My husband and colleagues always make fun of her husband and other women. What should I do if I feel unhappy?

Direct. Don't show it on your face when you are sad. Your husband's colleagues love to gossip. Then when he says it in front of you, you can smile and say to him, "Hey, look at my husband's charm. Women like it everywhere, but I haven't heard of any female colleagues who are biased towards you." See what your husband's colleagues will do. If he says, "I don't have a good relationship with women, your husband has a good relationship with women."

Perhaps, your husband's colleague is just joking, nothing, don't take it to heart, your mouth is long on your body, and you can say whatever you want. For the relationship between a man and a woman other than his wife, as a wife, you don't need to believe that there is no smoke without fire. You just need to know clearly whether your husband has always been good to you, taking care of his family and being good to his children. There is no such thing as "long time" with him.

Indeed, it is normal to feel uncomfortable, because a woman's heart is always afraid of being hurt in front of the man she loves. It's strange to hear some gossip with other women, but the degree of your psychological discomfort depends on her ability to distinguish things and her trust in your man. Perhaps, your jealous expression was seen by your husband, and his heart was very painful. You know, if your husband really cares about you and comes home, he will definitely say to you affectionately, "Aha, I still have a little secret joy when I see your jealous expression on me at the dinner table today." In fact, there is no need to ask many things. If a man really cares about you, he will definitely help you solve things that make you unhappy.

Women's suspicions are sometimes often due to seemingly ordinary jokes, half-truths, and mysteries. However, smart women tend not to be aggressive with men, but let men take the initiative to explain everything to you. You know, what he wants to tell you, he will tell you sooner or later, and he won't let you know sooner or later. Therefore, "break the way of getting along with the casserole." You can tell your husband "I'm not happy" directly, and your husband will ask "What's the matter?" You said, "Because your colleague's joke is not true, it still makes me feel a little uncomfortable." Your husband may come and hug you at this time and say, "Listen to his nonsense, your husband is still very attractive." You know, a man doesn't give you a particularly serious answer to prove that there is no problem. If he explains too much, most of them are really problematic.

In short, couples should communicate in time, but also pay attention to the communication methods. Don't ask "What's your relationship with your female colleagues" directly, which will be disgusting, because it's your problem and will make your husband feel that you don't trust him. So, as I said above, you might as well communicate with your husband from an uncomfortable angle, which not only shows that you care about your husband, but also shows that you care about your husband.