Tell a few funny jokes.

1 Buddhists don't talk about love, but Buddhists talk about compassion.

Why does Buddhism say compassion instead of love? Because love has feelings, compassion has no feelings in this love, and it is pure reason.

Compassion and love in the world are the same thing, one is consciousness and the other is confusion.

There is no difference between love and compassion in matter, but in thought. One is fascinated and the other is conscious.

Love is called when you are lost, and compassion is called when you wake up.

The love of Buddha and Bodhisattva is called compassion, which is eternal and rational, and is the natural expression of mind and truth.

7 why can buddhas and bodhisattvas give up themselves for others? Compassion is used to promote.

People in the world have feelings. This kind of love is false and unreliable. Why? Will change, love will eventually become an enemy and an enemy, so that kind of love is false and unreliable.

The love of ordinary people, there is inequality in this love, and there is no sincerity in this love. Why is there no sincerity? That love will change and be unreliable.

10 Our great teachers in China once said, "If you don't care about love, there will be no concubine, and if you miss it, there will be no pure land".

1 1 Why do you suffer in the world of old women and work here as the six divisions of the wheel of karma? It is that your love is not broken, which is the root of the six divisions in the wheel of life and death of karma.

12 People all over the world attach great importance to the desire for love and take it for granted. All this is chaotic and upside down.

13 Only Buddha and Bodhisattva can see clearly and know how the six divisions in the wheel of karma happened. This is the mistake in this thought.

14 can really see through letting go of love, and you decide to go beyond the six divisions in causal reincarnation.

16 Many people read Buddhism, but few people died. Why? It is the constant desire for love.

17 The rope of love binds you, but Amitabha can't pull it. No way, it must be broken.

18 Breaking off diplomatic relations is definitely not heartless. To tell the truth, your love is fake, not true, but self-deception.

19 How do you know it's fake? I love you very much today, quarrel again tomorrow and divorce the day after tomorrow. You don't think it's fake? Where is it true!

How sweet it is when many young men and women are in love! Before long, he became an enemy and an enemy. It can be seen that that kind of love is true and false.

2 1 Calm down and think about whether love is true or not, and you will realize it.

The ancients got married for morality, human feelings and family happiness, not for love.

Nowadays, people get married for love. Love is fragile, love will change, so things that change in marriage are endless.

Some people don't understand Buddhism, and they hear that Buddhism will end their love forever, so they object. He said that if there is no love between people, what is the point?

Did the Buddha give up affection and love? That's not true. You know, his "breaking" is really a change, turning love into wisdom.

Buddhist scriptures often say, "Turn troubles into bodhi". Love is trouble, and Buddhism turns trouble into prajna wisdom.

Is there love in Prajna wisdom? Yes That love is not love, but compassion.

The love that people in the world talk about is false, not true; Become wisdom, which is real and eternal.

You must turn your troubles into bodhi, so that you can realize Buddhism and get rid of the six divisions in the wheel of karma.

What do you think Chinese and foreign literary works have written since ancient times? It's all love and affection, so he can never leave the six divisions in the wheel of karma.

3 1 Buddhism says "compassion", Buddha and Bodhisattva really love the world, and he really has love and affection.

Compassion is true love, eternal.

Compassion is revealed from true nature, and its roots remain unchanged, so its function and status quo remain unchanged.

Six ordinary people have no sincerity, no true feelings and no true love.

The hearts of ordinary people are unreliable, hypocritical and untrustworthy.

If you believe that others will be kind to you, then you are confused and confused.

Six ordinary people are vain. What they say is unreliable. Don't take it seriously You should take it seriously and decide to be fooled.

Not only can't trust people, but also can't trust yourself. Why? Your feelings will change.

I am good to this man today, but I will be bad to him tomorrow. I can't rely on myself. Can I rely on others?

The Buddha told us not to believe in ourselves if we didn't get the arhat card. If you can't trust yourself, how can you trust others?

4 1 People in this world are insincere and have hypocritical hearts. If you take it seriously, you will lose a lot!

