Is death really terrible?

You're right. Death is really terrible. Because you died, you left this world and your loved ones. Everything in the world has nothing to do with you. You'll never see anything in the world again. So death is a terrible thing for everyone.

Because you're dead. You no longer exist in this world. No matter how many relatives and friends you have, your death means that everything in this world has nothing to do with you. So death is really a terrible thing for everyone.

Especially when you are dying, you will miss all your relatives and friends in this world, especially your children, and you will miss them even more.

So when you know that you are going to die, you are very sad, and you are also facing fear. In our world, no one will be so calm when facing death. Not many people face that they are about to leave their loved ones, and it doesn't matter if friends leave this world.

So in our world, facing death, most people are afraid.

Aren't people afraid of death? A famous Yang Tianyong robbery and murder case happened in Kunming. Legend has it that they killed a hijacked man, and a lot of shit was scared out, but killing a woman is rare. But are women really not afraid of death? Look at those old nurses eating fast and chanting Buddha. Are you really just for the safety of your family? Not exactly. Some people say that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and children are brave, but can you tell your children to die? I promise, if you tell your child about your death, he will leave a psychological shadow.

According to friends, some people who have been sentenced to death and are waiting to be executed can't even walk, and some people will have deformed faces and suddenly become ill. But some stupid happiness is like nothing happened. I've seen the kind of woman who committed suicide by taking rat poison. She was taken to the hospital on her back, foaming at the mouth and humming, help me. I went through it once. When I was a child, I watched others swim by the deep pool. I thought it was quite simple, so I took off my clothes and jumped in. As a result, the water fluttered and struggled for a while, and then I showed my head on the water. At that moment, I thought it was really over. Fortunately, there was someone beside me, and several partners pulled me up. As soon as they came into contact with me, my name was a person who clung to their necks and had a strong desire to survive. Later, I worked hard to learn swimming skills, and now it is directly a white strip in the waves. But that's it. Because of the shadow of my childhood, I'm still a little afraid to swim in some rivers and reservoirs.

Are people really afraid of death? I once saw a man dying while watching a swindler gang pose to guess the melon seeds gambling stall. His hand was broken and fell to one side, still comforting his crying girlfriend. I also heard a friend say that some people committed suicide in prison, and they were afraid to disturb the inmates to save their lives, so they quietly cut open their stomachs with a very small grinding blade, pulled out their intestines and cut them into several sections. Before he died, he put a piece of cloth around his neck and twisted himself with chopsticks. How determined you are to commit suicide! And those who have been ill for a long time are not afraid of death. Those who go to war, do you think it is useful to be afraid of death? After the shot, I gradually became numb. Especially when I saw the people around me fall down one by one, I was full of anger, and I had forgotten life and death. Some people who went to the battlefield came back and said that if they heard someone crying after being shot, most people would be saved. If you hear a slight gasp and scold the son of a bitch, it's probably hopeless.

People are most afraid of death at both ends of their lives. On the one hand, children and teenagers are bold, on the other hand, they can't hear people talking about death. When I grow up, I encounter all kinds of bad troubles and changes, and I am severely hit and tortured by life. At this time, I am not afraid of death. When I get old, death really becomes near value, and I'm afraid of death again. Look at so many swindlers who cheat the elderly to buy health care products. Why are they so successful? In addition to the slow response of the elderly, there is another important reason that the elderly are anxious about life.

If you ask me, are you afraid of death? I'm scared myself sometimes. Seeing the construction fence in the street, I looked up and watched it pass quickly. Sometimes I'm not afraid. I often fantasize that if there really is a war, let me take the lead, I will still kill several enemies myself. I have had supernatural experience before, so I want to tell you not to be too afraid. The soul may really exist, but it is also a science, an unknown science.

The emperor didn't call me, but focused on historical review and current review.

For example, a person who wants to jump off a building shudders at the thought of the tragic fracture after jumping off a building, but still wants to jump, indicating that the fear of death is far less than the fear of life; And those terminally ill patients who have suffered from illness for a long time can't wait to say that they will die. They're already dead.

It can be seen that death is not terrible, and death is only a ceremony to end life.

