She said, I'm not fit to be a husband

Give up, because you said in your question that two people can't let go of their feelings for four years, but she broke up. It's too melodramatic to let go! In particular, you mentioned that she said she didn't want to ruin her life because of these four years, which made her position very clear, and even hinted that she hoped you wouldn't ruin her reputation and let others know the fact that she lived with you. However, if she has feelings for you and sees that you are getting married, it will be too late to be happy! How can you be angry! ! It is right that you should learn to do housework, be steady and strengthen your sense of responsibility. After all, marriage is a lifetime thing, and marriage is related to the next generation. It is right for a man to be kind to his wife and children. The feelings between people are mutual. You are good to her, and she can be good to you. Having been in love and living together for four years, your mode of getting along has become a habit. Even if you can do it, it is hard to change. She can't change, she doesn't love you anymore, and she won't give in to you. Knowing that you are changing and trusting your heart, she just can't find her original passion and feeling. Let go of her true love, she is happy and you are happy! A person's mood can be controlled by himself. If you don't want to laugh, even comedians can't make you laugh. If you want to laugh, you can't laugh. No one is forcing you to forget her completely now. Time is the best medicine. If you know that you will feel uncomfortable thinking of her, learn to divert your attention. Whenever you want to think of her, do housework, or read a novel or movie. Just slowly, remember not to break up. Pack her things, including your group photo and the gift she gave you, and give it back to her! Let her know that you really want to let go and be alone, then get together with your buddies more, and don't let others drink and laugh at you! If you want to be mature and have a sense of responsibility, you must never know her! Turning the pain of lovelorn love into the motivation of work makes me too tired to even think about it!