Is it too much for boyfriend and mother to ask for a bride price of 500 thousand?

Yes, it was finally solved through communication.

1, the bride price money is a custom and a form in the final analysis, and the money is also for you. But it's not cost-effective to affect feelings. We should communicate calmly, find a method that is satisfactory to both sides and take a step back. You didn't get married for the bride price. You need the bride price because you want to get married. You can't put the cart before the horse. Because money affects the wedding, isn't it that your feelings can't stand the polishing of life details, and how can you live together in the future? You know, there are many problems in life.

2, calm down, it should be love to go together, love to understand each other, forgive things, as long as money does not look at people, then love, love will be inclusive, and there are not many bride price left by social atmosphere. Look at the bride price according to her own abilities and conditions, do what she can, understand and discuss with each other, and tell her that she can still honor the elderly when she is married.

3. Communicate with your family. If you are going to get married again, the amount of bride price proposed by your family is relatively high, which is unacceptable to your boyfriend's family. You can communicate with your family at this time. You can ask your family to reduce the number of bride price appropriately, or choose other ways to pay the bride price.

4. Find a mutually acceptable solution. The less you can say, the better. The more you can say, the better. It depends mainly on your own ability, not too much. For example, if your economic conditions permit, try to satisfy the woman, and the woman should also understand that the bride price is not a standard for examining marriage, let alone measuring love, so it is best to understand it within the range that the man can bear. So take a step back from each other and the problem will be solved. There's no need to argue about it. Is love really less important than money? Right?

Since two people have reached the point of talking about marriage, it means that they really want to live with each other. If the bride price is not too much, I think as long as I show sincerity, I can save each other. In ancient times, there was a custom of marrying a bride with three books and six gifts. It is difficult for a family to raise a child, but the bride's family only wants her husband's family to give it a respectful attitude. Every parent wants his child to have a good life and hopes that the man will give her a bride price. This is just a courtesy, and parents will also give their daughters a bride price to marry him. Therefore, if the bride's bride price requirements are not too high, the bride price needs to be given. This is a kind of etiquette, but also a kind of respect and attention.