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Adam and Eve are the happiest couples in the world, because they have neither in-laws nor in-laws!

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Typical behavior

One side is nagging, and the other is silence;

The nagger is upset, and the nagger is upset;

Long-term depression leads to the sudden outbreak of the nagged person, and the consequences are unpredictable;

Both sides are very upset.

A nagging woman versus a nagging man

When it comes to nagging, men think of women first.

Men always think that women are naturally nagging, and they can talk for hours or even all day, no matter big or small.

However, many women will not admit their nagging. In their view, "nagging" means reminding men to do something they should do, such as not making the house messy, keeping it tidy even if you don't help clean it up, repairing the broken faucet, wearing socks for two days, and taking out the garbage when going out ... Women's nagging is out of concern for men, so be careful to remind them not to forget anything.

In addition, women's nagging is to correct some bad habits of men, such as don't leave soot all over the floor, don't drink regularly, don't wolf down meals, don't sit on the sofa and watch TV after meals, don't throw dirty socks everywhere, and don't rub wet towels into a ball on the table. ...

In the eyes of women, men have many bad habits. These bad habits will affect men's health and quality of life, so they must be corrected through repeated chanting.

Women are not tired of their nagging, but feel it is necessary, because what men say to them always goes in one ear and out the other, and they don't care at all. Only by repeating it over and over again can a man listen to it, keep it in mind and put it into action. If men don't change, women will keep talking.

It is painful for men to nag women, but do men never nag?

Not necessarily!

A survey by an authoritative organization in the United States shows that men also love to nag!

The researchers conducted a 2- 10-day follow-up survey on hundreds of students from the United States and Mexico. The survey results show that the number of times men and women speak in a day is very similar-women speak 162 15 words on average and men speak 15669 words on average.

Matthias, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Arizona? Mel said: "The old stereotype that women nag and men are silent is unfounded."

As can be seen from the above survey results, although women talk more than men on average every day, men are not inferior.

Some women also put forward circumstantial evidence for this result: "Yes, men are really nagging. He often says,' Why did you get up late again? How many times have I told you, go to bed early and put on more clothes, or you will catch a cold. Do you still remember the route I just told you tomorrow? Back up important documents before revision. I have told you many times why you never do it' ... "

Men won't admit these sloppy behaviors. They think this is their way of caring, because women always don't do this, so they remind them again and again to prove that they care about this woman.

Apart from these rambling words, men usually talk endlessly about cars and tools, which has a lot to do with their hobbies.

No matter how sexy a woman is, she will become nagging, unless you will never get her.

Men are puzzled by women's nagging: women have never been found nagging in the pursuit stage and love stage, but with the close relationship, women have begun to nag.

In order to avoid women's nagging, men will deliberately choose sexy women with few words, high taste and enchanting when choosing a partner, because they think such women will not nag, and pay more attention to elegant mood and hot eyes. They may spend two hours or more dressing up, but they will never keep complaining about your dirty clothes.

Men spend a lot of time, energy and money in the pursuit of such a sexy stunner, hoping to finally get a woman who fascinates them but cherishes words like gold. However, the fact shattered this dream, and men were surprised to find that when they got this sexy woman, she seemed to become nagging overnight!

A sexy woman won't nag, because she doesn't have to subdue a man with words. As long as a look, a gesture and a smile are needed, a man will be distracted, prostrate himself at her pomegranate skirt, driven away and pushed around. Such a woman will never nag about a man's dirty clothes lying around, because she will throw them on the ground in an extremely provocative way.

Similarly, a woman who has just fallen in love will not nag, because beauty is in the eye of the lover, and every move of a man is perfect and charming to her, even throwing ashes will be regarded as a man's performance. At this time, all her attention was on the man, and all she could think about was how to be very much in love with him. She doesn't have time to care about whether the floor is clean, whether the bowl is well brushed, and whether the table is too messy ... Even if they nag about one thing, the man who is also in love will definitely do it to please her. He will regard this as a kind of happiness, not nagging.

Nagging only happens between close people, such as husband and wife, mother and child or lovers. Once a sexy woman becomes your lover or wife, she will become as nagging as other women after her feelings have stabilized. This phenomenon is inevitable, unless you can never get her.

Why do women nag?

Women have super language talent, which is determined by their brain structure. They can multitask, watch soap operas while talking on the phone and repeat stories word for word; I watched the children while cooking. The food was delicious and I had a good time with the children. Chatting with colleagues while working makes no mistakes in work; When chatting, several contents are involved at the same time, and the thinking jumps flexibly. ...

