Why is "teasing children" a bad way of education?

This behavior of teasing children with their sense of security and watching them make a fool of themselves is just a "fun" that bored adults find for themselves by teasing children. However, teased children can't cry, and parents can't be angry. Many people also call this kind of teasing behavior "Chinese teasing".

For children with limited cognitive ability, parents and elders are the embodiment of authority. Their thoughts, actions and language are correct.

Therefore, many jokes told by adults will make children believe it-the little girl thinks that grandpa really doesn't want her, and her childhood mother thinks that crying will really be poisoned.

This kind of "Chinese teasing children" actually only entertains adults, and children are the injured party.

"Chinese teasing children" has more harm than you can imagine.

I have read a survey about "bear" adults teasing children:

Top 1: "Bear" said to the child, "Your mother doesn't want you!"

Unfamiliar people kiss their children or touch their faces.

"Bear" asked the child, "Do you love your father or mother?"

Top4: Play with the boy's penis and make the child drink.

For children whose cognitive ability is still in the primary stage, these "teasing" only cover up the harm that adults' misconduct has brought to children-because they are "teasing" you, and if you cry, you are delicate; Because it is "teasing" you, you are not sensible when you resist; Because it's "teasing" you, you can't take it too seriously and endure it if you feel uncomfortable. ......

Therefore, when children can't fully express their wishes, parents should stand up and stop each other's teasing behavior. At the same time, show your attitude to the people around you: I know you like children, but children don't like being teased like this. He is still young and will take it seriously.

If, really embarrassed to say, then simply find a reason to take the child away, so as not to be so funny.

When the children are older, tell them that you can bravely refuse them when their behavior makes you feel uncomfortable.