We should look at all kinds of situations, people and things in the world as easily as possible. Don't think that we should look at it so lightly, as if this person is heartless and ungrateful, but it is easy to die.

Your love is too heavy, and your past life will be hindered.

If your love is heavy, you must engage in the six divisions in the karma wheel, and you must engage in the three evils.

Love is not a good thing, it will harm us from generation to generation; It is foolish to be reluctant to leave after this, and we must realize it.

We want to go to Elysium, of course, we have to let go of love, nostalgia, worries and things that we can't let go, so we can't go!

You must see through the truth of this fact, and from now on, all these grievances should be abandoned.

Don't think about love, just think about Amitabha, just think about Amitabha.

Namo amit Ba

~ get married ~

1 Married, look at this word created by our ancestors in China, full of wisdom! I am very opposed to simplifying words. Simplified characters destroy Chinese characters, and Chinese characters are words of wisdom. If you read this word, you will be inspired.

Look at the wedding, Kyrgyzstan is very lucky, it is a mess for you, how many floors have been bypassed. What is marriage? I get dizzy at the sight of women. Therefore, a clear mind will not do this thing, but a confused thing will not do it.

Look at the words created by China's ancestors, and you will wake up when you see the word "marriage". Don't get confused or entangled in it. Think about the love and lessons of ancient sages in China for their children and grandchildren. It is meticulous. China's writing is full of wisdom, so it cannot be changed.

Some people think that learning Buddhism is a terrible thing. Why? No love for learning Buddhism. What if there is no love? It sucks. In fact, after learning Buddhism, it is true love in Buddhism.

People in the world, although you think love is precious, it's all fake, fake, not true love, but fake love. I got married when I was in love, and I heard that I divorced two days later. That's not true love, it will change!

Unlike Buddha and Bodhisattva, the love of Buddha and Bodhisattva will never change. You respect him and he loves you; You vilify him and frame him, but he still loves you and never changes his mind. It's called Bodhi, and it's true. So true love is in Buddha, not on earth.

There is hypocrisy in the world, so make it clear, and don't be fooled. So I told you to be rational and not to get emotional easily. Emotion is the mystery, reason is the feeling, and reason should be the master.

Although there are feelings, feelings are born from reason, not from confusion and inversion, not from obsession, but from reason. This is what Buddhism says.

Usually, we don't talk about love. Call it compassion. Compassion is love. In other words, rational love is called compassion, which comes from the separation and persistence of feelings. One is the name of the fan, and the other is the name of consciousness. This place is different.

10 One year, a layman wrote me a letter. He met a girlfriend and wanted to get married. He asked me if I was all right. I sent him a postcard with the word "married" and told him to have a good look. He understood the meaning and wrote me a letter. He said, I'm not getting married.

He doesn't get married, does he? He is still wrong, still wrong. Buddhism stresses the middle way, and you can't fall on both sides! You're confused and confused. You fall on this side, and you fall on that side if you don't get married. What is this to teach you? You didn't faint when you got married, yes, it was the middle way!

12 Look at the word "marriage". Seeing a woman makes you dizzy. He won't get married unless he is dizzy, and he will get married if he is dizzy. China ancient ceremony, the wedding was held after dusk, definitely not in broad daylight.

13 If you have read The Book of Rites, you will know that China's past life was very interesting, and it really cooperated with the whole nature, so the life of China people was really interesting.

14 "home" can't be abandoned, but you can't be fascinated, wake up! It says "home". What's in the house? I can tell at a glance that it is a pig, and the pig is stupid! Tell you to see this, you should realize, don't be fascinated by it.

15 China's writing is really profound wisdom. For example, if you get married, you get married and don't cling to this family. That's what it means. Mind you, it's not that I don't want you to get married, it's not that I don't want to fascinate you! Don't cling to this, this is the first meaning of the middle way in Buddhism.

16 In this world, people are together. Honestly, there is no love. Love is fake, not real. You think it's stupid to have true love. How do you know it's fake? His love will change!

17 I love today, but I don't love tomorrow. I love you very much today, and two people got married. Divorce in two days, the court divorced. It can be seen that love is false, not true.

