How married men and women deal with heterosexual ambiguity

Married men and women, no matter what the reason or purpose is for engaging in ambiguity, will definitely not be recognized, or even be seen in the light. There are not many people who are really brave enough to do so. To the point of running around the streets with his lover.

Whether it is on TV, the Internet, or what is happening around us, we have all heard many stories about extramarital affairs. It is very rare to really achieve positive results in cultivation, or to have a good ending. It can be seen from this that this kind of extramarital affair is not visible to the public after all. It is only lively for a while and can only end hastily.

If you can handle it properly, you can still keep your marriage without causing too much trouble to yourself. If you don't handle it properly, it's basically a waste of time, and your home will become a mess, your wife will complain, your children will be weird, and if you keep a good home, it may be ruined.

So, the ambiguous relationship between a married man and a woman can end as early as possible. As for how to end it, you can take the following two steps.

1. Make up your mind

A person’s attitude is very important, and attitude determines everything. If you want to end this ambiguous relationship, you must at least make up your mind and not hesitate. The left one is reluctant to let go of the right one. This will only muddy the water and extend the end time indefinitely. When a person really makes up his mind to do something, there is nothing he can't do. It just depends on whether you are willing to make the decision, or whether you are willing to make the decision.

Once you have made up your mind, don’t change it, don’t go over and over again. Aren’t you tired of saying breakup today, making up tomorrow, and breaking up the day after tomorrow? Do you have to stop until the day when the trouble gets out of hand?

2. Take action immediately

After making up your mind, take action immediately. In fact, the relationship between people nowadays is extremely close, but it can be broken easily. Even if you are in the same city, if you don't deliberately contact each other, the chance of meeting them on the street is always slim.

So, you must decisively cut off all contact with the other party, delete those who should be deleted, and block those who should be blocked. As long as the other party does not find you and come to your door, you must not be soft-hearted and keep silent. If they are released from the blacklist in two days, is that still called a breakup?

Those men and women who say they can’t break it off or let it go don’t really want to end the relationship. Otherwise, with determination and action, how can there be an unbreakable ambiguous relationship?

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