If you want to give your daughter a sense of happiness, what words should you not say to her?

"Husband, please stop teasing your child. This is not good," said Keke. "If you are a grown-up, you still say these things to your child. I am really not afraid that she will not support you in the future." Keke's husband said : "You are joking with your child. My daughter won't take it seriously. Besides, what can she know at such a young age?" Coco's husband did not listen to his wife's advice and continued to tease his daughter.

It is estimated that many fathers will be like Keke’s husband and like to joke with their children. However, there are some things that you should not say to your children, especially your youngest daughter. Even though they are young, they are very smart. Sometimes, your jokes can break your daughter's heart, so if you want to give her happiness, it's best not to say them. Next, let’s list some things parents shouldn’t say.

You girl, what do you know about movies? Just go and play

Adults think that children are young and don’t understand anything. When they discuss things with others, they don’t want children to speak next to them. If your daughter expresses her opinion next to you, you may say: "What does the little girl know? Let's play while you do it." This may seem like a common thing to you, but it can cast a shadow on your child's psychology. Although she is young, she still has self-esteem, and what you say will hurt her young heart. Therefore, parents should not put labels on their children. There is nothing wrong with your child speaking. You should listen to your child carefully so that she will be more confident when she grows up.

Sooner or later you have to get married, it’s not good for you

When their daughter was young, her parents liked to talk to them about things in the future, such as getting married. "Sooner or later you will get married, and I won't treat you well." Maybe the child doesn't understand what "marry" means, but she can understand the second half of the sentence. What do you think the little girl thinks when she hears that her parents are not good to her? You will definitely feel that you are not your biological child, and it will also widen the gap between you.

The girl has no strength, and she is not as good as her brother in carrying things

“You don’t have any strength, look at my brother who can carry so many things, you are not as good as him.” There are two in the family Children are generally prone to this situation. Maybe you just said it casually without thinking about the consequences. It is easy for two children to compete for favor. If you say this again, then the "feud" between these two children has been forged. Girls have more delicate minds, so parents should have a limit when joking.

In fact, it is good to have a daughter at home. She can act as your "little cotton-padded jacket" and "little air conditioner", help you with some housework, and can also communicate with you what is on your mind. You may still feel sad when your daughter grows up and gets married, so while your child is still young, take the time to love her!