"Educate you for your mother." The mother-in-law slapped the daughter-in-law. Do you think the mother-in-law has the right to teach the daughter-in-law a lesson?

The mother-in-law is a very complicated character. She does not want to be nice to her daughter-in-law, but she hopes that her daughter-in-law can be filial to her just like she is to her own mother. She hopes that her daughter-in-law can run the house and take care of the family and be responsible for everything in the family, but she also wants her daughter-in-law to be filial to her. She doesn't want her daughter-in-law to gain the power to run the family. She hopes her daughter-in-law can be kind to her son without expecting anything in return, but she doesn't want her son to be too kind to her daughter-in-law.

When the mother-in-law talks about giving, she convinces people with reason and does not regard her daughter-in-law as a family member. However, when asking her daughter-in-law to give, she convinces people with emotion, saying that one family does not speak the same language as the other two families. In my role as an elder, I hope my daughter-in-law can give without expecting anything in return. All in all, the mother-in-law just doesn't want to suffer a little loss, but she hopes that her daughter-in-law can give without thinking of reward and bow to her.

There are good mothers-in-law and bad mothers-in-law in this world. Good mothers-in-law are all the same, but bad mothers-in-law have their own disadvantages. Yang Juan met a selfish mother-in-law who liked to find trouble, and her married life was changed. Made a mess.

Yang Juan and her husband Du Lin have been married for three years. The two have always been very loving. Their marriage was originally very happy and happy. It would be even more perfect without her mother-in-law.

The relationship between Yang Juan and her mother-in-law has never been good. When she first got married, she wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law, but then several things happened that made her completely lose expectations for her mother-in-law. When Yang Juan was in confinement, she originally hoped that her mother-in-law could help take care of her. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law rejected her outright and said to her: "I am your mother-in-law, not your mother. If you need someone to take care of you, just Go find your biological mother, I have no obligation to take care of you."

Yang Juan was hurt by her mother-in-law's words. She had always treated her mother-in-law as a relative, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to just treat her as an outsider. It was at this time that Juan understood her mother-in-law's heart. She no longer had any expectations for her mother-in-law. After her mother-in-law rejected her, she hired a month-old nanny to take care of her.

This incident seemed to have passed just like that. The days passed quickly. Yang Juan was out of confinement and the child was growing up slowly. Her mother-in-law still often made trouble for Yang Juan in her life. Yang Juan didn't want to argue with her mother-in-law, nor did she want to talk to her. She would do whatever her mother-in-law said, and she would do it anyway.

After dinner that day, Yang Juan accidentally broke a plate while washing the dishes. Her mother-in-law rushed into the kitchen when she heard the sound, pointed at Yang Juan's nose and scolded: "What did you do?" Worker? Why did my Alin marry a woman like you? She is indeed a woman from a small family. Her parents have no rules, even with her daughter. She looks like she has no tutor, and she doesn’t even know how to do basic work. I can't even do it well..."

Seeing her mother-in-law going overboard and even scolding her parents, Yang Juan couldn't bear it anymore and retorted to her mother-in-law: "You can scold me, but you are not qualified. Scolding my parents, no matter how unruly I am, I am still better than you!" Seeing that Yang Juan actually refuted her, her mother-in-law became angry and slapped Yang Juan hard and said to her: "Those who have no rules, what the elders say, If you dare to talk back, I will educate you for your mother today!"

The mother-in-law's hand was so strong that half of Yang Juan's face swelled up instantly. This scene happened to be seen by Yang Juan's mother who came to see her daughter! When she saw her daughter being beaten, her mother immediately became anxious and rushed to protect her in front of Yang Juan. She said to her mother-in-law: "Who are you? It's your turn to educate my daughter. My daughter has been abused by our old couple since she was a child." We love and protect her, but we are not willing to do anything to her, but you do it, I tell you, you apologize to Ajuan! Otherwise, I will not finish this matter with you today!"

My mother-in-law refused! Although Yang Juan's mother refused to give up, the two of them had a quarrel. Later, Yang Juan's mother took Yang Juan back to her parents' home in anger. When Du Lin returned home, he saw that his mother-in-law was the only one at home, and he suddenly became suspicious. He understood the ins and outs of the matter and blamed his mother-in-law: "How could you treat Yang Juan like this? Yang Juan has never treated you badly or done anything sorry to you. She is your daughter-in-law and not your enemy. You can't Do you treat her well? Do you have to be divorced to be happy?"

My mother-in-law feels very wronged. Her daughter-in-law blames her, her mother-in-law blames her, and even her son stands by her daughter-in-law. Did she do something wrong?

I believe that every girl will want to please her mother-in-law and have a good relationship with her before getting married. Who would want their marriage to be full of conflicts and quarrels? But most of the time, the ideal is very full, and the reality is very skinny. If after getting married, she meets a good mother-in-law who is easy to get along with, that is her blessing. If she meets a mother-in-law who only looks for trouble and does not accept her daughter-in-law, no matter how good she is, His temper will also be worn away.

Just like Yang Juan, she once wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law and hoped that her mother-in-law could accept her. She tolerated her mother-in-law in every way, but what she got in exchange was not her mother-in-law's understanding, but more excessive bullying. Therefore, women should not tolerate everything in marriage. This will only make others think that you are weak and can be bullied. No matter when, you must be tough when you should be tough, and be soft when you should be soft. Only by being able to bend and stretch can others respect you.

As a mother-in-law, you should also understand that your daughter-in-law is a human being just like your son, and is also a treasure in the hands of your parents, a child who has grown up under the care of your parents. Your daughter-in-law gave up her life as a little princess at home and married into your family. She did not come to your family to be a nanny. If marriage cannot lead to happiness, who would want to get married?

The first thing a good mother-in-law must do is to accept her daughter-in-law, respect her, and treat her as a family member. If you can't do this, try to stay away from your son and daughter-in-law's life, and don't let your own Behavior has become the biggest driving force behind the destruction of his son's marriage.