College expenses have always been earned by my girlfriend's part-time job. Now I have graduated, but what should I do if I find that I don't love her?

"Every time you kill a dog, you are a scholar." You really interpreted this sentence incisively and vividly, and really gave the reader a long face. When you are in trouble, like a vampire, you rely on your girlfriend to support you and provide you with education. Now that you are promising and capable, you forget all about the past and want to kick your girlfriend away. Seriously, your character really doesn't deserve your girlfriend. And with such a poor personality, it is difficult to make great achievements in the future.

Have you calculated it? How much does it cost for your girlfriend to go to college for four years?

1. Tuition

At present, the average annual tuition and accommodation for full-time undergraduates is about 5,000 yuan. The better the school, the cheaper the tuition. The worse the school, the more expensive the tuition and accommodation. Let's calculate it according to 5,000 yuan a year. The total cost of four years of college should be at least 20,000 yuan.

2. Living expenses

You only said that college tuition was earned by your girlfriend, not where the living expenses came from. Your family is poor, so it is estimated that it is difficult to provide living expenses. Work-study program is very hard, and it is difficult for anyone to carry it down. Probably, your four-year college living expenses are also sponsored by your girlfriend. Let's calculate according to 1000 yuan/month. It costs 9,000 yuan to go to school for 9 months every year. Four years in college is thirty-six thousand. Let's add up all the money, that is: 20,000+36,000 = 56,000.

Besides, it is impossible for you not to be together for four years in college. I'm sure I can see you several times a year. Don't worry about the cost, it must be your girlfriend's. After four years of college, your girlfriend may spend more than 60 thousand yuan to support your study and fall in love with you.

3. How can a girl with a monthly salary of 3,000 to 4,000 save to spend 60,000 to 70,000 in four years?

Your girlfriend's salary is only three or four thousand a month, and she earns about 50 thousand a year. Food, clothing, housing and transportation cost money, clothes cost money, and cosmetics cost money. With such a low income, few girls can save money.

It can be said that your girlfriend lives a very frugal life in order to provide you with education. You can't even pay back this friendship. She puts the focus of her life entirely on you.

If a person has a conscience debt, he will have a lifelong psychological shadow. You may be able to repay the money you spent. But there is no other way to pay off the feelings you owe except to be kind to this girl all your life.

I have an uncle in my family, and the situation is similar to yours. When he was young, his family was poor and he went out to work alone. My wife is dragging two children at home without complaining.

This uncle is also a courageous man, who dares to fight and fight. Finally, I also spelled out a career and opened a small factory in Jiangsu. Once a person has money, it is particularly easy to float. After the uncle became rich, he also made a mistake. I have a crush on a female college student who just graduated, and they are in love. He is going to divorce and then marry this female student.

This is almost the contemporary "Chen Shimei". The elders in the family are furious, and it's no use persuading them. Then people in the village also told it as a joke after dinner. The aunt who took care of the children at home became more and more sad and died of drinking pesticides in a rage.

This event became a great event, and the elders of the family went to Jiangsu in person and brought this uncle back. In the end, the uncle didn't get married, and the two children of the poor family lost their mother at such a young age. It's really hard for a man to meet a girl who is dead set on being nice to you in his life. Your girlfriend is definitely a good wife and mother, so cherish it.