How can we cultivate a child with strong opinions? What problems should we pay attention to?

Children's world is a fairy tale world full of novelty, adventure and imagination. Parents should consider their children from their perspective, fully understand their children, and should not use their parents' privileges to suppress them, make the best use of the situation and give them enough respect.

First, respect the wishes of children. Parents should not be too strong. They should make decisions for their children, and their opinions should be the main ones. Parents only guide and assist, as long as it does not involve standards and safety issues, and respect the wishes of children. It is easier said than done to let children choose what to eat and what clothes to wear. For example, the so-called "picky eaters", there is a joke that adults never picky eaters. Because they don't buy dishes they don't like, many adults will say that the dishes are not delicious when their children don't like them or have different tastes. We don't eat them, and the food is better.

Second, when children take the initiative to complete something, they should be sure in time.

Third, prevent criticism. Perhaps children's lack of ideas is formed by parents' criticism. Praise more. How encouraging. You can also ask your child what he thinks in family activities. If you can't do it, you'd better encourage. Children usually bear more encouragement and recognition and have a higher sense of self-worth, so they will be more confident and brave to express themselves.

Fourth, take him to some difficult activities, and after hard work, he will also increase his confidence. Self-confidence will certainly become more and more creative.

5. Calm down. In fact, don't take no idea as a big problem. You will find that there are too many ideas in life, and people who are opinionated are quite annoying.

Sixth, find the advantages of the child, not the defects, and affirm and encourage him to carry forward his advantages. You will find that there are fewer and fewer defects and more and more advantages, and children are more and more confident and naturally have ideas. Parents must be clear and decisive in front of their children, so as to influence them subtly. If a child has an indecisive tendency or habit, help him to correct it immediately, and don't let it sprout in the child, otherwise it will ruin the child's opportunity for future progress.

To sum up, look at the good side of children and praise them more. What children are not good at and do badly should be encouraged. We should tolerate or guide children's different choices instead of attacking and criticizing them.