Early education for children aged 3-6

As the saying goes, "Look at the old at the age of three, look at the old at the age of seven", and the hobbies and personality characteristics of a 3-year-old baby are very obvious. At this stage, parents need to guide their babies to develop their interests and specialties according to their personality characteristics. Education should not be compulsory, which is not conducive to their psychological development.

Emotional intelligence training

Emotional intelligence mainly reflects a person's ability to feel, understand, use, express, control and adjust his emotions, as well as his ability to deal with emotional relationships with others. Emotional intelligence reflects the individual's ability to grasp and deal with emotional problems. Emotion often walks in front of reason. It is irrational and its material basis is mainly related to the brain stem system. The frontal lobe of the brain controls emotions.

There are innate factors in the formation and development of EQ. The research of children's psychology shows that congenital blind children have relatively weak emotional ability due to the socialization influence caused by social communication obstacles. Anthropological research shows that the emotions of primitive people are very different from those of civilized people. They are irritable, happy, moody and have poor self-control. From the study of modern history, we can also see that people's emotions are easily influenced by social environment, and people always have a deep-rooted herd mentality.

Emotional intelligence is mainly related to irrational factors, which affect the motivation of cognitive and practical activities. It strengthens or weakens the driving force of understanding things by influencing people's interest, will and perseverance. People with low IQ and high EQ are not as efficient as those with high IQ, but sometimes they can learn better and achieve greater success than those with high IQ. Because perseverance makes up for diligence. In addition, EQ is a kind of ability to grasp and adjust the emotions of self and others, so it has a great relationship with the handling of interpersonal relationships. Its function is closely related to social life, interpersonal relationship, health status and marital status. People with low emotional intelligence have tense interpersonal relationships, easily broken marriages and poor leadership skills. People with higher EQ are usually in a healthy mood, with perfect marriage and family, good interpersonal relationship, easy to become the leader of a certain department and high leadership and management ability.

empathy

Empathy is to see things from other people's eyes, identify with other people's ideas, and understand the reasons behind other people's feelings and behaviors. Compassion enables you to help others feel better because you know they are suffering. These qualities necessary for successful relationships are learned by children at home. Empathy goes further than trying to share the feelings of others. It makes children try to understand others.

No matter how well-educated children are, or how proficient they are in computers, their success as adults does not depend on these skills. Happiness comes from caring. In our place, it is difficult to cultivate a compassionate child, because it will attach great importance to egoism and encourage people to ask for unlimited things, regardless of the feelings of others. This "self-centered" thought will have an impact even in the simplest interpersonal communication.

Cultivating intimacy in a disconnected world is a challenge, especially when parents are filled with children, housework, work and responsibilities every day. Although we try to be compassionate adults, we often can't feel the same way as we expect, even for our own families. However, it is still very important to raise a compassionate child-because the indifferent world needs people who care about others more, and at the same time, it is also for children. Some people say that taking from life can keep us alive, but giving us a complete life.

Although children sometimes show deep love, they may also make surprising selfish actions. This phenomenon stems from self-centered information and is an inevitable part of the development of children's self-awareness.

Intergenerational education

Intergenerational education refers to the upbringing and education of grandparents to their grandchildren. Some young parents, either because of busy work or because of divorce, put all the responsibilities of their children's education and life on grandparents, who have become "modern parents" who take care of the third generation in an all-round way.

China is one of the few countries in the world where "intergenerational education" is widespread. In foreign countries, children enter kindergartens and nurseries at an early age, and only when they are 18 years old are independent adults, and there is basically no intergenerational education.

Nearly 50% of the children in the towns of China grew up with their grandparents. The younger the child, the higher the proportion of living with grandparents. With the formation of the aging trend of society, the phenomenon of intergenerational education is becoming more and more common. Under the pressure of life, study and work, how to undertake the responsibility of family education has become a social problem.

As an objective way of family education, intergenerational education has a great influence on children's personality development. Therefore, we should clearly understand the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education, give full play to its educational advantages, and seriously overcome all kinds of negative effects, so as to improve the existing family education situation of children and make them grow up happily and healthily.

