The perfunctory chat mode of straight men has caused heated discussion. Is it true that straight men have low emotional intelligence?

The perfunctory chat of straight men caused a heated discussion. Is it really because of low emotional intelligence that straight men chat? This is not always the case, because some jokes you see online are really jokes, so don't take them all for granted. In real life, there are really not many steel straight men who want to chat with you, and they basically don't say so.

The steel straight man in the joke is to broadcast the effect and make this joke come alive. In real life, a real boy, if she doesn't have a particularly good impression of that girl, but also has no particularly bad impression, is just a normal ordinary friend. Everyone will talk a few words when they are bored every day, and talk for a day from time to time. She won't deliberately please each other, but she won't deliberately go. Interrupt the other person's topic and forcibly end the change of topic, because as long as IQ is normal, EQ will not be particularly low.

If you chat with the other person, the other person occasionally dies of chatting. It may be that the other person really has no chatting experience and will not continue to extend the topic, nor will he find a topic to continue from your speaking style. This is understandable, but if you talk to each other once, twice or three times, you will find that they can always talk to death. This is definitely not because they don't talk, but because they don't want to talk to you. Girls should understand this truth when chatting with boys, and so should boys and girls. The so-called steel straight women are actually rare. If she really wants to chat with you, there is no topic at all. If the other person always greets you, this modal particle proves that the other person doesn't want to chat with you.

It is understandable that steel straight men speak for straight men with ordinary program effects. Once or twice occasionally, it is because his emotional intelligence is low. He had no experience in heterosexual chatting in Otawa before, and it was normal that he didn't know how to make girls happy. But if it is normal for a person to chat with you, you should be alert when chatting with the other person, and the other person will always find many topics to continue chatting. This skill can't be possessed by two people chatting. It's a gift There has never been this option in human natural options, and an extrovert is not extroverted at once because of his experience.

The remarks of straight men only exist in jokes. In real life, he is really the kind of person who can't chat at all, not because of emotional intelligence, but because of IQ. There are very few such people, 100 people don't know there is such a person, so if the other person doesn't have any annoying ideas about you and wants to chat with you, he will definitely find a topic and occasionally make mistakes. If the other person thinks you are not bad, they want to talk to you.