Older people are far less afraid of death than young people, and they are more comfortable with the topic of "going". In the past, when people were old, they would prepare coffins and shroud in advance and "see things" every day without any surprises. If you are young, you will exclaim "haunted house"!

Everyone must face death. When people are old (now, or in their eighties), the more they look, the more they can see the end of life. They don't expect to "desert" from the book of life and death in hades. They are more concerned about providing for the elderly before they die.

Teenagers and newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, tigers and even death. They are indifferent to death. Every summer, how many teenagers die because of rushing into danger. If you die, you die. "flower of life" was defeated before he opened it, and their parents didn't have enough time to mourn for him-"Be sure to have another one while you are young"!

When I was young, I didn't have a career in my life. Many ups and downs have never been tasted, but I thought I had seen Chang 'an flowers and understood the scenery of life. You must give up your life for a trivial matter. Aren't many people who clamor for death "as young as tigers"?

There are also a few unfortunate young people, whose flowers have just bloomed, and they were devastated by the god of fate in their hospital beds. At this time, they are most afraid of death.

We all laughed that he had a crow mouth. Unexpectedly, "crow mouth" actually said it. The girl came to the hospital for examination and found that she was terminally ill (I forgot what disease) and died a few months later. I went to the hospital when she was dying. She lives in a single ward. The light in the room is very dim. She was covered with a quilt and surrounded by thick curtains. There are some medical equipment beside the bed. She didn't have a boyfriend at that time, only her parents were there. Just as the doctor came in for examination, I heard her say, "Doctor, please help me!" " "I still remember the sadness and despair of the voice today, as well as the gloomy ward and the depressed atmosphere in the ward.

After the girl died, I didn't attend her memorial service. I heard that at the farewell ceremony, she wore a wedding dress and her parents cried their eyes out.

Young people, only invincible diseases can let him know how much he expects of life, but when there is no disease and no disaster, he is not afraid of death.

I also went to the prison to interview a dead prisoner, a tall man in his thirties. When he was taken out of the cell, he came step by step in a gray-blue vertical prison uniform with shackles on his hands and feet. What remains in my memory now is his figure slowly coming out of the shadow of the corridor and his extremely humble attitude in the interview. I couldn't help feeling sorry for him at that time, because I knew that he was a confession of his crimes and an extravagant hope for life.

I think that when people face the sudden end of life, they are not afraid of death, but full of expectations for life.

In a blink of an eye, when people reach middle age, many people are numb and have more understanding of life, but they may not have more attachment to life. Because life is too bitter! However, middle-aged people are particularly afraid of death.

This is the "composure" of middle-aged people relative to young people. He knows that every step he takes will involve many relatives, old and young, so he can be exempted from his responsibility when he dies!

If you are middle-aged, when you seriously think about the topic of death, your first thought is definitely not fear of death, but worry about "what will they do if I go?" ? This is the fear of death!

The sense of responsibility in life has been tested by death.

When a teenager dies, a new life will take his place. Young people die, leaving their parents with a long sadness that can be tolerated; His spouse, "while young", also has a way out. People often tell jokes online, saying that if someone dies, his wife is someone else's. That's what I'm saying.

Only the middle-aged people died, the pillars fell down, the houses were facing collapse, and the living were even worse.

So people are most afraid of death in middle age. He is not so much afraid of death as he is afraid of dying too early and leaving his family with nothing. He is reluctant, uneasy and unwilling!

As for how he died, whether he was killed by a car, drowned by water or died of illness, and whether the zombie was killed by fire or bitten by a bug after death, he had no time to take care of it.

Therefore, among suicides, middle-aged people who have lived for half are the least.

I survived middle age, my parents died when I was old, my children got married, and I had grandchildren. At the same time, my waist is sore and my legs are weak, I am three high, I am diabetic, I can't urinate, and other problems come to me. My food is not fragrant, my desire is weakened, my wife and husband have become "my wife", and my face is wrinkled ... I can't live like this! Haha, you can smile until you die.

This is life, there is no special plot and story line, as long as you don't shoot tragedies (selfies and self-performances), it can be said that it is enough!

Don't think too much, death is not so terrible. If you think too much, you will become afraid of the dead fool. That's asking for trouble. It is better to face everything calmly from the expectation of fate. (The emperor won't let me answer questions)