To apologize, I played sexy and seduced my boyfriend.

Time: 20 13 may 17.

Letters from readers:

Hello, teacher, I am a college student, and I am an intern this year. My boyfriend and I were introduced by roommates. The original intention of introducing him to me was to make me forget my ex-boyfriend and not look at me so depressed all day. I don't know if God has pity on me. I was shocked when I saw the picture of the boy they introduced. His smile looks like my ex-boyfriend, so subconsciously I want to know him.

I can also feel that there will be a story between me and him, so I was very enthusiastic about him from the beginning. Of course I didn't tell him, because his smile is very similar to my ex-boyfriend's. When we met, he was in Shandong and I was studying in Urumqi. That was last April. Maybe he found out I was interested in him, too. I hope I won't let him down when he returns to Xinjiang.

I know he likes sexy women, but I know nothing about him. I got mixed up with him at the end of February. We hadn't met at that time, but during this period of communication, he never cared about my life and my mood. His eyes are just games. I said I liked him, but I didn't even know what I liked about him except his smile. He came back in February this year, and I finished my family trip.

Although I know that there should be a minimum of trust between two people, I can't do it with him. He took me to a good room that day and let me have a rest. While he was still sleeping, I looked at his mobile phone QQ and saw his naked flirting with his ex-girlfriend, so I went to see her. I read the chat record, told me I was sleepy, and turned to continue chatting with him. Never been so gentle with me. I threw him my phone and told him about you.

I rushed back to school and he came to apologize to me. Finally, I didn't give him face in front of my roommate. Finally I forgave him and sent him back. After two days, he didn't contact me. I was very angry. I asked him what it was. I said a lot of angry words, because he was so busy playing his game that he left me behind. Finally, I said, if you feel disappointed to see me, then break up. He just said he was sorry and really disappointed to see you. I don't want to lie to you and then split up.

But after we broke up, we chatted again. He said he was impulsive. He said it only happened when he was angry with me. After a month of ambiguity, I made up with him. When I went to see him that time, I read his chat records and found many things I shouldn't have seen, such as him going on a blind date behind my back. For example, I asked other girls to open a room, or I didn't have time to start, and everyone was chased. I was sad, but I didn't argue with him. I just asked him why he didn't tell me about the blind date. He said he was just curious, and he seemed to regret his poor performance at that time.

Finally, I was accused of peeking at his privacy, and finally I apologized to him. I'm always afraid of making him angry. In order to see him and make him look happy, I spent a month's living expenses on clothes and shoes to see him. I dressed up as va va voom and tried to win his love and appreciation by seduction, but I still didn't get a few good words from him. He never made me feel love. He found fault with me and said I was wearing dirty clothes.

Teacher, what do you think I should do?

Answer:

Obviously, this is not the love between you, it is purely for the sake of each other's bodies to get together and satisfy the anodyne desire. In order to have a support in that strange city, to beat your empty heart, and to soothe the depression after being abandoned by your predecessor, you chose to find another new love.

First of all, you met him because he looks like an ex-boyfriend, not because of his personality or his way of doing things. It can be said that you want to find the shadow of your ex-boyfriend from him. You took the initiative. He senses your initiative and thinks that you are giving away food for nothing, and you don't eat for nothing. So soon you lived together, but you gradually found out that he was not your ex-boyfriend, and you couldn't find the shadow of your ex-boyfriend in him. You even find that this man is a playboy now and likes to flirt with different women.

Secondly, this man likes sexy women, and you are just a student with simple clothes and makeup. As you said, you are a bumpkin in his eyes. For this reason, he has no interest in you. The reason why you can meet again and again is because of your initiative in this game. This man wants to give up on you, but you make him greedy again and again, so he will get along with you. Anyway, he knows it won't work out with you.

Third, this man doesn't care about you at all. In order to ignore you when playing games, games are more important than you. Even with you, I will chat naked with other women. Even after comforting you and having sex with you, I continued to talk to other women. Going on a blind date behind your back, I was not afraid at all when I found out, and even said that you didn't behave well at that time. Say it yourself, what are you in his eyes?

I really want to criticize you for your parents. You spent a month's living expenses dressing up va va voom just to please him. What kind of joke do you think you are? How do you feel about yourself? Not to mention that your parents earned all the living expenses this month, just say that your idea is what a normal girl should have? Live for others and live in other people's world. Do you have any self-esteem? A woman without self-esteem will never be respected by others, do you understand?

Well, that's what I'm talking about. I just want to say one last thing to you. Once you lose your dignity, you are nothing in his eyes. Don't deceive yourself. Love is not like this. Love has its sweet appearance. What you have now seems to be self-immolation.

Wake up and wish you happiness!