Woman, isn't it a fertility tool?

"Women are not born, but become women the day after tomorrow." -Beauvoir's The Second Sex

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"The biggest failure of a woman is that she doesn't have any children. The so-called living herself is a fool. No matter how beautiful and excellent you are, you can't escape the ravages of time. At the age of 9, you can't enjoy the family happiness of your children and grandchildren. "

This mocking remark about Yang li Ping completely angered people.

The day before yesterday, Ms. Yang li Ping posted a video on a certain tone, and as a result, all kinds of strange messages poured in, among which the most wonderful one was undoubtedly the above one.

What's even more speechless is that this message has won thousands of likes (deleted at present) and directly rushed to the top.

I don't know how many of these followers are women. All I know is that Yang li Ping is indifferent to similar views.

Yesterday, she responded: "People will get old and die, and no one can save you, but your spirit is young, and your breath is beautiful, which will give off a special taste. As long as you live well and don't hurt others, you can. "

This bland response can be said to be "Yang li Ping".

who is Yang li Ping?

Former vice-chairman of Chinese Dancers Association, national first-class actor, and member of China National Dance Examination Committee ..... is renowned at home and abroad for his song "The Spirit of Sparrow" and is regarded as the "Dance God" by the dancers.

But it is such a famous dance artist that people have been wondering for years: "Why don't you get married?" "Why don't you have children?"

Even more vicious people questioned that Yang li Ping was too old to have children.

In fact, Ms. Yang has had two marriages. It's a pity that for various reasons, we eventually parted ways with each other.

As for why she didn't have children, she said in an interview: "Some people live to carry on the family line, some enjoy it, some experience it, and I am a bystander of life. I came to the world to see how a tree grows, how rivers flow, how white clouds float and how dew condenses. "

There is no one who can live so fully, such as Yang li Ping.

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Even a spiritual woman like Yang li Ping has suffered from secular prejudice, not to mention millions or even hundreds of millions of female compatriots in China. Since their birth, they have been faced with a question of social doubt and even self-doubt-< P > Do women enjoy "reproductive freedom"?

The answer that we take for granted now is simply unreasonable in the eyes of the older generation.

I have a distant cousin who is married. Because she has not given birth at the age of 3, she was almost forced by her mother-in-law to have a gynecological examination, "to see if there is anything wrong with her body."

Fortunately, my brother-in-law is a responsible man, and he took the initiative to tell his mother that they wanted to be a Dink couple, which avoided a family tragedy.

but what if my brother-in-law is also a traditional man who "takes women as fertility tools"?

think carefully and be afraid of extremes.

According to biological knowledge, the uterus and ovaries grow on women. Why can't women control their reproductive rights for a long time in history?

that's a long story.

Beauvoir, a famous French thinker, once made a sobering point in his book The Second Sex:

"Women are not born, but become women the day after tomorrow."

It means that the fate of women is defined and labeled by men. The reason why a woman becomes a woman is not purely for biological reasons, but also depends on the social system and civilization at that time.

two years ago, there was a TV series "Niang Dao", whose lines were full of materialized female words, but it was once a popular drama because some viewers were "quite vocal", which was really puzzling.

Of course, with the rise of women's status, the ideological trend of "women are just fertility tools" has gradually collapsed.

But we can't deny that even if a woman becomes a social elite, if she remains unmarried and infertile, she will still be labeled as an "older woman".

More ironically, many tagged spectators are also women.

alas, why should women be embarrassed?

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Although Ximenjun advocates that women should enjoy "reproductive freedom" throughout, in fact, I absolutely support the female compatriots who yearn for a full family.

As for the reason, just as Bernard Shaw said in a joke, "Whether you are married or not, just do it. Anyway, you will regret it later. " By the same token, people will "regret" whether they want children or not.

If you have children, you may face some practical problems, such as out of shape, residual gynecological problems, and financial difficulties.

Those who don't have children, although they can live freely now, can't deny that they will indeed encounter the dilemma of "No Country for Old Men" when they are old.

After all, not everyone can live as freely as Yang li Ping.

in the final analysis, it is a person's freedom to get married or not, and to have children or not. As for whether that choice will bring happiness, there is no necessary connection.

if both options are wrong, then the other way around, which one is right.

I hope you can be fearless of being pushed around by others, and look like live high.

May women realize their reproductive freedom at an early date.