What should I do if my child is spoiled by the old man? Teach my children to learn kinship terms. Positive education.

1, don't underestimate children. "You can't do this!" "How can you be so stupid!" This degradation will damage children's self-image, self-esteem and self-confidence.

2. Don't threaten children. "If you scribble on the wall again, you won't be beaten." "If you want to eat ice cream again, I won't take you out!" Every time a child is threatened, it will make him feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable and sometimes hate his parents. Threats have little effect on improving children's behavior.

3. Don't bribe children. "I'll buy you a toy if you don't touch anything" doesn't really make children understand what they have done.

4. Don't make children promise what will happen in the future. "You promised your mother not to make noise when she sleeps!" But the child's memory, noisy for a while, makes the mother angry and sad.

5. Explain it to your child simply and clearly. If you talk endlessly, children may not be interested and can't remember so much. If you don't speak well, children will "get more confused as they listen."

6. Don't pamper your children too much. It is not easy for a child to teach bad children well if he is used to teaching them.

7. Don't use inconsistent rules. Parents should cooperate with kindergartens. At home, parents must be consistent with their spouses or elders.

8. Don't use outdated rules. Don't treat children with some rules of primary school students.

9. Don't blindly obey. If parents immediately meet their children's requirements, such as "I want to watch TV" and "I want to drink water", it is not conducive to cultivating children's independent and self-controlled personality.

10, don't hit the child easily. Whether hitting children is right or not, let's take a look at the conclusions drawn by experts after investigation and research.

(1) The child is frightened by the tone and atrocities of adults, and may not dare to do it again in the future, but it is unclear whether he has learned the correct concept of right and wrong. Many parents leave their children alone after beating them.

(2) Children become disobedient, and adults do it not in front of the children, but behind their backs. Children's behavior always needs to be controlled by others. So when they grow up, they can't be their own masters, and everything depends on the eyes of others, which makes them easy to become "people who fall with the wind."

(3) After receiving the message "You are wrong, I can hit you", the child will treat other children in the same way and may become an authoritative and violent parent in the future.

(4) Parents who have always been strict with their children, once they are old, will strong children abuse their parents on the grounds of loving their parents? It is also worth pondering.

Educating children is a complicated art, and parents know best how to discipline them. But one thing, parents should bear in mind: when educating their children, let them feel love, not discrimination.

Children learn graffiti.

For babies, when they can hold a pen, they will start doodling, or random lines, or a little bit, which are full of children's own imagination.

Babies like painting, but some parents are afraid of soiling furniture walls and will stop them. In fact, there are many benefits of baby doodling, so parents should encourage them more. Graffiti can exercise your baby's hand-eye coordination ability, express your understanding and views on the surrounding things, and communicate with your baby through graffiti. What mom and dad can do is to encourage you from the side, enrich your baby's little world, and cultivate your baby's sensitivity to things around you, which is of great benefit to the formation of your baby's good character in the future!

Children learn Tang poetry.

Tang poetry is musical and has a distinct rhythm, which is a benign stimulus to the auditory organs and produces physiological effects through the brain. Reading poetry aloud is a kind of oral practice, which has the function of strengthening the brain. Therefore, reciting poems repeatedly can make the process of excitement and inhibition in cerebral cortex reach a relative balance, accelerate blood circulation, make biochemical metabolism in the body more vigorous, increase the secretion of some beneficial hormones and active substances, make blood flow and the excitement of nerve cells tend to the best state, which is very beneficial to the development of physical strength and intelligence.

Ancient poetry has its unique charm and sense of rhythm. To a certain extent, it is not necessary for babies to learn ancient poetry, but to feel the charm of language from stories, and cultivate children's premonition and good sense of rhythm, which is conducive to their future growth and development.

But ancient poems are more boring than stories and songs. It is suggested to buy some ancient poems or animated CDs with pictures for children to read while watching. The most important thing is that adults keep repeating. When the baby is in a good mood, you can read some ancient poems in time to attract children's attention.

Never force your child to read a story. Let him listen first. Slowly, after listening too much, the baby will naturally tell it.

