Thoughts on "The Phone Calls Are Ringing"

I was terrified when I watched this movie. I watched "Mobile Phone" many years ago, and it said that a man's mobile phone hides the secrets of his mistress. A while ago, the filming of "Mobile Phone 2" annoyed Cui Daxia, and later Xiao Wu was investigated. Although "The Caller" is the Chinese version of the Italian movie "Perfect Strangers", judging from the content, it can really be regarded as "Mobile Phone 2" or "Mobile Phone 3".

In the movie, the three men Jiadi, Wu Xiaojiang, Wenbo and the woman Han Xiao are classmates. Li Nan is Wu Xiaojiang’s wife, Dai Dai is Wenbo’s wife, and Bai Xuejiao is Jiadi’s. fiancée. A few people gathering for dinner was originally a fun thing to do, but due to a game proposed by Jadi, it caused a lot of trouble and turned them into enemies. Of course, at the end of the film, everyone is told that the entire movie story was a script written by Jadi after being inspired at a party, not that they actually played the game. Wu Xiaojiang turned around on the screen and asked all the people watching the movie: "Do you dare to play this game?"

Haha, I seem to have heard of this game, where everyone puts themselves on the screen at a party. phone on the same plate. During the party, regardless of whether Shui’s mobile phone calls, if you want to answer it, you must press the hands-free button; no matter whose mobile phone calls WeChat or something, everyone can read it. Airplane mode, mute, etc. are not allowed.

To put it bluntly, during these few hours of gathering, everyone’s mobile phone information is completely open to the friends or spouses present. It does not allow you to disclose all the privacy originally stored in your phone.

But just playing it like this is terrifying.

Within a few hours, the following privacy was exposed:

Wu Xiaojiang watches beautiful women’s live broadcasts every day and keeps giving rewards to her. The other party reciprocates and sends him her body at 9 o’clock every night Welfare photos; his wife Li Nan played CP games with a stranger on the Internet. The man asked her to "not wear underwear" at a party, but she refused; Li Nan secretly contacted the nursing home and wanted to send her mother-in-law there.

The host couple is also very unhappy. Dai Dai is going to have breast augmentation surgery next Monday, but Wen Bo doesn’t know; Wen Bo is buying a house behind Dai Dai’s back; and the two of them actually "will never leave home after divorce". Not letting her daughter know, not only to prevent her parents from worrying about getting angry, but also to keep Wen Bo's perfect image in public.

While Jia Di was eating the soft rice of his young fiancee Bai Xuejiao, he also made Bai Xuejiao’s best friend pregnant; Bai Xuejiao, as a rich second generation, was very affectionate in front of everyone. , gentle and simple, but when he turns his face, he reveals his domineering and fierce side, "How dare you mess with my mother".

The last person exposed was the strong woman Han Xiao. Single, she once fell in love with an old foreign man who was many years older than her, and later fell in love with a "little wolfdog" who was many years younger than her. Now she is single, but she is about to commit suicide because she was threatened and harassed by her male boss. After she slept with her boss while drunk, her boss took an indecent video to coerce her into continuing to sleep with him.

These are privacy, things that cannot be known to others, even couples, classmates and friends. But once the mobile phone is out of control, it becomes a "grenade".

It seems that mobile phones are bad and have too many side effects, causing people to hide their shameful things on their mobile phones.

But it’s not, because mobile phones have more benefits. For example, people who love each other can communicate through video, and various emergency information can be delivered in a timely manner. Mobile phone navigation makes road addicts no longer afraid of driving alone. To the distance. etc.

This movie reflects human nature. "Humanity is no more than five inches." Men and women betray each other, eating from the pot and looking at what's in the basin. They are in the Cao camp and their hearts are in the Han Dynasty. Those men who have the conditions to do so want to have three wives and four concubines. Since the law does not allow it and there are moral restrictions, they can do it quietly. Women are lonely and lack love. They can occasionally do outrageous things, but people's words are terrible, so they can only do it quietly.

It seems to be a "crisis of trust", but what is it actually?

There is a psychiatrist Dai Dai in the movie. She seems to have failed in her life. She is a problematic wife in the eyes of her husband, and a problematic mother in the eyes of her daughter. In the movie, psychology seems to be a joke. But she expressed a message that woke up moviegoers - "communication is killing communication."

Human nature does not distinguish between good and evil, there is no right or wrong, let alone good or bad. The root cause of the problems exposed in the film is not mobile phones, nor does it mean that human nature is dark and ugly, but there are problems with people's communication.

The establishment and maintenance of intimate relationships, marriage relationships, friend relationships, mother-son-father-son relationships all require good communication between two hearts. But communication between souls first requires the opening of the soul. But due to various psychological reasons that they are not clearly aware of, it is difficult for people to bravely open their hearts. Without deep-seated communication barriers, people are accustomed to avoiding problems and looking for sensory stimulation to numb their painful hearts. Infidelity and betrayal may seem to be directed at one's spouse, but in fact they are all about finding balance and self-confidence. They want to prove through such behaviors that they are lovable, valuable, and worthy of being loved, paid attention to, and valued.

In the film, when privacy is revealed, the truth is exposed, and everyone blames each other and explains why they did what they did, it makes each other and the audience see the difficulty of everyone and the soul. The fragility and spiritual needs are the need for love and the need for one's own value to be affirmed.

Of course, human nature has many needs. What people need to do is not to use high-tech products such as mobile phones to help them realize and hide many "hidden" needs, but to face up to these needs and study these needs. Only by facing up to all the "hidden" needs can you The root of feeling "shame" is that only when people have enough self-confidence to believe that "nothing is difficult in the world, only those who are willing" can truly open their hearts and highly trust each other in all relationships, and make the relationship between people better. Make this world a better place.

Finally, if you are not a saint or a Buddha yet, it is better not to play this game yet.