18 The Buddha told us not to believe what you mean until you get the arhat card. If you can't believe what you mean, how can you trust others? I really can't believe what I mean, it is ever-changing!

19 Buddhism talks about practice. The first thing is to ask us to develop bodhicitta, which is sincere and will never change. Any heart that can be changed is false. You calm down and think about whether love is true or not, and you will realize it.

Buddhism is really based on wisdom. Today we are talking about reason, not emotion. I hope fellow initiates can understand this calmly.

2 1 Buddha and our saints in China are not completely opposed to marriage between men and women, no, and they are not opposed. Why? You don't want to go out of the three realms

If you don't want to go out of the three realms, you must obey secular laws, even secular laws, and don't confuse them. This is the lesson that the sages taught us, and it is also our expectation.

The combination of ancient husband and wife is not love. What was it in ancient times? Parents' orders, matchmakers' words. Mr. Wang and Mrs. Wang have never met. How can they fall in love? Not in love.

Why did ancient people get married? Two people have the same goal in life and help each other achieve the ideal goal. To tell the truth, that goal is not love.

Nowadays, people get married for love, and love will change, so things that change in marriage are endless. The present marriage is a combination of feelings, which is very fragile and easily broken.

The ancients did it for morality, he understood reason, he understood reason, and he knew his obligations, so he was a combination of righteousness and reason. This is the complete difference between modern marriage and ancient marriage.

Once upon a time, I was very cautious about getting married. I am young and ignorant, and my parents and elders are experienced. They are here to help you choose a partner, which is related to your happiness in life!

In the past, weddings were very complicated. Why are they so red tape? Is to tell you that marriage is not easy, never divorce. Your home is good, the country is good, and home is the foundation of the country.

Now that democracy is open, if you can keep the concept of ancient sages and sages, then your family must be very happy.

When you get married, you should take the goal of life as the first important thinking criterion, and you can't be obsessed with feelings, which will definitely be painful.

3 1 because the mood changes too much, a person's mood will be different in the morning and evening. How can we guarantee what kind of mentality tomorrow will be! Therefore, the emotional changes are too great to be reliable. This feeling of people in the world will change, ever-changing and unreliable!

We Buddhists are more calm. If you say you like me and love me, I will nod and won't believe you. Why? Knowing that it is false is hypocrisy. So don't take it seriously. If you take it seriously, you will suffer, and you will be cheated.

Even he doesn't know his heart. I like it today, but I hate it in a few days. He doesn't know and he can't grasp himself. So he lied to others and can't blame him. He even deceived himself.

Love is false and ever-changing; Compassion is true love, never changing. This Buddha and Bodhisattva are reliable, but people on earth are unreliable, so we should learn Buddhism.

Getting married is not between you two. To tell the truth, the stability of society and the rise and fall of the country are all related to your marriage. You should not rush into it, but be cautious.

Modern people look down on marriage. Marry if you like, divorce if you are unhappy. This is just a joke. He doesn't know how much cause and effect he has on his back! Divorce easily, the consequences are in hell. Why is there such a heavy charge? He destroyed the whole social order.

Couples are like a leaf on a big tree. Only when leaves grow well can trees grow. The broken leaf is harmful to the survival of the whole tree. Therefore, marriage is moral, and we should know that righteousness is an obligation, and we should do so. How can modern people understand this truth?

Marriage used to be moral, but now it is promiscuous love, which destroys all ethics and shakes the foundation. How can society not be turbulent?

Especially now, the marriage between men and women is very fragile and the divorce rate is very high. How can I be worthy of my children after divorce?

Do you know how much your child has been hurt? He was injured and his physical and mental development was abnormal, which would endanger the society and the country in the future; In other words, you have harmed the country and society. What kind of causal responsibility do you need to bear?

4 1 In Buddhism, you should know the responsibility of cause and effect. This crime is so heavy that we can't bear to say it. Don't think it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter now, but it matters when you go to the underworld after death. You just know the seriousness of this matter. How can you be so hasty?

I said that people nowadays don't know how to love themselves, really not. If you don't know how to love yourself, how can you love others?

