Why not marry an unmarried girl?

Marrying a wife and having children is something that every man has to go through, and everyone basically has their own standards and principles when choosing a spouse. Just as most people resisted prostitutes in ancient times, some divorced women were not considered by men.

Although we don't have any views on divorce now, in ancient times, such an idea really hurt many women. Considering that it is difficult to remarry after divorce, even if you are wronged, you can only swallow it.

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The name wife is said to have originated from a story in the Tang Dynasty.

In the Tang Dynasty, there was a famous man named Mai Aixin. Seeing that his wife was old and looked bad, he had the idea of abandoning her and making a new love, and wrote a couplet on his desk: "When the lotus flower declines, the fallen leaves become old lotus roots."

Being seen by his wife, she saw her husband's idea of abandoning the old and welcoming the new from the couplet, so she began to write the second couplet: "The ecliptic is ripe, and the rice is now new." Taking "He Dao" as "He Lian" and "Xin Liang" as "Old Lian" is not only neat and appropriate, but also novel and popular. Moreover, "Lao Lian" is homophonic with "old couple" and "Xin Liang" is homophonic with "bride", which is very interesting.

Mai Aixin read his wife's second couplet and was moved by her quick thinking and love, so she gave up the idea of abandoning the old and welcoming the new. When the wife saw that her husband had changed his mind and never forgot the old feelings, she wrote, "My husband is very fair." Mai Ai Xin also wrote the next couplet: "My wife is a woman."