How to talk to my husband about divorce (send him a message that we are divorced)

It is difficult to define the relationship between husband and wife clearly. Some people say that the relationship between husband and wife is a kind of "interest relationship". Once this interest is not met, the husband and wife will go their separate ways. There is a saying that the husband and wife are birds in the same forest, but when it comes to disaster, they will fly separately.

but there is another saying: it takes ten years to build a boat, and it takes a hundred years to build a pillow. Husband and wife should care for each other, * * * share weal and woe, and never give up. However, in real life, what can be done is a minority after all, especially in today's impetuous society, where the divorce rate continues to rise, and people no longer make do with it, but pursue a higher quality marriage life.

It's hard to say whether this is a good thing or a bad thing. It can only be said that different people have different opinions. Since we are destined to get together, we should take this relationship seriously anyway. Even if we can't get together, we can still get together well.

Here are some wives who sent their husbands "Let's get a divorce", and the reply pierced their hearts. Tears wet the screen and hurt their hearts!

Some people say that a person who "betrays" is like a piece of RMB that has fallen on the ground and has a sticky stool. It is hard to bear to throw it away, but it is disgusting to keep it. Others say that "betrayal" is only zero and countless times. In the eyes of many people, spiritual "betrayal" is nothing. In fact, in many cases, spiritual "betrayal" is far more heartbreaking than physical "betrayal", but the latter is like a sharp knife to cut the bone, while the former is like a blunt knife to cut the meat. The most deadly thing in the above chat is not the man's way of doing it, but the man's way of thinking, because in the end he still said: Aren't all men like this? In fact, this is just an excuse for himself. If he thinks so, he will still do so in the future.

This wife is right. If you men can accept it, then we women have nothing to say. Everything has happened, and my wife already knows. Shouldn't we apologize at this time? Do men like to find all kinds of reasons to justify themselves? Instead of reflecting on whether your words and deeds meet the standards of a married man? Like the one above, it is not terrible for people to do something wrong. What is terrible is that they have no intention of repentance. What is even more terrible is that they take it for granted! I can forgive you for doing something wrong, but I can't forgive you for not repenting!

Again, when a woman says break up or divorce, she is actually disappointed in the man, so she wants to escape. At this time, what they need is a man's comfort, and they need a man to give them a sense of security, instead of men blindly defending themselves or even accusing them of making a mountain out of a molehill. The trivial things in men's eyes are just things that women think men should not ignore. If men still stubbornly think that women are unreasonable at this time, they will only add fuel to the fire and there will be no room for relaxation.

The young couple treated the divorce as a joke. In fact, it can be seen that they are used to it. The woman said that the divorce was just a coquetry, and she didn't take it seriously. However, in the process of getting along with two people, we should pay attention to the fact that it is better to make fewer jokes, especially when two people are angry, so it is very likely that they will say something irreparable. You should know that the water spilled out of the words will hurt people invisibly. In case it comes true when you say it, it's really not worth the candle.

men should have their own careers, but why do they work so hard for their careers? In ancient times, there were emperors who "didn't love mountains and rivers and loved beautiful people". Now, can men even abandon their wives and homes because of their work? A truly successful man does not mean how much money he earns and how successful his career is, but that he can create a happy living environment for the people he cares about, so that his parents, wife and children can have food and clothing, and their family and talents can flourish, otherwise he is just a lone wolf who doesn't understand life!

Dear netizens, what behaviors do you find most unacceptable? Will you get a divorce because of this? Welcome to share your story below!