Are the fresh children in "Braving the Guandong" really so kind, honest or fake?

The female character I don't understand most in the play "Braving the Guandong" is Xianer. Throughout the whole play, she has always been kind, forbearing and considerate, but is she really that good?

First of all, I am particularly sure that Xianer's contribution to the sketch, even the thoroughly remoulded parents of the sketch, is not too much. More than half of Xianer's frustrations are due to the fact that the sketch failed her. But what I can't understand is that she tasted the taste of being abandoned. How could she allow Chuan Wu to take her away on her wedding night? She not only kept Xiuer widowed for more than ten years, but also prevented Chuanwu from having a normal marriage.

Many people will say that Xiuer married Chuanwu because of unrequited love in The Grass Widow. Sa Dui's sketch is really unrequited love, and she really wants to marry him. Han Laohai also brushed some means; But no one forced them to put the knife around Zhujiajian Island's neck. They have a choice, but life is tense. At first, martial arts was also very resistant. He once ran away from marriage, was arrested and locked up for a few days, and then agreed. Chuanwu is not authentic in this matter, risking a girl's reputation. Before Chuanwu and Xiu Xiu got married, Chuanwu expressed his ideas to her several times, but they were all rejected by Xianer.

But on the wedding day of Chuanwu, Xianer first sang a play for Chuanwu, showing a very lonely expression. In the evening, Chuanwu came to elope with her, and she ran away with Chuanwu! Did she forget that she was just heartbroken by this article? What's more, in Zhu Kaishan, I beat her face to face and said, Son, whether you are married or not, after all, you are only half a step away from being an uncle and sister-in-law. This is incest. What can people say when they come out? Don't say you can't promise, even if I am, I can't promise you. Your birthright has long been imprinted in everyone's heart and cannot be erased!

Even a distressed Wen Niang said: how can this happen! Although Wen Chuan didn't marry Xianer, if Chuanwu and Xianer get married, then call brother to marry sister-in-law! Zhu Kaishan punched the table: No, with my breath, this beast can't think about that beautiful thing. Knowing that the elders were so opposed, Xianer followed suit. Although Xianer said she was sorry for her parents, she didn't consider her parents physically. She didn't consider how the Zhujiajian would face Han Laohai's anger, nor did she consider that being abandoned as soon as she got married would become a joke in others' eyes.

What's more, at that time, when society attached so much importance to the appointment of three media and six gifts, Xianer's behavior was against etiquette, and Zhu Jiajian was right to favor that article between her and that article. In a word, Xianer has an unshirkable responsibility for this tragedy. If she hadn't eloped with Chuanwu, Chuanwu might not like Xiuer at first, but with the long marriage and more and more time spent with Xiuer, it's hard not to be moved by such a simple and kind woman who only likes him, and maybe life will be better.

If Xianer was engaged to Chuanwu from the beginning, then I believe that even if her parents don't agree, or there are other factors to stop her, Chuanwu will certainly not live up to her. However, fate is always so confusing. Finally, the feud between Xiuer, Xianer and Chuanwu was resolved. Chuan Wu died for his country, and Xianer and Xiuer followed Zhujiajian Island back to Shandong. Their stories float on the wheel of history.