This kind of mood can only be understood by a woman who is married far away. Why don't parents want their daughters to marry far away?

Before I got married, I always thought that the developed transportation would make it easy for me to go back to my parents' house, but later I found it too difficult to go back to my parents' house after I had a family and life!

A far-married woman

Most people in life think that women who marry far away will regret it. After all, it is an unfortunate thing to get married far away. Not only should you stay away from your most familiar environment, but you should also be separated from your relatives around you. When you marry into a strange environment, you will understand that everything is not as simple as you think.

There are few perfect marriages in this world. Whether you are married far or near, your life will be full of hardships. It's just that the woman who got married recently is very close to her family. If she is wronged, she can go back to her relatives' home immediately, while a woman who marries far away can only bear the pressure silently.

Some girls who are far away from home will have some unpleasant things in their marriage. When she is in conflict with her family, she will find that there is basically nowhere to go in this huge city, so home has become a distant place for girls who are far away from home. There are also some women in life who married love at a long distance, but will eventually be defeated by reality. Why do many parents don't like their daughters marrying far away now? We might as well watch it together.

For my parents, I really can't bear it.

Last week, Bian Xiao returned to his hometown. On the way, I met my uncle who led the family. He invited me to his house. The uncle couldn't help crying when I asked about his daughter. Only after he recovered did I know that his daughter would choose to marry far away. This is undoubtedly a worry for uncle. The daughter's long marriage means that she will entrust the rest of her life to a strange and unknown place, which really worries her parents.

Women choose to marry far away in marriage. Although it is for love, their parents will still be sad. They always say "find a closer man" and "don't marry too far" around us. Although these words seem simple, they are actually parents' heavy love for us, because parents are too reluctant to marry.

It is difficult for me to integrate into the new environment.

When you come to a new land, you will begin to observe the strange things around you and face your new life with great expectation. Maybe you are trying to understand the local dialect and learn to speak some less authentic accents, but finally you smile helplessly. When you marry a new environment, you will find that something is different from your hometown. Maybe you are ready to face it, but when you really want to realize it, you will still find yourself a funny foreign daughter-in-law.

These things are undoubtedly a kind of pressure for you. Faced with a strange environment, you have no choice but to face it. You want to be a "good wife", so you insist, because you know that no woman wants to be a joke in the eyes of outsiders.

For friends, it gradually becomes cold.

When you get married in a distant place, you will find that in a strange environment, you can only start to make new friends and get to know some new contacts. Although I have many friends around me, I always feel that something is missing. As time goes by, the friends around you for many years will gradually fade out of your life because of your long marriage. From then on, the closest person to you is undoubtedly your husband, and only he can hear your inner voice. Over time, you will become dependent on him. ask

I know you used to be like a duck to water when you were alone, but now it's unimaginable if you don't have a husband in your life. It is undoubtedly the most cruel for a woman to marry far away. They have to face the new living environment alone and learn to grow up, from a little princess loved by her family to a strong woman who is self-reliant and self-reliant. These are the necessities of life.

You were desperate to get married for love. Although you thought about going home many times before you got married, when you have children and a family, you will find it difficult to go back to your parents' home. You know, a girl who marries far away is the most difficult to be comprehensive. Therefore, a man who marries a distant girl in life must cherish your wife. She gave up everything for you and came to your side regardless of the opposition of the people around her. Please be kind to every girl who has married far away in life.