Children recite some ancient poems properly, which is conducive to training children's memory, cultivating children's interest in literature and cultivating children's sentiment. However, when teaching children to learn ancient poetry, it is forbidden to use coercion, promise conditions, rote memorization and other methods to prevent the tendency of not choosing the content of poetry.

Children's stick figure

I believe all parents know how to draw, but parents may have questions about stick figures. What is a stick figure? Parents are concerned about the benefits of children's growth after learning.

The stick figure is a kind of painting that extracts the most typical and prominent main features of the objective image through activities such as eye recognition, brain memory and handwriting, and shows generality, identifiability and schematic in a flat, stylized form and concise brushwork.

The stick figure draws the shape characteristics of various animals and objects in life with simple lines. In addition to being concise, it is also necessary to simplify the complex image of the article like painting a picture. Children's stick figure can not only make children interested in learning painting, but also benefit the all-round development of children's intelligence.

The position and motion state are always in motion, and its basic shape is also changing when painting. For example, the panda on the front is different from the panda on the side. The panda on the front should be drawn as a circle, and the panda on the side should be drawn as an ellipse.

Teach children to summarize the basic shapes of animals. The basic shape is a large outline, which is determined according to the appearance characteristics of animals. To simplify the complex animal image, we must first summarize the basic shape of the animal with simple geometric figures, and then process the basic shape to draw fine pictures. For example, when drawing a chicken, parents can show the completed model painting to their children for observation, let them tell the shape of the chicken's head and body, and also talk about the jingle of the chicken, which can strengthen children's memory of the image of the chicken and make them more impressed when drawing.

Parents may seem simple, but teaching children to learn requires certain skills and methods. Parents can tell their children the images of animals to draw in advance, so as to deepen their impression of animals, draw more like them and make them more interested in stick figures.

child literature

It is better to show children the following books and recommend the following children's literature works:

? 1. Bello's fairy tales (Little Red Riding Hood, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, etc. )

We are all familiar with the fairy tales of the French writer Bello, such as Little Red Riding Hood, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty. His fairy tales propagate the truth, goodness and beauty, and lash the false, evil and ugly through simple stories, which is the eternal theme of classic fairy tales. Simple and vivid plots and interesting characters deeply attract children, especially those children (0-6 years old). Children of this age don't know many words and their understanding ability is limited. At this time, parents may wish to read one by one, so that every fairy tale will leave a good impression on their children. This beautiful impression may accompany them for life.

Second, Pinocchio [Italian] by Collodi

Pinocchio, a puppet child, has the defects that children of the same age will have: willfulness and occasional lying. The wonderful curse makes his nose longer every time he tells a lie, which makes his nose longer and longer, and also leaves the image of Pinocchio with a long nose in our childhood memory. Fairy tale writing requires characters to conform to their own characteristics, and this fairy tale has done this well. Pi Nuo Qi is a puppet child, so his feet will burn when they touch the fire, and will float when they fall into the water. These are the characteristics of wood, and the author has not ignored these details, so this fairy tale is very real to read. Children aged 5-7 know Pinocchio's heart best, because they are experiencing the same thing and have the same idea. They subconsciously touch their noses after lying, because they are afraid of being like Pinocchio, but older children don't. Children of this age are ignorant and the most naive. And this Pinocchio is also a fairy tale written for them.

Third, "Education of Love" [Italy] was created by Amicus.

This book tells 65,438+000 stories related to children in the simplest language: the child who sweeps the smoke window, the monitor, the poor, vanity, gratitude, jealousy, quarrel, farewell ... The book is full of love, which is enough to impress every reader and has an immeasurable influence on children. Xia Mianzun, the earliest translator of this book, once finished reading this book with tears. He said: "The love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends, the affection of hometown and the sympathy of society are all close to the ideal world. Although it is a phantom, it makes people feel the feeling of an ideal world and think that the world should be so good. So I am grateful with tears. " This book is suitable for children over 10 years old. Children of this age have a certain reading ability and can understand complex and eternal themes such as "love".

Children music

Children's musical literacy and interest are what many parents long for, which can make their children's lives more interesting and their happiness index higher. As parents, children can fall in love with music with a little care. How to cultivate children's musical literacy?

