The generation gap between young and old couples is too deep to risk divorce. Tu Lei is telling the truth!

The reason why marriage advocates free marriage and love regardless of age and region has also brought more and more people together freely. Young and old couples are very different in age.

As long as two people live together, there will be friction. A few days ago, I watched Love Wars, in which there was a couple's marriage contradiction. I want to share it with you.

Mr. Dong is 39 and Ms. Liu is 29.

M: We met through a friend's introduction. We have been married for two years now and have a daughter of one and a half years old.

W: We are ten years apart, and there will be many generation gaps in personality and communication.

Man: She always doubts me, and she won't listen no matter how I explain it.

W: He always bargains with me financially. He is nothing like a man.

M: Our different consumption concepts will inevitably lead to some contradictions.

W: I will never get his support and understanding, and I will get the most accusations and complaints. I really can't continue with him.

As soon as Ms. Liu came to the stage, she said, "He often comes home late from work, and then he always haggles with me over trifles, and often ..." Before the words were finished, Mr. Dong was busy explaining, "Because I am a salesman, I have a lot of social activities at work, and sometimes I may talk about customers and come home late."

Then Ms. Liu added: "Often, he is not occasional. I take my children at home alone, and sometimes I have to take them to the hospital alone when they are sick. And his care is really hard for me to accept. For example, when we go shopping to buy clothes, he won't let me buy them at all. " He always thinks what I buy is too expensive, and then I don't like what he chooses. He always thought I was defeated;

Mr. Dong: Sometimes it's too much. For example, the hot water kettle at home is broken. I saw one at Suning Appliance for almost 500 yuan, and as a result, she bought one 1000. I think it's too overspent. Ms. Liu: I think it can be used for a long time to buy a better home appliance for a penny.

Ms. Liu: Once my parents came to see a doctor, I stayed with them. I want to give my mother 10 thousand yuan. He always asks my brother why he doesn't take care of my mother and doesn't want to give money. What he said was ugly; Mr. Dong said, "Didn't you get 3 thousand in the end? Anyway, the problem is not big, just a needle. "

These little things in marriage expose the different ideas, viewpoints and aesthetics of two people of different ages in life; This is also the key point for young and old couples to run in.

When the host asked Ms. Liu why she chose to marry Mr. Dong, she said, "I just think that finding an older person will be more stable, and she will know how to take care of me and tolerate me." After getting married, I found that he changed and cared more. It is this sense of gap that makes Ms. Liu complain and dissatisfied with Mr. Dong, but people usually don't see it and don't let her spend money. The discomfort in my heart accumulated day by day, and finally my heart ached.

Originally, I wanted to find a mature and steady person, be more tolerant and take on more economic responsibilities. As a result, Qian Qian didn't spend it or tolerate it. The original maturity has become an element that hurts me and makes my life unhappy. It's completely different from what I imagined before I got married, and I will gradually feel that my marriage has failed.

Mr. Dong's fault is that he obviously married a beautiful young wife 10 years younger than his childhood, but he had to pay a certain price. How is it possible that you have enjoyed her simplicity, her youth and her innocence, but at the same time you want to make her old? I don't understand my wife's needs after marriage, and I don't understand her dissatisfaction because she is too busy to go home. Instead, I think it's importune.

Teacher Qu Wei suggested that they should communicate with men and women effectively. Many people actually need to communicate effectively. One of the effective communication ways is quarreling, but some couples can quarrel with this plane. The relationship seems to be one step closer. You two quarrel and both lose. Why, your quarrel is irrelevant, so the advice to you is particularly simple, learn to quarrel and lose your temper;

Finally, Tu Lei's advice to women who take care of their children at home full-time is:

"No man wants to raise a woman. Only 10% of men in this world can support the family's economic responsibility independently, because no one is a fool and no one wants to be exhausted. The other person will die idle because it does not conform to the principle of distribution according to work, so problems will arise after a long time."

At the end of the program, Teacher Dong and Ms. Liu came out together. I hope Mr. Dong Can will listen to his teacher and treat his wife better in the future. Those gentlemen who are much younger than themselves should cherish the people around them, and don't take it lightly after making a mistake and regret it!