What if you want to get married and can't find a girl?

If you really want to get married, you can only get in touch with the opposite sex around you and see if there is a suitable person.

I remember a story about a rich lady who has been waiting to get married since she was twenty years old.

Ten conditions are put forward for men.

With the growth of age, every year, one condition is removed.

At the age of 30, there is only one condition for choosing a spouse-as long as it is a man.

Of course, this is a joke, and we can laugh it off.

However, it also reflects from the side that with the growth of age, both men and women will have lower mate selection conditions.

Why many of us relax the conditions of choosing a spouse when we reach a certain age is simple: because most of the people you are looking for should be married, and the rest can't be said to be poor, but the range of choices is narrow.

For example, when you are in your twenties, there are a dozen people to choose from; But by the age of 30, there are probably only one or two people in your social circle who meet your requirements. Whether you can watch it or not is another matter. The probability is invisibly reduced a lot.

So what should we do? Can only be to expand the search scope.

1. Ask relatives, friends and colleagues to introduce more good-looking boys or girls.

2. Know the opposite sex through dating sites. For example, find your other half through social apps, WeChat and qq. Of course, the premise is that you should be careful not to be cheated. Because there are so many people on the Internet, it's hard for you to tell the good guys from the bad guys.

I saw a news that an aunt in her fifties pretended to be a girl and fell in love with a man in order to make money.

Generally, there are many marriage agencies in our city, so it is a good choice to find a more reliable one.

However, we need to polish our eyes and make sure it is not Tojo.

4. Finally, take part in more activities in the same city, make more friends, expand your circle of friends, and tell people you know that you are looking for someone, and they will also pay attention to you in peacetime.

When you meet the right person, you must be bold and brave to pursue it. Don't hide our love in your heart because you are shy, afraid that others don't like us, afraid that the other party will refuse, and afraid of losing face.

So you will never have a chance to find the right lover.

If you still don't like a person, then you should think about whether your mate selection conditions are high or whether you don't know enough about marriage and love and don't know what kind of object to find.

If you are too perfect in some way, you can lower the conditions. As long as it doesn't touch the bottom line, it's not a matter of principle.

For example, you originally asked the other person to be 1.8 meters, but the other person is good at everything, that is, 1.75 meters. We can discuss it completely!

But if you think this matter can't be discussed, it must be 1.8 meters, so don't talk about it, because even if you get married, you will still care and maybe break up. Why bother?

Love is also about fate, which can be met but not sought.

No matter how anxious you are, you must take your time.

If you are not satisfied with the blind date, you can think of other ways, but don't force it.

It is important that if you want to get married, you must make more friends of the opposite sex, expand your search scope and have a correct understanding of marriage and love.