Why do Tianjin people use their words more than their hands when there is a conflict?

This is a very interesting question.

I am a native Tianjin person. There are also many classmates and friends from other places around me. Especially friends from the north. Led by Northeast China and Inner Mongolia. They asked me many times why you Tianjin people are so ink-stained when fighting. What's the fuss about? Let's just do it.

Hey, sorry, we Tianjin people have the characteristics of Tianjin people. If you can use your words to solve the problem, you will never use your hands. When conflicts occur in Tianjin, it is almost impossible to see anyone taking action. Occasionally I see conflicts between two people, and most of them are face-to-face "discussions"! This argument is nothing more than who is right and who is wrong. Of course, most of them may end up being confused. The onlookers made peace. In the end it was nothing. So go ahead if you want to speak in Tianjin, don’t be too serious and just have fun.

Find out the reason. Actually there are many.

First of all, Tianjin people are optimistic and not impulsive. In fact, the best way to resolve conflicts is to resolve them hands-on. Tianjin people are so smart that they don’t commit this stupidity. Resolve conflicts when they arise. No big deal, just talk and that's it.

Secondly, the policemen in Tianjin are very authoritative. In Tianjin, if there is any problem, people will immediately think of 110. The most philosophical sentence I have ever heard is. If a fight can solve the problem, then what's the point of having a police officer?

Finally, I would like to say that not taking action when encountering conflicts shows that Tianjin people are wise. Whatever you encounter, you have to calculate the cost. Solving various problems without saying a word also costs time. When your mind gets hot, move your hands. How much does it cost to go to the hospital for a check-up in today's society? After much calculation, it is not appropriate to take action.

Therefore, there is a reason why Tianjin’s public security ranks first in the country. Tianjin people are optimistic and open-minded, and don’t like to be impulsive or take things seriously!

If you observe carefully, you will find that the reason why Tianjin people talk but not take action when quarreling is not only because they are unwilling to cause trouble for themselves, but also because there are so many people trying to persuade them to make peace, and the "war" is over before they start fighting. . When people in Tianjin have a quarrel, it starts with a fight between lips and teeth, and gradually escalates as the voice gets louder, but at this moment someone will always come out to break up the fight, so there is no chance to take action. Tianjin's social security is well-known throughout the country. The reason for this is not only that the relevant departments have done a good job, but also that Tianjin citizens are considerate of each other's feelings, help each other, and do not want to "fight fiercely."

A gentleman talks but never uses his hands! This is closely related to a place’s traditional habits, cultural quality, moral level, social management, etc.!

It seems that Tianjin does embody the spirit of persuading people with reason, speaking of style in small matters, being generous, not fussing about things, and being merciful when dealing with others in terms of communication, handling of differences, and living in harmony. Man, if you take a step back, the sky will be brighter, and if you have one more friend, you will have a higher quality! It is in stark contrast to the unreasonable laziness of some places and people, their scheming, petty-mindedness, relentless pursuit, civil and military skills, and hatred!

Of course, in most places, the vast majority of people are still reasonable, considerate and respectful, but it is more common and obvious in Tianjin!

First of all, for those who have questions about this issue, I recommend you to listen to a cross talk by Mr. Ma Zhiming, the son of Ma Sanli, called "Dispute". I believe that after listening to this, everyone will have some understanding of the way Tianjin people move their mouths. Secondly, it depends on what kind of conflict it is. In real life, most conflicts between people are trivial and cannot rise to the level of taking action. And basically after a dispute occurs, there will always be someone among the onlookers who come out to make peace, and the matter will basically not become a big deal, let alone a situation where action is required. If you really do something, you will often regret it because the price you have to pay is too high. Not only Tianjin people, but normal people will consider the consequences and will not take action easily.

Tianjin people speak humorously, especially with acquaintances. They often tease and express their feelings by hurting each other. So sometimes it seems to outsiders that there is a fight, but in fact it is just a way of communication between acquaintances. So if they are really pretentious, they rarely suffer. After all, this is the way they usually talk. So why take action when a problem can be solved with words.

One final word: Don’t tease me if you’re not familiar with it:)

The main reason is that the price is too high. Tianjin’s public security is quite good in the country. It’s not like in the past. The person who called the police and was beaten still felt that no one else could know about it, it was too embarrassing! Now if you hit me, I won’t fight back. Once you hit me, I’ll call the police! Medical expenses, lost work expenses, and various other expenses are really not affordable for most people. If not, they may have to be detained or even sentenced!

