Why did Yue Fei marry Li Wa?

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Old Collection of the Forbidden City: Name of King Yue'e Fei Zi Pengju

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National hero Yue Fei has many tragic and joyful stories throughout his life. His personal integrity is equally respectable: he has only one wife in his life, and she is still a "sibling relationship"!

Yue Ke, the grandson of Yue Fei, records in the "E Kingdom Jin Tuo? Edition": "Li's name is Wa, and her courtesy name is Xiao'e. She is polite to her aunt, and she is also able to manage the military. When my ancestors set out to attack, they will definitely arrive. The generals cared for their wives and children and made them happy. On the day of Yixing, the ministers summoned him and his subordinates plotted a rebellion. One day, he met all the generals without saying a word. , sit down and tell them, capture and kill the rebels, and the army will be silent."

The grandmother Li Wa in Yue Ke's eyes was very virtuous, and the existing historical data also proves that this is true. Yue Fei's wife Li Wa was a fisherman's daughter. "Qidong Wild Language" records that in Yue Fei's army, Li Wa successfully dealt with the rebellion of Yue Fei's men and often harmonized the families of the generals. After the "Fengbo Pavilion Incident", Li Wa struggled to support the Yue family until Xiaozong died of illness in the second year of Chunxi (1175) at the age of 75. /d52a2834349b033b5e728c131ece36d3d439bd04?x-bce-process=image/resize,m_lfit,w_450,h_600,limit_1/quality,q_85

Zhao Ji, Emperor Huizong of the Song Dynasty, copied part of the picture scroll of Lady Zhang Xuanguo's spring outing

According to Wang Zengyu According to the teacher's textual research: Li Wa lived in Yixing in the fourth year of Jianyan and gave birth to Yue Lin, so she should marry Yue Fei in the second or third year of Jianyan. Li Wa was two years older than Yue Fei and was already twenty-eight or nine years old when she got married. It was very rare for men in the Song Dynasty to marry after the age of twenty. Why did Yue Fei marry such an old "leftover girl" and still have a "sibling relationship"?

In fact, although Li Wa is Yue Fei's first wife, she is not Yue Fei's first wife. Yue Fei's wife is Liu's daughter, and she is also the biological mother of Yue Yun, Yue An, and Yue Lei. After marrying Yue Fei, she also continued to make fireworks for the Yue family. Why didn't the Yue family recognize the Liu family?

"The Chronicle of the King of E" records: Yue Fei married the Liu family when he was sixteen years old, and later gave birth to three children for the Yue family. In the first year of Jianyan (1127), Yue Fei served as a soldier, and the Liu family took care of his mother-in-law and offspring at home. After the Jin soldiers went south, Liu abandoned his family and married an officer under Han Shizhong, which hurt Yue Fei. After Han Shizhong discovered this trouble, he decided to return the Liu family to Yue Fei, but Yue Fei refused. Regardless of emotion or reason, Yue Fei's actions are understandable.

It was under such circumstances that Yue Fei married Li Wa, a fisherman's daughter, in the third year of Jianyan (1129). His mother and the descendants left by his ex-wife were also raised by Li. Li was born in a humble background, and Yue Fei had become an officer. His friend Wu Wangjie chose a lady from a noble family as his concubine, but Yue Fei refused.

Yue Fei's morality is obviously noble. The whereabouts of the separated Liu family were only discovered nine years after the chaos. Han Shizhong calmly informed Yue Fei of the incident. Yue Fei's response was very indifferent and he did not respond for a long time. For this reason, Han Shizhong had a misunderstanding, not to mention that he was a very important figure in the court, so Han Shizhong sued Yue Fei for "abandoning his wife" and brought the trouble to the emperor. Yue Fei was so troubled that he had to submit a memorial to defend him: "On the day when I crossed the river in the ice, I left my wife to serve my old mother. Unexpectedly, my wife remarried twice, and I hated her to my bones. I have sent someone to send five hundred guans to help him. If there is a shortage, the whole country may not know why. ”/cb8065380cd791238ecae7bda6345982b3b780d4?x-bce-process=image/resize,m_lfit,w_450,h_600,limit_1/quality,q_85

Yue Fei’s calligraphy produced during the Republic of China

Zhao Gou, Emperor Gaozong of the Song Dynasty, understood this very well, agreed with Yue Fei's ideas, and commented to the officials: This woman is unfilial and unworthy of being a wife.

The plot of the history book is very circuitous and novel. Yue Fei was wrongly accused of his "lifestyle" and his political ideas were wrongfully accused to death. Yue Fei was killed, and Li Wa and the Yue family were exiled to Lingnan for twenty years.

However, Li "did not change his quiet and leisurely ways despite hardships" until Yue Fei showed up. Li Wa died at the age of 75. Yue Fei's "sister-brother love" has completely come to an end?

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