If you don't want to suffer from relatives, what kind of relatives should not associate?

When I was a child, in our memory, my former relatives were so simple, kind and enthusiastic, helping each other and exchanging needed items. On holidays, I walk around with my parents with inexpensive gifts, eat, drink, chat and pull my parents around. There is always a faint warm current in my heart? ...

When I grow up, the communication between my relatives becomes more and more realistic, and my feelings become more and more indifferent. Life is good, when relatives meet, they can give you a little face, say hello to you, and talk about family; If you live in poverty, many relatives will stay away when they see you.

Some relatives try to take advantage of you when you are useful under the guise of affection. When you don't use value, they have no feelings, and even turn against each other, remembering that you have had bad looks and words to him.

Some relatives, snobs, look down on you from the bottom of their hearts and don't even say hello when they meet.

Some relatives rarely move around, and only meet when there are weddings and funerals at home. No warm communication, only hypocrisy? Uh-huh, huh? A few words, wipe the past on your face.

Some relatives have only met once, and no one knows who is who. Even if they meet in the street, they won't know each other. Only when they have something to ask you will they visit you and introduce the last three generations to you. Will you know that you are real? Far away? Relatives of.

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In fact, the more realistic kinship is that your economic status determines how many relatives you have and your position among relatives.

When my aunt got married, because she married a little uncle from a poor family, everyone's attitude towards her has changed a lot since her family had a wedding banquet. In that era when she was not very rich, her sister-in-law looked down on her when she returned to her family. When she was eating, everyone present was humble, but she was ignored. Moreover, she often hears many aunts laughing and joking behind her back: I'm sure my husband's family has no food, so I'll go back to her house to eat! Since these gossips were heard by my aunt, every time I went to my grandmother's house, she quietly went home after watching her grandmother not eat.

It was not until ten years later that she became the proprietress. After running my own business, everything naturally changed. Those who laughed at her all those years went over to praise her. Some people sent all kinds of local products, and relatives visited her on holidays, even to get a slice of her aunt's business.

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When people reach middle age, it doesn't make any sense to stop contacting their relatives below.

Snobbish, snobbish, secular relatives.

This kind of relatives tend to divide people into several classes, like to attach themselves to dragons and phoenixes, and usually establish close relationships with relatives with better economy, while those with poor economy simply despise you and ignore you.

When you are in trouble, when you have something to ask them for, you can know how chilling family ties are. Instead of getting help, it will attract sarcasm, ridicule and satire, full of banter and contempt. This kind of injury will make you unforgettable; They are full of jealousy and very unhappy after the wind and water turn and your fortune improves. I hope you will continue to be poor so that they can always see jokes.

Sweet mouth and black heart, people are fine before, and people are close behind.

This kind of relatives often know people's faces but don't know their hearts.

Maybe when your life is good, they will look at you and get along with you in a friendly way. Actually, they are jealous of you, too. If you are down and out, he is still kind to you on the surface, talking and laughing, pretending to be kind to you and asking questions, which makes you feel that this kind of relative is sincere, but secretly he is disgusted with you and laughs at you for being shabby.

If you have something to ask him, you will definitely be pushed away or even ignore you.

This kind of relatives, who speak better than anyone else, will make people happy with their mouths. In fact, he has no sincerity at all, no true feelings at all. If you are serious, you will only be laughed at.

Idle, gossiping, spreading relatives.

Such relatives are usually very idle people. He usually doesn't care about work, or he doesn't have a job at all. He has nothing to do all day, but he just knows that he is free. He likes to gossip about his parents and family, and often goes to other people's houses in Bala to pick up trivial garbage. He talks about it everywhere, and he often doesn't forget to embellish it. Rich? Judging from the content, such relatives can easily lead to disharmony and trouble in other people's homes, but they pretend to be indifferent.

In life, you must stay away from such relatives, otherwise the big and small things at home will be exposed to the world and make your life restless.

Always complaining, relatives with negative energy bursting.

This kind of relative's life is often not very bad, but his mentality is very poor. He sees what others have gained, but he can't see what he has. He sighs and complains all day.

I always feel that people are lucky, with good opportunities and many blessings. It is God's blessing that they can't see other people's sweat and tears. It seems that other people's success is picked up when they go out, but he is unlucky and can't pick up anything when he goes out, so he is aggrieved and aggrieved.

In their eyes, other children are lucky to be admitted to a good university; Other people's lives are good, but opportunities are good. If she had such an opportunity, what would happen, even better than them.

You know, with such relatives, you will doubt that life is long and it is best to stay away.

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When people reach middle age, it will be chilling to rely on anyone. It is better to live by yourself.

Although relatives are more or less related by blood, they are only related by blood. Besides, they have no feelings, so you can't take family seriously. I hope the relationship can last forever. To tell the truth, you are too serious.

The quality of blood relationship and deep feelings do not depend entirely on the firmness of blood relationship, but on your economic foundation, social status and utilization value. You are poor and have no relatives. You are rich and have relatives everywhere.