One of reducing mental internal friction: I don't care what others think.

We can't influence other people's ideas.

Just go your own way.

Psychological "spotlight effect" tells us that paying too much attention to the external evaluation will make you fall into depression.

There was once a mother whose daughter was often laughed at for her poor study and slow movements.

She feels ashamed, so she often scolds her daughter. Why can't she be as charming as other children?

But my daughter has been cursed for a long time. Instead of getting better, the problems are piling up.

This made her more anxious and depressed all day.

In fact, every child has his own flowering period and rhythm, and there is no need to tie other people's views into his own expectations.

He is your child, not your face.

Putting a child's future in someone else's mouth is the stupidest thing.

All you have to do is become a "noise reducer" to help them filter out unnecessary interference and noise.

Let them go their own way and see their own scenery.