I wanted my husband to give up smoking, but he promised verbally, but it was difficult to implement it. What should I do?

I need to tell you for the majority of male compatriots that quitting smoking is really difficult, too difficult! Have you ever heard the saying: If a person can quit smoking, then you should not be friends with him, because he can do anything. Of course, this is a joke, but it also reluctantly admits the difficulty of quitting smoking from the side!

At this time, you really need to recognize this fact and the difficulty of quitting smoking, so as not to be eager for quick success and instant benefit, and hope that he will quit smoking immediately. When you realize this difficulty, we'll think about how to solve it.

My advice to you is to find your husband's weakness!

If your husband is worried about money, you will take the initiative to buy him cigarettes in the future, and you can buy any expensive cigarettes. You can tell him that cheap cigarette filters are of poor quality and do more harm to your health than tobacco itself. You can tell your husband that you can smoke more when you live for a long time! Then you buy him expensive cigarettes. After a long time, I believe he will feel very distressed, smoking less and less, and his addiction is well controlled. If it takes longer, maybe he will really give up smoking.

My father-in-law used to be a chain smoker. Later, my sister was admitted to the graduate school and my husband was admitted to the university. When money is needed at home, he earns money to support his family in Russia, where cigarettes are particularly expensive and it is inconvenient for him to go back to China often. I gave up smoking bit by bit because I was worried about money.

So if your husband is a person who doesn't want to spend money on himself, I believe this method will be very effective for him.

But if your husband really made a lot of money, he wouldn't lack these good cigarettes. Then you should see what other weaknesses he has If his weakness is his strength, for example, he is a family-oriented and responsible person. Then you might as well get pregnant and have a baby now. Whether you are pregnant or not, your husband won't smoke in front of you. He will smoke behind your back, and at this time he will smoke much less frequently than before. Then you had a heart-to-heart talk with him. You said you wanted him to quit smoking, which was a very responsible performance for you, him and your little baby. Then even if he feels uncomfortable again, I believe a responsible person will try to restrain his addiction and start trying to quit smoking.

My husband gave up smoking when I started preparing for pregnancy last year. Believe me, for a responsible man, he will give up smoking for everything you have done for your family. They can really do it!

Finally, let's go back to the original "if a person can quit smoking, he can do anything." We know it's difficult to quit smoking, and his addiction didn't form in a day, so don't expect him to quit at once. Quitting smoking takes a process. Please give him some time, patience, trust and introspection.

I believe he will give up smoking. I wish you health!