Can human nature stand the test?

Hello, in my experience, I think what can withstand the test of human nature is the long-term and never-changing mind. That mind can always persist, no matter when you encounter difficulties, Those who never change their minds in times of adversity are the ones who can withstand the test of people's hearts. 1. We should not look at people with our eyes, because it is easy for our eyes to mislead, and we should not listen with our ears, because it may be a lie. If you feel it with your heart, it will never be fake if it is true, and it will never be true if it is false.

2. The person most likely to betray you is often the person who flatters you; the person who hurts you the most must be the person you love most. Someone who really wants you to make progress will not flatter you. He will point out your problems in good faith, even if he knows that you will feel uncomfortable because of it. A person can hurt you to the bone, but only with your permission. You love him, and you have a special feeling for him, so you let him mess up your life. If you don't nod, no one will. Can't get in.

3. In this life of a person, there are three bowls of unpalatable noodles: human noodles, scenes, and feelings. It can't be too much, and it can't lose its grace. It's really difficult to get it just right. We are all groping slowly in life.

4. All emotions are just value exchange in the end. Once unable to provide value to each other. Two people will break up and get divorced. When the value of one party is higher than that of the other, the one with high value will look down on the one with low value. The other party has not betrayed you, it is just that you are not worthy of it.

5. If you are one point higher than others, others will be jealous of you. If you are five points higher than others, others will envy you. If you are ten points higher than others, others will respect you.

6. The attitude of others towards you depends on your wealth or status, not what you have done. In a relationship with unequal status, don't expect the other person to respect you.

7. Everyone will hand over complex tasks to capable people, but leave benefits and benefits to people with whom they have a good relationship.

8. Relatives’ inquiries about you may not necessarily mean they really care. They may just want to know whether you are doing well. If you are not doing well, they will stay away from you. If you are doing well, they will stay away from you. To please you.

9. The favor of rice is promoted, and the hatred of rice is fought. Pay attention to the degree of kindness. Don't just be nice to others. They will slowly take your kindness for granted.

10. If someone offends you by verbally attacking you, you should fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will repeat his old tricks next time without any psychological pressure.

11. Human nature has both good and evil. People who are filled with the evil of human nature do exist. Don’t think that individuals have consciences. Some people’s consciences have long been forgotten.

12. If you feel that you really can't control something, it's best to stay away from it in the first place, no matter how charming it is or how attractive it is to you.

13. Your kindness must be a bit sharp! Tolerance must be measured, stay away from those who are ungrateful as soon as possible, and dare to fight back against those who take advantage of others.

14. Many people don’t hate privilege, they just hate that the person with privilege is not them.

15. Some people will have judgmental emotions when they do not receive certain benefits. When they are a benefit group, they will maintain such a relationship all the time.

16. Don’t tell others your sad things easily. Most people are just listening to jokes.

17. Compromising will basically bring you more and more. Don’t expect to gain any respect or heartache. Therefore, when we get along with others, we need to understand more, because there are too many intrigues between people, and you can only truly understand a person. Only then can you know how he behaves and whether he can withstand the test of human nature, and then you can know more about him. Those who can withstand the test and will not betray you are your friends.