There are many troubles at home after marriage, so what can't be easily told to others?

Every family has its own problems, and so does the family. If we talk about family matters, we can put them in books. A place where family affairs can be completed. Family affairs are full of joys and sorrows, but people like to talk about these things and family affairs when chatting. In rural areas, every family matter will spread throughout the village in a short time. Everything at home is passed on in the form of gossip, so sometimes, as long as you say a word, it will be passed on to others. In my ear, I can't talk about everything at home. If I talk too much, I'm afraid people will laugh at me. No matter how good the relationship is, you can't talk about everything in the chat, especially married couples. Talking too much will also affect your life. For married people, what women talk about most when they are together is family affairs, such as husband, mother-in-law, and finally the way to chat with sisters outside. I can't wait to express all my dissatisfaction. In fact, this is also a very normal thing. Complaining is understandable, but it must be to a certain extent.

In other words, say what you should say and say what you shouldn't. Some women talk a lot, telling all the big and small things at home. Finally, I passed some words I shouldn't have said to my family. Not only will your family blame you, but your family will also become a joke to others. Family and private life, this kind of thing is two people's private affairs, there is no need to tell others. Some women will talk out of control and tell some extreme secrets to others in private. She would say that this person is her best friend. It doesn't matter, everyone is fine, but the best, best and best friends are others. Regardless of whether others want to hear it or not. If it involves family members, it is very important to them. It's rude, and it also involves other people's privacy. Don't tell others about this. If the family knows this, it will make them look bad, make them not show up outside, and may also lead to family crisis. Sometimes I accidentally say something between husband and wife, especially complaining, which may be heard by a caring person and may interfere with husband and wife's life in the future.

There are many things that will be promoted anywhere outside, which will destroy your marriage. Some people will take this opportunity to participate, which will lead to conflicts between your husband and wife and eventually replace them. So, don't talk about things between husband and wife outside. The contradiction between husband and wife, the contradiction between husband and wife is very normal. There is no contradiction between husband and wife, but this is a matter between husband and wife. What's even uglier is that you can't wash your dirty linen in public. If two people have conflicts, they will try to talk to others and tell others how wronged they are and how worried their husbands are. But apart from listening to the other side's speech, it actually has no substantive role. The problem will continue to exist, and the next conflict will continue to occur, so that other people who echo back and forth may be tired of listening and may be impatient. They will listen to these negative things all day. Once or twice, things will spread between your husband and wife. Everyone knows that you fight all day. Do you think others will regret you? In fact, most of them look excited,

On the surface, it is comforting you, but behind it, it is discussing and laughing with others. In the end, this will further affect the relationship between your husband and wife. In fact, many people have encountered this situation. They had a conflict with their husbands. If they feel uncomfortable, they will go to someone to complain. This is very common. This is good for them. But you also need a degree, such as telling others that you are a close friend or your own family. Neighbors are the easiest to spread news, so please don't tell them if you don't dress up for housework. Besides, you talk a lot. If you tell others every time you meet, everyone will be bored. Therefore, when there are contradictions in your marriage, don't think about who to talk to first, but think about how to solve the problem. Only in this way will future conflicts be reduced. You can know the financial situation of your family, whether you have money or not. There is no need to tell others that the money has not been leaked. If you say so, you will only bring trouble to yourself. Rich, always showing off, telling the outside world how much money he has,

It seems that it can satisfy one's vanity and make everyone envy it. When you are like this, in fact, how many people are jealous of you and how many people remember you. When your relatives ask you for money, if they don't, they will be called stingy. This could be dangerous. So, when you are rich, don't show your wealth. People will know your situation when they see what kind of life you live, but if you deliberately slander it, it will do no good at all. Too much, let's show less wealth! When your family is difficult and your life is not good, others will not care too much. Even if you tell others how poor your family is, they won't give you any help. Will look down on you. In this interesting world, people are all snobs. Stay away from people around you if you have money. That is the reality. Whether you have money or not, you just have to live your own life. When it comes to money, even if it is only money, it will also involve interests, so we still have to maintain the family's economic situation. There is no need to elaborate with others. Speaking out loud will only cause trouble, not benefit.