First, Tianjin people are smart, and those who can talk will never do anything. If you say something wrong, you can take it back. If you hit the wrong person, you can't take it back. Second, a good man is born from his mouth, and a good horse is born from his legs. Su Qin's mouth and Zhang Yi's tongue persuade the six countries to eat with their mouths. It is better to train your arms and legs than to train your mouth well. Third, historically, Tianjin was a Shuihan wharf, with mixed factions and gangsters running rampant, grabbing land licenses to earn a living. If you can't come up, start a fight. You must first explore the opponent's background to see if the opponent's protective umbrella is stronger than yours. If you can afford it, you can mention people and things. This is called "Pan Dao". ‘Pan’ understands whether to fight or retreat, and then make a decision. It has been passed down and I have become accustomed to it, so before fighting, I must explain a few words

I am not from Tianjin, but I have been to Tianjin many times. To be honest, I like Tianjin people very much. Several times I encountered Tianjin people arguing in public places. After a few words, one or more people intervened to persuade them to make peace, and the language was humorous and reasonable, making it difficult to escalate the dispute or even resolve it quickly.

This question is why when people in Tianjin have conflicts, they use their words more than their hands. This is what I think about this issue. First of all, I must praise the people of Tianjin for being able to talk but not take action when encountering conflicts. It is very commendable. Generally speaking, northerners have a bold temper and act without saying a word when encountering problems. That means that people in Tianjin say that Civilized and well-educated people all over the country must learn from Tianjin people? A family and a person living so happily in this safe and secure big city is because their ancestors have passed down their high civilized qualities from generation to generation and have survived to this day. Modern people have inherited the civilized qualities of the older generation. When it comes to this, we use one sentence To describe Tianjin people, they are gentlemen who use their words but not their actions, and who promote civilized qualities throughout the world.

Tianjin people are absolutely right on this point! It's better to convince people with reason than to do it with force! It’s not like people in some places (it’s hard to tell where they come from) who don’t agree with each other! Just take out the knife and cut it! Look back! Dead! Just run away! I got on the train and didn’t know where to go! Maybe I'll get it before I even get off the car!

I am from Tianjin, and I think Tianjin is a very suitable place to live. Education, healthcare, housing, employment, transportation. Overall very good. For example, the newly built Huanhu Hospital in Tianjin always has emergency vehicles every day. There are many words printed on it for Hebei Province and Shandong Province. Some people think it's brave to take action, but I disagree. What are you living for? Receive a good education since childhood, find a good job, buy a big house and marry a good wife, and get good treatment when the elderly are sick. This is the thinking of normal people. You make others afraid of you when you glare at them. Are you a hero when you beat them to pieces? Haha, such people are sick, and they are very sick. Such people are a disaster. I have stayed in other places, ranging from rural areas to county towns, and it is all about family power. Can you use the ball? He is not a thug with high gold content. Nowadays, most people in Tianjin are engaged in business. Who would play with their own interests if their own interests are not involved? How stupid are you? In the 1980s, some were arrested and others shot. That era, including earlier than that era, Tianjin’s playful culture was ruthless. Because I am more ruthless than you, so you obey me, so I will perfect this street. It's all about benefits. The reason why people die is because of it. People in Tianjin call people with wrong minds Lengzi and look down upon them. Death is just a joke. In the 1980s, a man in Hebei District, Tianjin City put a briquette stove on someone's head. In the 1990s, a buddy from Hebei District, Tianjin City returned from the Northwest and found that no one recognized him on the street. Then ask others, who is the most powerful thief in Hebei now, and who do others say to him? He found someone to backhand. The first sentence is, who am I? I was in this film before. Have you heard of it? That guy said I don’t know who you are? After listening to this sentence, reply. You are awesome enough, and then there are a few cuts. The person died immediately. When the police entered his house, my brother was drinking wine and eating nuts. Didn't take it seriously at all. When the brothers left, they raised their handcuffed hands and shouted to the people in the cell, "Brothers, I have to go first." Most Tianjin people look down upon examples like the above. There are competitive and ruthless people everywhere, but not everything is the law of the jungle. Life is getting better, and good days should be easier to live.

Don't treat barbarians as heroes all day long.