What will you do when the child breaks the bowl?

The bosom friend said, "What will you do if the child breaks the bowl?" Please read the following:

Not long ago, I went to be a guest and made a table with some friends of my mother. One of them is an aunt with a daughter-in-law and granddaughter. The little girl is about four or five years old and can already eat porcelain bowls with chopsticks by herself.

Halfway through the meal, the little girl raised her hand to eat chicken legs. When she wanted to ask her mother for more, her elbow touched the bowl and fell to the ground and broke. The noise was so loud that it attracted everyone's attention. At this moment, her mother said angrily, why are you so stupid? Such a big man broke the bowl. See what to do this time. If you break it, you will have to pay for it. It's really worrying. I saw the little girl didn't cry at first, and looked at her mother with a little timidity. Her eyes were full of fear and she didn't know what to do. When her mother opened her mouth, she was scared to cry. She cried so hard that it was useless for grandma to coax her!

The little girl's grandmother said to her daughter-in-law, a bowl. As for children? You don't ask if you hit it, you care what that bowl is for. You don't want to think that you didn't break it. I even broke it while washing dishes! Seeing that the atmosphere at home is not quite right, we have to stop and say, nothing, just change another one. One bowl is not enough. Eat, the food is cold!

In the second half, I changed the bowl again. I saw that the little girl just bowed her head and ate the food in the bowl. She never told her mother what she wanted to eat again. Very quiet. After dinner, she only eats. I don't like it. I can't help but think of my experience of throwing a bowl when I was a child.

When I was a child, my family was in poor condition and my parents worked late, so I began to learn to cook at an early age. Although I can only cook the most homely side dishes, and the taste is very general, my parents didn't dislike them or enjoy them very much. One day, I just cut the meat and wanted to put a bowl in it, ready to fry it later. Who knows that there is oil in my hand, I didn't hold it firmly, and the bowl fell to the ground and broke. Looking at the broken porcelain on the ground, I am particularly afraid that my parents will come back and scold me. I quickly swept all the porcelain tiles and wondered whether I should tell my parents about it.

I still didn't dare to tell my parents about it when they came back in the evening. It was not until my mother finished washing the bowl that I carefully told my parents that I had broken the bowl. I bowed my head and dared not look at my parents, thinking that they must be very angry and would start to scold me. I didn't expect my parents not to scold me. My mother said first, did you hurt your hand? Just drop the bowl and don't hurt anyone. Then dad said, the next time there is oil and water on your hand, wipe your hand with a towel and take it again, so it won't fall off. It's okay. Go to sleep! At that time, I was very happy. My parents didn't scold me. Let me be careful next time and don't take the matter of breaking the bowl to heart.

Later, when I grew up, I occasionally broke the bowl. Sometimes when I watch my mother accidentally break the bowl while washing the dishes, I will laugh at her for breaking the bowl, and I don't feel anything angry about breaking the bowl at all. Nobody breaks it every day.

Now it seems that my parents didn't blame me for breaking the bowl, so I still have the heart to try and make mistakes instead of scaring myself down with imagination. Dad once said a word that impressed me deeply. He said that many things need to be learned and then put into practice. If you are not allowed to make mistakes, it is impossible to study. Practice makes perfect, no one is born. If you make a mistake this time, just learn from it next time! There is no need to go online, and there is no need to beat and scold.

Yes, just like that little girl was lively and cheerful, but she began to be cautious because of a broken bowl. I'm afraid she won't dare to go to such an occasion in the future! Sometimes you should give your child a chance to make mistakes, and don't jump to conclusions. We should educate children from the beginning, forgive their mistakes, guide them to find the right way, plant seeds in their hearts and give them the courage to try!

Children's self-esteem is very strong, we can't stare at some small mistakes and cut off their learning wings! Of course, mistakes in principle must be well educated and punished when necessary.

I hope a child will break the bowl again in the future, and don't let her become a frightened bird again.