The old man always dotes on his children. What about the rules made by his mother?

After the baby can go, the baby's mother always complains to me that the good habit she finally developed can't last for two days at her grandmother's house. These old people always spoil their children and do whatever they want. In the long run, their education will definitely have problems. It is inevitable for the elderly to spoil their children, so how should the baby mother handle this problem?

1. First of all, the starting point for the elderly to spoil their children is definitely good, and I hope the baby will grow up healthily. So it's the same as my mother's, but the education method is different. Therefore, it is very important for mothers to communicate with the elderly. You can gently tell the old people and children what their bad temper is, how to educate them, and let them correct their bad habits, otherwise they will be rejected by society and so on. Generally speaking, if you communicate with the elderly in this way, the enlightened elderly will pay attention to it and there will be no unnecessary conflict.

2. Pay attention to the reminder. As the saying goes, one generation of relatives, one generation of relatives. Old people's love for children is irrational. Therefore, in the process of taking care of the children, the old man did something wrong, and the mother can point it out in time to prevent the children from developing bad habits from childhood. You can also find a family time to discuss this issue, not to condemn the elderly for not educating their children, but to come up with a good "plan" for the family to educate their children together.

3. Pay attention to the method. Old people have no malice in educating their children. A mother can tell the old people her children's shortcomings by complaining. For example, telling the elderly that children are laughed at by outsiders because they are impolite or unsanitary outside makes the elderly very depressed, and so on. You can also ask questions When you find that the child is spoiled by the old man, you can ask the old man about these bad habits, what should I do with the child, and so on. Old people know everything, and they will naturally pay attention to their own educational methods in the future education of their children. This also avoids the occurrence that the elderly feel wronged or fall into an embarrassing situation with each other.

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(This article comes from: Baidu baby knows scientific parenting)

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