I have a crush on a girl in my class,

Let me share a story with you first.

On March 8 of the first year, the school held a Women’s Day event. A young man was carrying a table (single table) in a hurry that day. He rushed to the elevator. As soon as the elevator opened, he put the table into the elevator. After pressing the door-closing button, he looked back and saw a girl looking at him with sweat on her face. They looked at each other for about a few seconds. At that time, he looked back in panic, but he no longer dared to look back. After he came back, he knew what love at first sight meant. He remembered her and could never forget her.

Soon he quietly added her QQ and followed her silently. He knew that many people were pursuing her, and silently he was afraid that others would take her away. Finally, she discovered the comment he couldn't help but make in a reprinted article. He was from a liberal arts class, and there were only five classes, so she forced him to reveal his name and class. Of course, he tried his best to find topics to chat with her, but he was very unsure of himself because he had been rejected three times, so he didn't express his feelings for a while. Finally one day, with the encouragement of his friends, he wrote a letter to her. Soon, there was a reply, but when he saw it, it was his own letter. A touch of sadness crossed it, but he did not open it. After a long, long time, he opened it quietly and replied with a sentence behind the text. The meaning was clear and very tactful and tactful. He saved it, and for days he opened the letter and read that sentence.

After a long time, he decided to love her. He was afraid that others would take her away. He knew it was unrequited love, but he also wanted to love openly. From now on, he would check her mood every day, commenting, encouraging, congratulating, etc. from time to time, but her avatar never jumped actively. In the next two years, he gave her something on March 8 every year. The next year, he gave her a bouquet of flowers. She accepted it, but said that if it was a rose, she would not want it.

When he graduated, he took her photo and added it to the background of the blue sky, sea water, and beach, enlarged it to make a puzzle, and gave it to her. She was pleasantly surprised and he was very happy. He told her that he was in the photo, but until now she still couldn't find him. On the day he left school, he really wanted to see her. He invited her to the KTV with the intention of singing a song to her. She refused. Of course, being rejected has become a habit for him, and he choked up when he sang to her on his mobile phone that day at KVT.

Fortunately, she came late at night, but he found that he didn't know what to say to her, and the night passed like this.

After graduation, he sent her short jokes every two days. On the day he sent the jokes, he always chose an even-numbered date. In almost two months, he had finished sending out all the carefully selected jokes. The conditions were limited and there was a long hiatus. He continued to send her text messages in college, and he was very excited when he occasionally received her reply.

Finally she chatted with him a little more on QQ, and he seemed to see the light. She said she was fat, but he said it didn't matter, as long as she was healthy; she said she was bad and had done things he couldn't accept, but he said it didn't matter, it didn't matter, it was all over. That winter, when he saw her feeling extremely cold, he commented that she should wear more clothes and wrap herself up like a rice dumpling. She said she didn’t remember to get her winter coat, and he was afraid that she would be cold, so he bought her a winter coat and mailed it to her. Unfortunately, she didn’t receive it on time, and the Spring Festival mail truck didn’t arrive on time that year; I heard that She had no money, so he sent her money for transportation.

It seems that I can see the light, but the light of the fire is as weak as a candle in the wind, and as distant as the breeze blowing through the stars under the shade of the tree.

Finally, on March 8 of the third year, he went to find her because of the gift he gave her - a movie. He brought some snacks and met her, but she was very busy. . He also saw two male classmates rushing to help her. When he finally got there, he and his friends accomplished the purpose of going there. When he came back, he called her and gave her his blessing. There was no regret in her voice and she said, "You too." He gave up on her.

He confessed his love a long time ago and was rejected; it really became a habit. Every time he read the letter she rejected, after the moment of pain passed, he felt a little happy. Because he cried a lot when he was rejected for the first time, but now it's not like before. He found that he couldn't do almost anything well by spending time chasing her every day. And if she accepts herself, what can she do? What can she give her? She has not graduated from college and has accomplished nothing. What can she give her? If she wants to care about her, she has two people who like her so much far away. Why worry? It's better to hide this love in your heart, study hard, and then find her after you succeed. It doesn't matter even if she is already a woman by then, at least she won't like him at this wrong time when she is being pursued by many people and he loves her like a madman. Like the painting he had given her, in which she did not find him.

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After reading this, what I want to say is, if you confess your love to her and she rejects you, what will happen to you? And if she accepts you, what will happen to you? Think about it carefully. If you haven't calmed down yet, confess your feelings and learn from him. It's no big deal. Being rejected doesn't mean you are bad. It just means you haven't met the right person yet. Be strong. If you do get rejected, let it be. And if you accept it, then manage this love with your heart. It’s just your goal, what you want to do, and how you can accomplish it.