Women are born with the ability to multitask, while men are relatively poor. Their brain structure determines that they can only concentrate on one thing at a time. For example, when answering the phone, they must turn off the TV volume to the minimum or simply turn it off; Even if I drive with the radio on, I don't know what is playing. ...

Men are single-minded and can't bear more problems. When they are faced with the nagging content of women with many clues, it is difficult to sort out the logical order. These rambling words left them at a loss and then chose to escape. This is why men tend to keep silent when women nag. Only when they are depressed to a certain extent will they fight back and the quarrel will begin.

This falls into a vicious circle, that is, the more women nag, the more men are silent, the more men are silent, and the more women nag, and war will break out one day.

Both men and women have the same purpose when nagging: to make the other person feel guilty, so as to motivate the other person to take positive actions and not to continue the wrong behavior.

If we carefully analyze the hidden motives behind this goal, we will find that there are two important reasons for women's nagging. First, I hope others will pay more attention to her contribution, or I can improve my bad situation.

If you look closely, you will find that women nag about trivial things. She will grab a tiny detail and talk endlessly for a long time, and it will also involve other small things. A woman's life is made up of many trivial things. When she has done a lot for her family, but she can't get the recognition and praise from her family, she will keep nagging. Only in this way can her family see her efforts and achievements.

It can be inferred that most nagging women are dissatisfied and feel that they are not valued and recognized and lack careful care. If you are a smart person, you must learn to praise and affirm her regularly, so that her nagging will be much less.

Second, women feel that the men around them are too immature and too like children.

Many women feel more rational than their boyfriends or husbands. They are more like a little boy than a man.

At work, men always look like dedicated, mature and battle-hardened leaders. They can cope with everything calmly and be comfortable in the complicated workplace. But once I get home, these advantages that women envy disappear completely, become chaotic, difficult to communicate, and even be naughty and rebellious like a little boy.

Women are very angry about this and don't understand why men's ability in the workplace has disappeared at home. So women will treat men as naughty boys, which is a wrong start. The more a woman treats a man as a child, the more he will behave like a child, showing the child's rebellion and destructiveness to the fullest. At this time, the relationship between men and women has changed subtly, no longer lovers or lovers, but mothers and children. ''

This is obviously an abnormal relationship between men and women, and anyone can foresee bad results: women are more and more nagging, men are more and more disgusted, and one day their feelings will break up.

If you listen carefully to women's nagging, you will find some rules. Generally speaking, women's nagging can be divided into five modes:

Direct type

Go straight to the point and never beat around the bush. For example, "honey, go and brush the toilet." If the man still doesn't do it after 5 minutes, the woman will continue to say "Why hasn't the toilet been brushed", and the next 5 minutes will become "When did you brush the toilet" or "I told you to brush the toilet several times, why haven't you moved" and so on. Finally, this nagging will turn into a kind of accusation, accusing men of not listening to instructions and dragging their feet. Men sometimes don't deliberately refuse to do something, just don't want to do it for the time being. They think watching TV just after dinner is much happier than brushing the toilet right away, and they don't think it's unforgivable to brush the toilet a few minutes later. If a woman can control her temper and wait a little longer, she will surely see a toilet as clean as new.

Multiple orders.

Women's minds often jump very fast, and they can flash a dozen thoughts in an instant without overlapping. So they will nag about many different things in a short time, such as "The water is boiling, please fill the kettle for me" and "Why is the TV not clear? Come and have a look ","God, there are cockroaches here, please put the cockroach killing medicine in every corner of the room ","There is a small hole in the screen window, please fix it quickly " ...

These multiple imperative sentences will make men dizzy, don't know which to do first, and finally simply do nothing and do their own thing first. Women will continue to nag loudly, "Why didn't you do this" and "Why didn't you do that".

You know, men are single-minded and can't think of many things at the same time. If they receive many signals at the same time, maybe their brains will collapse and you can't make them do anything.

Care about others.

A woman's kindness sometimes turns into nagging. For example, "Don't smoke, it's bad for your health", "Don't sit still after eating, stand up and walk for a while", "Why don't you just wear a shirt when it's cold" and "Don't eat sweets, the doctor just said that your blood sugar is high" ...

These nagging are completely from the heart of women, who want to care about men and make them live better. But men obviously didn't understand it correctly, but felt uncomfortable.

