What kind of parents do children hate most?

Although most parents love their children, some parents should really reflect on themselves. Why do you pay so much for your children, and they are still not close to you?

When a couple has their first baby, everyone is a parent for the first time, but in the process of children, some parents become their children's mentors, and some parents' behaviors really annoy their children.

1. Indiscriminately beat and scold the children. Some parents may have a bad temper, which may be the way they think. As long as the child has a conflict with his classmates at school, the teacher calls to find out the reason. When parents don't know the truth after hearing it, they will beat the child first. Blame everything wrong on the child, maybe the child is not at all wrong, but out of self-protection, parents never listen to the child's explanation. In fact, such parents will bring great psychological and physical harm to their children if they continue like this for a long time. Maybe he thinks you don't love him.

2. Love to hit children and scold them in front of others. No matter what you do, even if parents know that their children can do it bravely, or never give them a chance to try. Everything is a blow to her. And I always feel that my child is wrong, and I never leave any face for my child. Even in front of outsiders, I can say anything and suppress him.

3. Never consider the child's feelings, and give him many remedial classes and training courses. Although you love your child very much, give him some free space. Sometimes you enroll your child in so many extracurricular classes, and the child knows that you want him to have a better future, but you never consider what he needs and what he needs to do to be happy.

4. Disobeying the rules of public places and being rude in front of children. It is true that parents are the best role models for children, but some parents are also the worst negative examples for parents. She is talking loudly in public places, for a small matter, it is obviously her fault, and she wants to compete with others for a win or lose. And the children next to you really feel ashamed sometimes. I'm an adult. Why don't I know the most basic manners?

Both parents and children grow up in mutual learning, mutual understanding and mutual care, and it is this kind of love that children will be willing to accept. Therefore, parents who are at fault also need to face up to their shortcomings and correct them in time.