Grandpa said: these two kinds of people at the class reunion, it is best to stay away from them, which is easy to cause trouble.

In our life, we often call the relationship between people very good, that is, the relationship is very iron. Now the most fashionable way to greet others on the Internet is Lao Tie, which actually comes from this.

Someone once summed up the four irons of life: "We open our crotch together, cross the window together, carry guns together, and get dirty together." Of course, being too dirty here is not doing bad things, but having the same secret. Doing these four things together shows that the feelings between people are really good.

In particular, the friendship between classmates begins with youth, not innocence, and memories are beautiful. So people nowadays are particularly keen on holding homecoming, but after attending several times, I found that homecoming has changed its taste. It has become a place where everyone compares with each other and looks for contacts. There is no longer a simple classmate situation in the past.

I accidentally talked about it at home. My grandfather knows a lot about human nature. He told me that school and society are two worlds. After graduation for many years, many people have become sophisticated from wet behind the ears. We yearn for the beauty of the past and accept the filth of reality, and people will become. Grandpa said: these two kinds of people at the class reunion, it is best to stay away from them, which is easy to cause trouble.

First, people who show off themselves.

In fact, in school, although everyone's family conditions are different, everyone's main energy is concentrated on learning. The communication between classmates has nothing to do with money. Everyone is competing for results, not who has more money.

But by the time of the class reunion, everyone was talking about what achievements everyone had made, who bought a mansion, who changed into a luxury car, who became a leader and who became a boss after starting a business.

There is also a higher level of show-off, crying poor and showing off wealth. Some people say that although the annual salary is one million, you can't afford a villa in Shanghai. Some people say that nothing went smoothly this year, and they lost tens of millions in stock trading. A good class reunion turned into a show-off party. If you are just an ordinary working class, you can only be a background board for others, and use your mediocrity to set off the success of others.

This ostentatious attitude is actually a sign of lack of confidence. I am afraid of being looked down upon, so I whitewash myself with money. Such people only care about their own happiness, but they don't know how to take care of others' feelings. It will be wronged to associate with them, and it is best to stay away from them.

Second, people who want to take advantage.

Some people are keen to attend class reunion. In fact, it's not just to keep in touch with classmates' friendship, but to make use of classmates' relationship to build your own contacts. Make friends with classmates and ask them for help if you have something.

There is such a relationship between classmates, no matter whether they are familiar with each other in the past. Many people have achieved more or less in their own fields. Students come to ask for jobs. Most people are often taken advantage of because they can't refuse because of their face.

These people who love to take advantage of others, if they really have difficulties, it doesn't matter if they ask others for help. Some people think that other people's careers are developing well, so they want to cooperate with others under the banner of win-win cooperation. In fact, they can't come up with any useful value to others, just want to get something for nothing and enjoy success.

For this kind of person who wants to take advantage, be soft-hearted. If you help him once, he will make more demands. If you feel embarrassed and refuse him, he will not only be ungrateful for your past help, but also spread your unkindness everywhere. So you must stay away from such people to avoid disasters and troubles.

There is a jingle of class reunion that deserves our deep thought: "Class reunion is not easy. Don't get together for fame and fortune, talk more about friendship and less about money, and keep in touch happily. " Have you met these two kinds of people I mentioned at the class reunion?