Do you accept that after you get married, you will live alone and have no children?

I can accept that. I'm Dink, and I'm Tie Ding. I chose Dink for the following reasons: First, my family life was not very happy when I was a child. My father often travels for work, so all the housework falls on my mother alone. Plus, my mother has a bad temper, so she complains a lot.

Then she took it out on me. My mother always scolds me and even beats me for trifles. Even once my forehead cracked and my face was covered with blood. I went to the hospital for four stitches. When my father came back from a business trip, they quarreled constantly, which gave me a splitting headache and I always wanted to escape from this home.

Their behavior makes me feel that if parents can't give their children a happy family, they might as well not have children! Second, I think the concept of "raising children to prevent old age" is out of date. The main thing is to see or hear too many negative news about how unfilial children compete for their parents' real estate or "live on their laurels" or even sweep them out of the house.

So I think it's better to go out and see the world while I'm young, and then prepare a pension for myself early, and then find a better nursing home to live in when I'm old.

Third, I think it's too much trouble to have children, especially to raise them. From what milk powder and diapers you chose as a child, to what kindergartens and primary schools you chose as a child, to various exam cram schools and interest classes, what kind of captain your children should be at school, what kind of friends they should make during the rebellious period, what university they should take, and then they should find someone to get married and have children later. An adopted son is a hundred years old, but a worried son is ninety-nine. I think I will live that long in my life. Why should I put such a spell on myself?