Because I am too self-abased, short, ugly and poor and looked down upon by other colleagues, it makes me sick to see it as a joke?

Inferiority, as its name implies, is a feeling of inner unhappiness, that is, looking down on yourself and feeling humble and inferior to others. There are two reasons:

1, I didn't get enough love from my family and didn't understand my own value.

Love from a family is parents' encouragement, hug, praise and tolerance for your mistakes since childhood. For example, if you make a mistake in kindergarten, your parents will not punish you except telling you right or wrong, but will also take responsibility with you. Or parents often hold you and say that this birthmark on your face is a special symbol of our love for you.

When it comes to the value of people, it comes to the source of people. The popular saying that all men are created equal is illogical. Some people were born under the expectation of thousands of people, and were born in senior delivery rooms; Some people were born under a curse after their mothers were raped, but they were abandoned after birth. How can they be equal? The correct concept is that people are equal, because people are created by God's love. Although placed in the womb of different women and born in different environments, they are all life in the image of God. God has a special plan for everyone, and this is the value of people. Whether rich or poor, life is violated, God will hold it accountable. The value of life needs to be discovered slowly until the creator's plan for himself is realized. In this process, people's rationality is getting closer to the truth, and people's feelings are getting more and more sacred. This is the meaning of life. From this perspective, everyone is equal, because it is also God's creation and love. So we can see rich people sitting on the roadside and eating hamburgers with homeless people on the Internet.

2. Compare with others, or base your value on others' evaluation.

There is a word similar to inferiority called humility. Do you feel much better?

The difference between these two words is that inferiority is compared with others, such as being poorer than others, being shorter than others, and not responding as fast as others, which will bring inferiority.

Humility is comparing with God and knowing that you are carefully created by the Creator. Knowing that you have unique value and are loved, you don't have to compare with others, so you don't feel inferior; Similarly, knowing that everything you own is created and given, and the creator may take it away at any time, is not something to be proud of. So, no longer compare with others, but with God.

Another point is that people's inferiority will weaken with age. With the increase of life experience, let you know that many things are more important than your feelings and other people's comments. I have gradually made friends with people who feel comfortable, and my sense of inferiority will get weaker and weaker.

Finally, I recommend an animated film called "You are Special" by Lu Keduo. The hero, Brother Fat, has no merits and is looked down upon everywhere. He also feels that life is meaningless. When he met the carpenter who shaped him one day, he understood the purpose and significance of his life. Since then, confidence has come, and other people's comments have no meaning to him. May you get out of your inferiority complex as soon as possible and see your own preciousness!