Excerpts and appreciation of fu lei's letters.

"Son, I abused you, I will always be sorry for you, and I will never atone for this sin! These thoughts have never left my mind all day, but I dare not tell your mother that if you do something wrong in your life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed and cannot be washed away! "

Comments: On the occasion of parting, father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict and cruel to his son, which turned out to be his own fault. Well, in fact, this is the love for my son! If you don't work hard when you are young, your boss will be sad! When his son was young, Mr. Fu Lei was strict and meticulous with his son, and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. Sounds like a joke. Where would a father abuse his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a stick makes a dutiful son, and Mr. Fu Lei uses strict father to make a gifted scholar. When our parents are "violent" to us, we should have an understanding attitude and understand our parents' anxiety. Because they did it for us, and they hated iron for not turning into steel. After all, parents have the desire to make their children successful and their daughters successful!

"As far as playing is concerned, I think the overall performance is good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate and there are indeed many changes. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "

Comments: This is what Mr. Fu Lei said to his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

"In the public * * * group, catching up on tasks will inevitably hinder normal study, which I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. " Comment: Parents can't let go of all the advice. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.