The father-in-law borrowed 700,000 relatives for his son's marriage. What happened to the son-in-law who felt particularly humiliated?

Details: Brother-in-law graduated from college for two or three years, and now works in a mold factory, with a salary of three or four thousand yuan in January. I asked him how many year-end awards he got this year, and he said 500 yuan. Ok, let's get down to business. My brother-in-law is about 25 years old, and his family is going to build a house and marry him. My husband's family conditions are not so good. I have just paid off my debts, and now I have to build a new house. My husband is in charge of the warehouse in the factory, and my mother-in-law has no job at home and has basic old-age insurance.

The current situation is that I borrowed 350,000 yuan to build a house, and now the shell of the house was built just after the Spring Festival, which looks like a third-floor villa in the countryside. After the completion, there was not much money left, so we had to redecorate. On the first floor, the second floor and the third floor, he was left alone, with 654.38+0.5 million yuan. Drive in another car. How can you fall in love without a car now? 65438+100000 bought a car, so it's already 600000, but the bride price and wine money haven't been counted yet, and 700000 may not stop. They are from Dangwan Village, Xiaoshan. The current situation in our family is that we just bought a 90-square-meter house in June, and now it is almost 1 10,000 in half a year. It is because of the house we just bought that my husband borrowed it from me. My brother-in-law said how to buy a house at this time. The implication is that I won't borrow it. Of course, I won't deny it!

I bought a house with a loan of 30 15 years, and I still pay 3000 yuan a month. What I want to ask is, don't husbands even consider paying back the money? Or are you going to let your son and relatives (mainly us) help him pay it back? At present, there are three main problems.

First, can he borrow so much money from home? There is still half left to borrow.

Second, how can they pay back their family income (my husband has managed more than 4 thousand a month, and there is no year-end bonus)?

Third, how can a daughter-in-law face so many debts and live a stable life at home in the future? I don't know how to get along with their family. I don't want to go to my wife's house now. My wife often quarrels with me about it. For example, during the Spring Festival this year, I went to visit my relatives at her house, and my husband's family took my car. I felt particularly humiliated.