In today's society, people's interactions are all beneficial, and interests will not last long and short. Modern people pay special attention to the shortcomings and deficiencies of others. In their eyes, no one in the world is a good person.

The Buddha said that a good man, what is a good man? A good man is a good man who pays special attention to the benefits of others, pays special attention to their advantages and doesn't remember their shortcomings. Everyone in the world is a good person.

Husband and wife must understand this truth and look at each other's advantages and benefits so that this marriage will not break down.

Modern couples, when they are not married, both sides see each other's advantages and decide not to look at each other's shortcomings. The other party doesn't care about them, and he doesn't believe anything others tell him.

Why do couples divorce? After marriage, focus on each other's shortcomings. Looking at each other's shortcomings every day, you say it's not good or not! In fact, all you have to do is change your mind. What does this depend on? Through education. No one teaches now!

Let's take a look at the reality of this world, the way of lovers is gone! You must not think that this is a trivial matter, it is a major event, and it is a fundamental event. The root of the whole social unrest is here.

Namo amit Ba

~ divorce ~

1 As the saying goes, "It's not that enemies don't get together."

People in the world are confused and upside down. They are young and in love, so deeply in love with each other that they will fight and divorce in a few days. It can be seen that when we were in love, all the sweet words were false.

When you are in love, those sweet words are not true. If you don't take them seriously, you are smart. If you want to take all those kindness and love seriously, it's called confusion and inversion!

4 when dealing with people in the world, don't trust people too much; Trusting each other too much is your stupidity, your confusion and meaningless.

No one is reliable. People in the world are constantly changing, thinking all the time, saying love to you today, and parting with you tomorrow.

You know, the heart in the world is not real, his heart is fake, all of them are fake. No matter how good you say, we will listen. Don't be serious. You really decided to be fooled.

No matter what others tell you, don't believe it, you will be very comfortable. If you believe it, you will suffer a big loss and be fooled! Fake. It's all fake.

Don't say how others feel about us, be conscious, take part in accidental amusement and don't take it seriously. We are also hypocritical to others. I made up with him today, but I'll be bored tomorrow.

People in the world, although you think love is precious, it's all fake, fake, not true love, but fake love. I got married when I was in love, and I heard that I divorced two days later. That's not true love, it will change!

10 married at an excellent time, married for more than ten years, raised several children, and even divorced, turned against each other, which shows that feelings are fake, not true.

1 1 The combination of modern couples is emotional, chaotic and irrational, not for a common goal and a common direction in life, so the divorce rate is very high.

12 If there are no children, divorce is fine. If there are children, innocent children suffer the most. When these children grow up, they can't feel the warmth of their families and the love of their parents. His development and long-term achievements are abnormal.

13 parents divorced and children became single parents. Since childhood, he has a very abnormal psychology. He has no love and his heart is full of resentment. Isn't it a social problem for such children to grow up?

14 Divorce is a very serious crime, especially when a child is born and the child becomes a single-parent family. This hurt him very, very much, which his parents didn't expect.

15 The crime of divorce is heavier than anything else. If husband and wife hurt each other, or even have a murder case, what business is it to build hell?

16 before marriage was moral, now marriage is promiscuous love, which destroys all ethics. The foundation is shaken, how can society not be turbulent?

17 today's society is in turmoil, and everyone feels uneasy. What is the real reason? You read in the newspaper every day that the divorce rate is so high, how can it be!

In the education of 18, the most important and basic education of sages is the education of ethics. The core of ethics is husband and wife. Only husband and wife can have father and son, brothers, ministers and friends. How can this be ignored? But today the world is generally negligent and does not know this truth.

19 Couples used to talk about "love", but now there is neither kindness nor love. What does this society say now? Talk about profit, compete for profit, indulge. Benevolence and morality are gone, so is kindness and love. How can society not be chaotic?

Especially now, the marriage between men and women is very fragile and the divorce rate is very high. How can I be worthy of my children after divorce? Do you know how much your child has been hurt?

2 1 He was injured, and his physical and mental development was abnormal, which would endanger the society and the country in the future; In other words, you have harmed the country and society.

