Why do some people keep it secret when they are in love? What do they think?

Some people are naturally introverted and unwilling to disclose their relationships. The reason for not disclosing it is just because of my shy personality, not because I don't care about the relationship. It’s not that I’m worried about being found out, but I’m worried about the strange looks from others when they find out. Such girls are usually sensitive and care about other people's emotions and what people around them think of them. If you are willing to live as others see you, you cannot find ways to make yourself happy. If you are too concerned about external perceptions, you will not be able to openly disclose this relationship. No matter how much I like it, I can't expose it to the broad daylight because of my own psychological barrier.

There are also some people who think that making it public would be a burden, but not making it public would be better for both of them. It is not difficult to be public, but it becomes difficult after it is public. For example, your relationship will always receive attention. Colleagues, friends, and family will always ask, "How are you doing recently?" "When are you planning to get married?" "I'm in a bad mood today. Did I have a quarrel?" It's not the fear of being public, but the fear of being public. I feel that my privacy will be invaded if it is made public, and I feel embarrassed and embarrassed. It doesn't feel like two people are in love, but like they are in love with a group of friends and family of each other. This type of girl is usually afraid of trouble, likes to be free, and likes to be respected rather than violated.

Some people are not confident in themselves. The lack of confidence in oneself and the relationship, and the low self-esteem deeply rooted in one's bones, cannot be eliminated at once. I was afraid that it would turn into a joke in the end, so I hid it, avoided it, and liked it cautiously. But the outcome will never be different because of your caution. Some people have a destiny that they are destined to miss. Some people have some fate and are destined to have them. It's not difficult to expose the relationship. As long as there are no messy and dark sounds, she is still happy. Rather than being exposed, she prefers to live her own life quietly.

The last one that is not disclosed is more scheming, because they may just use you as a backup. If you feel that you can't make a difference, keep a spare tire, and don't want to affect your being liked by others, it all means you don't like them. I have seen a couple around me fall in love, and this is what girls do. When you go out to eat on social media, you are always the only one. When you see your colleagues, you quickly throw away your hands and tell the truth with a smile. Everyone around your boyfriend knows about the girl, and the girl’s friends don’t even know if she is in love. The girl also admitted generously: "I don't want to make it public because I'm worried that it will influence other boys to chase me." I think she is devoted to you, but in fact she is just raising a fish pond. You can only judge and understand for yourself whether it is true or false. As for the truth that is open and not open, you can only experience it yourself. Respect when you should respect, consider when you should be considerate, and leave when you should, don't hesitate.