Type of curve.

Some women love to beat around the bush, never say it directly, but "save the country by curve". For example, "The Mimans bought the cupboard with us, and they have already installed it. At this rate, it won't be safe next week. " ...

This kind of winding nagging often includes the third person, which means keeping up with the joneses. I believe no one wants to compare themselves with others.

Just a reminder.

Some women are very white men and will make mistakes in something, so they will remind them in advance in case they don't do well enough. For example, "You should drink less at the banquet in the future, and I don't want to ask someone to help you carry you home like last time." "You should dress appropriately for our class reunion in the evening." "Come to my parents' house tomorrow and laugh more and help more." ...

Women say this out of kindness, hoping that men will behave better on some occasions, but these words have two meanings for men. One is to deny yourself, which means "I'm not good enough", and the other is to have no confidence in myself. This kind of meaning is naturally uncomfortable, and few men will follow it willingly and happily.

These five nagging patterns are the most common. I believe many women will smile helplessly after reading it. They know that this is really their way of nagging, but they can't think of a better way to replace it.

These five nagging patterns don't work most of the time, but will make men rebellious and even angry. Once this negative emotion breaks out, it will hurt the feelings of both sides and make a good relationship disappear.

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There is no need for directory order quarrel.

Chapter 65438 +0 nagging woman VS nagging man, who can be better?

A nagging woman versus a nagging man

No matter how sexy a woman is, she will become nagging, unless you will never get her.

Why do women nag?

A woman's nagging pattern

Is nagging an angel or a devil?

Is it useful to nag?

Catching mice with cheese is much more effective than using peppers.

Chapter 2 The most shocking behavior and thoughts of men

Why do men like to speak in a commanding tone?

Why can't men even stand a minute of advertising time?

Why don't men want to stop and ask for directions?

Why are men extremely impatient to go shopping with women?

Why do men always tell dirty jokes at parties?

Why do men always have so many annoying habits?

Chapter 3 Are women really made of water? Why do you cry when you say cry?

Everyone is born a "water doll"

Women always shed more tears than men.

Women melt men's steel into mud with tears.

Tears are sometimes an absurd weapon.

From 1 to N+ 1

Get rid of the threat of absurd weapons

Chapter IV How do women "calculate" men?

Is it 100?

Women are born mathematicians.

1 100 and 100 1

Improve the relationship, from now on.

The fifth chapter reveals the most common lies of men and quietly understands his heart.

The bottom secret

How busy are men?

Which is more important, ex-girlfriend or current girlfriend?

Why doesn't his blog have me?

Admit that your bad man is the worst man.

Not dating in public? Then please step aside.

Please don't call me baby.

Chapter VI Women want promises, but men are most afraid of promises.

Do you need to be responsible?

Where is the man's enthusiasm?

This is a contest between love and freedom.

What kind of woman will make a man willing to commit himself?

It's only a foot away from the door

Chapter VII Woman, another woman you have to face-his mother.

A little helpless joke

Mother-in-law's bitter fruit

From curve to tug-of-war

The most frequently asked unanswered question in history.

Mother-in-law didn't treat you as her own daughter? You don't think of her as your own mother.

Wife, husband and mother-in-law, can they form a triangle?

Adam and Eve are happy because they have no in-laws and no father-in-law.

Chapter 8 Every woman is an orator.

How is the "sound box" made?

How does a man's life span get shorter?

An unrealistic "speaker"

How do women complicate things?

Man's plea: stop "jumping"

How did the project go?

Chapter 9 Women despise men with nosebleeds, but they all want to be the one who makes men move.

A woman with a nosebleed

A person's eyes fell out and came back.

What excites men most about women?

When beauty meets charm

Want a man by your side? You need to know how sexy you are.

Chapter 10 A woman can also be an anthomaniac to see if he is a man.

What opens the door to women's emotions?

Where do men make women feel the most exciting?

What kind of man can attract bees and butterflies the most?

Chapter 1 1 Do you still think men are lying?

Only the enemy will tell you the truth.

Everyone will experience a night full of deception.

Not all lies are shameless.

Women lie to make others better; Men lie to make themselves better.

Women are born with polygraph.

Women only believe what they want to believe.

See through lies and stop being cheated.

Chapter 12 When a person's world calms down-about retirement.

Every old man has a child in his heart.

When the hunter put away his bow

Father will be your child one day.

Facing a retired man is the biggest headache for women.

Let the man's world really calm down.

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