In modern society, the divorce rate is very high. You only see that the divorce rate in this society is high, and this country is heading for extinction. It's like watching a person. Many cells in this person are bad, and this person is dying.

In this society, the divorce rate is over 50%, and there is no doubt that you will die. As the ancients in China said, "Without a home, a country cannot be a country." This is not a joke, nor is it a joke.

It can be seen that both husband and wife who divorce easily will go to hell, my judgment. Do you want to ask why? He endangers society and world peace. What a terrible crime! This is true, not false.

It is better not to get married than to get divorced. Before you got married, I often said that both sides looked at each other's benefits and felt very cute; After marriage, both sides only look at each other's shortcomings, and they are in big trouble.

Buddha and Bodhisattva teach us to "think, think and observe the Good Dharma day and night". If you can remember this sentence, you and your husband can get along well and grow old together. Why? Just look at the advantages of others, not at their shortcomings, and you will be fine.

Husband and wife get along well, just between this idea, this idea is realized, and they will always get along well. It is unnecessary to say "there are gains and losses". How can this happen?

The ancient people in China attached great importance to marriage, and the etiquette was very grand and complicated. Why are you doing this? I told you not to divorce easily, and I told you about it, which is why the ceremony is so grand.

Divorce destroys morality. Nowadays, people think that divorce is normal. In fact, all living beings commit crimes, and the crime of divorce is heavier than anything else. You won't know until you study it carefully.

Divorce destroys ethics, which is the basis of our Buddhist sexual morality and destroys sexual morality. How heavy is this crime? So where are the roots of social stability and world peace? Rooted in husband and wife

3 1 husband and wife form a husband and wife, and both sides look at each other's advantages and tolerate each other's shortcomings, so they get married; After marriage, only look at each other's shortcomings, no longer tolerate each other's benefits, and trouble will come.

Therefore, the Buddha has to learn. I hope that husband and wife will always respect each other, love each other, tolerate each other, look at each other's strengths, and don't look at each other's shortcomings. Only in this way can we get along well for a hundred years and maintain social stability and world peace.

I often see where it is reported that the divorce rate is so high in this area, and I say, "Oh, no, this is a problem, a big problem!" " The problem is very serious!

If the divorce rate exceeds 50%, many countries and regions now exceed 50%, which is amazing! This is the cause of instability in the world.

Therefore, when couples divorce, their sin is heavier than anything else. Someone asked me in the past, and I answered bluntly: "The crime of divorce is going to hell." So it's not about two people. It's too influential.

Husband and wife live in harmony, telling you that the family is prosperous, the country is rich and strong, and the world is peaceful. How many people understand this truth now? Nobody understands.

When we see the high divorce rate in today's society, we know that if families break up, society will not be stable and the world will not be peaceful. Can you say that you are not responsible?

You can't blame others for the turmoil in the whole world. Looking back, you caused it yourself.

How close the relationship between husband and wife is not only the front line of your family, but also related to your social stability and world peace.

In ancient times, we heard of marriage, but we didn't hear of divorce. Why is the divorce rate so high now, and why not in ancient times? This is the meaning of marriage is different.

4 1 Why did ancient people get married? Two people have the same goal in life and help each other achieve the ideal goal. To tell the truth, that goal is not love.

Nowadays, people get married for love, and love will change, so marriage will change endlessly.

The ancients did it for morality, he understood reason, he understood reason, and he knew his obligations, so he was a combination of righteousness and reason.

The present marriage is a combination of feelings, which is very fragile and easily broken. This is a modern marriage completely different from the ancient marriage, with a completely different meaning.

Husband and wife are a moral union, not feelings. We must understand this truth. Understand this truth, you will realize, break the mystery, and you will be enlightened.

Every time I go to a region, the society in this region is unstable. Is there any problem in society? Where can I find it? I looked at my family. Where did my family look? From the perspective of husband and wife.

If there is a high divorce rate and social unrest in this place, there will be problems in this society and it is not suitable for life.

If the divorce rate in this place is very low, the society in this place is good, and the society in this place is peaceful and happy, you can consider building a Dojo here and starting a business in this place.