The man is 29 years old, and the person he likes has fallen in love with someone else. I'm sinking and I can't walk out. I told myself countless times to let go, but I just couldn't let go.

I hope my friends don't do stupid things! It's not worth hurting yourself for someone who left!

1, isolate and calm down.

I just broke up these days, and I have been living in a muddle, and I have never calmed down to think about why I am lovelorn. Is it because of personality or missing each other too much?

Maybe you are too dependent. Once you get used to it, you are very afraid of losing it, so it is easy to throw yourself into her/his whole world.

Maybe you are lovelorn. You're not sober, but you're too obsessed with the past to maximize the other person's tiny advantage. At this time, of course, you think that you have lost the rectification of the world.

Think more about yourself. Losing is not necessarily your loss.

Step 2 vent

Calm down, many people can't calm down at the first step. Being lovelorn has hit your hopes for a better future. No one can adapt to such a blow, and no one will laugh at you Then vent it, give yourself a space to vent, cry if you want, and let go of your vision and beauty.

3. Calm down again and accept the reality at the same time

Vent and vent, maybe you don't know the reason yourself, so you really need to give yourself a quiet space at this time, and continuous venting can't solve the problem.

Don't just think about each other's good, try to think about why you usually quarrel and get upset.

Is the other party too unreasonable? Do you like each other too much? Our life will go on and will not stop because of a person's departure.

It's time to get back to reality and tidy up your appearance. Face everyone with your own smile, and don't take it out on friends and family easily. Don't hurt more people for someone who has left you.

4. Discovery and transfer

Let go of your sadness and try to find things around you. Do you think your friends and your best friends are still so cruel to you? Do you find that some girls around you are actually quite cute? Do you suddenly find that someone likes you silently, and you didn't care at that time?

Never compare another person. Separated is separated. Try to find the beauty around you and accept another person, and your life will be completely turned upside down.

If you still can't get away, read books and listen to music, try to catch up with your favorite TV series, go to the cinema to watch your favorite movies, and eat delicious food that you have been reluctant to eat because of love.

5. Freshmen.

A new beginning, a new life, blood boiling, blood boiling, should be angry or angry, should laugh or laugh. Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, the next better person will be waiting for you.

6. Time

Why should I put this in the last step? Because many infatuated men and women haven't come out yet, so we have to wait for time to save you, don't do stupid things, don't care about the length of time, that's the best cure, don't miss the people around us. When time is enough, we can get a new life.