First, when the baby is in the womb, listen to some soothing and pleasant prenatal music; After the child comes out, he should form the good habit of keeping him in the music atmosphere at any time and play some world famous songs for him at will. Besides sleeping, no matter what children are doing, they can inadvertently capture beautiful music, and these melodies will be imperceptibly internalized into children's nutrition. You must believe in the power of classics.

Second, enjoy music with children. Children naturally yearn for beautiful music. Usually parents can play games with them while singing. Babies before the age of five are not afraid to repeat. We can sing the same nursery rhymes over and over again.

Third, choose an instrument. I have done some research in school, and the children who have practiced musical instruments have good coordination, quality and high musical quality, and often study well. Children can touch musical instruments when they are four or five years old. Practicing musical instruments is an extremely test of parents' perseverance. The following points should be noted:

1, choose an instrument to be recognized by children as much as possible. Our parents often consider the price, time, popularity and other issues, ignoring the children's own characteristics. Children's strong interest in playing is an inevitable prerequisite for persistence.

2. In the process of learning, we should pay more attention to companionship than persecution, beauty than technology, and process than result.

Pinyin learning

In fact, pinyin learning is not only a language course, but also requires a baby to have certain thinking ability, so you can't rush into it.

The consonants at the beginning of each syllable in Chinese can form initials. There are 2 1 consonant symbol "Yi * *" specified in the Chinese Pinyin Scheme "Initial List", and there are 37 vowels. Putting initials and finals together to form the pronunciation of a word, because it is no longer monosyllabic, so many babies find it difficult to accept this pronunciation at first. In fact, there are methods and skills to learn Pinyin. If you master the correct pronunciation skills and memory methods, your baby will find that learning pinyin is not so difficult.

Children also need the correct guidance of their parents in the process of learning pinyin. Preschool children can only learn pinyin letters at first, but they can't reach the ability of spelling. Because children's thinking has not developed to abstract thinking, even if some children may have done it, they will recite it. This process requires parents not to rush, otherwise the baby may lose interest in learning.

Children riddle

Children's riddles use the most obvious visual methods such as personification, metaphor, exaggeration or suggestion to describe the outstanding characteristics of things or objects in appearance, shape, nature, color, sound, origin and use, so that children can guess the answers according to the reference elements provided by riddles through association, reasoning and judgment.

Children's riddles are generally easy to understand, vivid and catchy, which is not only suitable for children to recite orally, but also convenient for children to guess in a short time. In the process of guessing riddles, children's intelligence can be developed, and their cognitive ability can be deepened and improved.

The characteristics and functions of children's riddles: rhyming words, vivid images and concise words. When guessing riddles, we should not only guess the answers simply, but also learn some knowledge from riddle analysis to further expand children's knowledge and promote their intellectual development. The association method in the process of guessing can improve children's imagination.

Children joke

Children's jokes:

1, my three-year-old daughter is playing a phone game. Pick up the phone: Hello, is this 1 10? Here is a courier.

2. A 5-year-old child came to the mobile business hall and said, "Auntie, I want to charge the phone bill."

"Hey, the mobile phone you use is so small!"

"Mom said I called, and I want to have a sister."

3. My son scored 92 points in Chinese and 75 points in mathematics in the mid-term exam.

I asked him, "Didn't you get more than 90 points in math last time?" Why are the grades so unstable? You have to work harder to stabilize your grades. "

The son said aggrieved, "When playing cards, there are good cards and bad cards. Didn't you just lose and win? Are you unstable? "

4. "Dad, I failed the art final exam!"

"Why!"

"The teacher asked me to draw a group of fish, and the students all drew fish swimming in the water. Only I painted squid with iron plate. " I burst into tears in an instant!

5, eat breakfast in the morning, a young Ma Ma took a girl of 15 years old to eat, as if because of the problem with the boss's change.

The boss's voice was a little loud. Macey, who was eating noodles at that time, said, C, she has reached menopause and can't afford to be hurt. ...

6. When I was a child, I stole 100 yuan from home and bought a bag of crispy noodles with 50 cents.

The remaining 99.5 yuan was secretly put back. I thought I only stole fifty cents without being found. I thought I was so smart!