "This passage just confirms the above story. It is also recorded in the scripture that Muny, who released the trace, only taught Zhou a scripture: "Descaling. "After years of reciting and practicing, he finally understood this truth. Hong Yingming also said in "Caigen Tan": "The understanding is not far, and there are not many interests. Between the pots and stones, there is actually a trend of mountains and rivers in Wan Li; In a few words, we can see the hearts of all the ancient sages. This is the vision of Gao Shi and the mind of Ren Da. "Meaning and Buddha said. Give lonely people a clear reason to know the way of birth and death of all things, so always work hard and practice meditation; People who have suffered a lot will never leave their hearts. The legacy of teaching is really unbearable when no one has to talk to him and he has to live alone. Even people who hate the declining world and like to be alone can be alone for a few days. But if it takes a long time, it won't be crazy, and it will be crazy. 1At the end of 994, a Japanese Mr. A went to the United States to work alone. His first stop was Hawaii. He lived in Massachusetts for a while and Colorado for ten years. He has a special feeling about loneliness. At that time, due to various conditions, Mr. A had to work abroad for at least five years according to the contract. His trip to the United States is very small, and it is even more difficult to return to Japan. I was homesick when I first came. Not only was my work unsatisfactory, but I often suffered from insomnia. Mr. B, a Japanese travel explorer in Meiji era, went to China inland Xinjiang alone. He traveled around Hankou and was trapped by loneliness, expressing the feeling that "Heaven should not complain, but it should be silent". "When there is nowhere to talk about loneliness, many people talk and masturbate by singing, drinking and crying, so that they can temporarily forget loneliness. At that time, Mr. A had no friends and no way to comfort himself. I really don't know how to get rid of his melancholy. At this time, the words "the only son died alone and came and went alone" in the Infinite Life Sutra suddenly jumped into Ah Jun's eyes, meaning: "No matter life or death, people come and go alone. "These eight words are like a blow, which makes him realize that he is a lonely person. Even if he returns to China, he can't change this fact, and his mood naturally becomes cheerful. Shi Shicheng, a Japanese writer and poet, once said, "My hometown is a distant existence for me. "However, no matter who you are, once you stay away from mulberries, you will always feel homesick; Even if you return to your hometown, you may not be able to guarantee a lifetime of happiness. Therefore, it is better to be more calm with the feeling of "being at home in the world". " People are born lonely, which is a "fundamental". In this case, we don't need to transfer this loneliness to others, and we don't need to blame the environment. Instead, we need to understand it from another angle and reach a state of "loneliness but not loneliness". In this way, you will unconsciously calm your inner anxiety and devote yourself to your work. Never give up on yourself, have the courage to challenge loneliness and enhance your self-confidence. Don't miss your hometown too much, turn homesickness into the driving force for pursuing your ideal. When you get home, you will have a better mood.