How to start a chat

How to start chatting, the first impression between people is very important. I think many people don't know how to start chatting with girls easily. Actually, it is necessary to pay attention to skills when chatting with girls. Here's how to start a chat in detail.

How to chat 1 1 Generally, when we meet for the first time, everyone always likes to ask: Have you eaten? Is it convenient to come over on the way? In fact, these words should be placed in the third and fourth sentences. The first and second sentences should say: Hello, nice to meet you (with a natural smile). This simple sentence can bring people a warm and natural feeling; Other topics are not suitable for talking directly at the opening;

2. Next, we need to find a breakthrough point, which is very critical, because when two people meet, they can't continue to greet each other with ordinary words, otherwise they will face a situation of nothing to say, which many people should have experienced, and I think this is not what everyone wants;

3. Here I'll give you a starting point-after quickly observing your negative side, it's also a good choice to talk about the novelty you have recently contacted (the telling process should not be dull, but interesting) or to open the topic of chat with a humorous joke;

After laying a good foundation, it is still necessary to preliminarily test each other's preferences on the basis of observation and shift the topic to preferences, such as diet. This topic is a very common topic, and it is also a topic that easily causes * * *. Talking to each other about the impressive things they have eaten will bring unexpected surprises and gains to each other!

Open the prompt for the first chat.

Do you like traveling? This is a good opening remark, not only a topic that everyone likes, but also what he likes and whether he is an interesting person from his description.

2. What games did you play when you were a child? Through the games played as children, we can open each other's chatterboxes, find the same topic, or share the fun in the game, so that both sides can find the points of interest, which is very practical.

3, talk about hobbies, no matter what kind of hobbies he has, we can talk, not only get to know him, but also take the opportunity to praise him, create a good impression, and create the possibility for the next meeting.

4. Talk about the weather. English people only chat when they meet, avoiding the embarrassment of directly asking others about their privacy, so we can also talk about the weather and people here to avoid embarrassment.

Tips for opening the first chat 2

1. Ask a friend to introduce you. You can ask your friends about the interests of the opposite sex, and then start talking about ta's interests. Ask ta if you don't understand. If you are proficient, point to ta. If you are half a bucket of water, learn from ta.

2. Pretend to be mistaken. You can also ask ta something that doesn't exist at all. When ta looked puzzled, you pretended to be puzzled and said, "aren't you XXX?" Sorry, I mistook you for someone else, but you really look alike. Why don't I introduce you two? "

3. Ask the other person for a small favor. If you are a girl, you can delete a secondary program from your mobile phone first, then make a confused expression and ask the boy for help. On the contrary, boys can mess up their hair and then borrow styling gel from girls, who usually have it.

4. Make a little gesture and prepare a funny graffiti post-it note. When ta is not paying attention, quietly put one on his back, then pretend to see it carelessly, tear off the post-it note for ta with a sincere expression, and then take the opportunity to chat. Remember not to laugh.

Tip 3 for opening the first chat

1, pay attention to the topic of chat: when chatting, let the other person have a good impression on you. In the process of chatting, be sure to talk about the topic and what the other person likes, such as what he is interested in, or talk more about his own advantages when talking about his own situation.

2. Humorous opening remarks: Many people don't know how to start chatting. They often ask boring opening remarks, such as are you there? What are you doing? In fact, you can just say what you want to discuss. If he is free, he will definitely reply to you.

3. Appropriate chat frequency: Pay attention to the frequency when chatting. If two people are office workers, you can't talk all the time at work. It is best to choose lunch break or chat after work.

4. Grasp the time of chatting: When chatting, you can talk around a topic for a while, then end it, and wait until the next time period, such as talking about the interesting variety show you saw yesterday at noon and the end of the day at night.

How to chat 2 1, food opening

Everyone has their own ideas about life. I believe there is no girl who doesn't like to eat delicious food. As a starting point, when chatting, we can talk to her about the delicious food in various places. Of course, we can also talk about the popular online celebrity cuisine. The food in every place is diverse, so you must pay attention when chatting.

Starting with food can bring us closer. At the same time, when chatting with girls, if we happen to be familiar with girls' feelings about food, you will find that in fact, any food can bring you and girls closer and make girls feel better about you.

In the process of chasing girls, the most difficult thing is chatting. If you can't chat, you won't talk to girls, so you can't open the emotional lock of girls. How can girls like you? Some boys are stupid and very kind to girls, and they have been chasing her and licking her, fearing that she will be dissatisfied with herself and hate herself. Finally, her sister fell in love with love rat.

Step 2 praise the opening

No one doesn't like to hear compliments. Both boys and girls like to be praised, especially girls, especially in front of her. Appropriate praise when chatting with girls can make girls feel particularly warm. That's why we must start with praise. If she likes you, she won't refuse you.

For girls, in fact, they also like to listen to compliments. You can start with a compliment, which will bring her heart closer to you. For anyone, always say something nice, whether it's praising yourself or others, as long as you don't say too much, I believe girls love to hear it.

3. Humorous opening remarks

Humorous boys will make girls feel better. If we can talk about humorous topics, we can get closer to each other. Usually there are many online jokes, so you can learn to master the humorous opening. As long as your words are just right and can go deep into a girl's heart, you can make her feel particularly happy.

As the saying goes, everyone will say that it takes a lot of effort to be just right, and sometimes humor can let girls see your advantages. Don't be glib here. Humor is the basis for two people to get closer, but we can't take humor as our magic weapon to win.

How to chat opening remarks 3 1, compliment opening remarks

If you don't know how to start chatting with a girl on WeChat for the first time, you can praise this girl. I believe that no girl will refuse a compliment. In the initial chat, praise is very useful for girls, which can make girls feel good about you quickly and make the following chat smoother.

Of course, praising a girl doesn't mean telling her that you are beautiful. Such praise will be empty, and there is no emotion in words. Praise a girl must pay attention to details, such as:

Boy: You look really gentle and kind. I believe you must be a person who wants to make more friends.

Girl: Haha, really?

Boy: Your eyebrows are bent, and the light in your eyes is different from others, giving people a clear feeling.

Girl: Really? I didn't even notice it myself

Praise girls, not just their beauty, but their unique charm (kindness). Cute. Be knowledgeable and reasonable. Wan Wen), so that girls will feel that you are different from other boys and are more willing to chat with you when chatting with you.

2. Opening remarks

When chatting with girls for the first time, many boys always like to start with questions, such as "Are you there", "Can you meet me" and "Can you be my girlfriend?" This practice actually leaves the right to chat to girls. Girls may reply to you if they are in a good mood, but they will not reply to you if they are in a bad mood. If you want to continue chatting, you can turn the question into a statement, such as:

Boy: Have we met somewhere?

Girl: No.

Boy: Then let's get to know each other formally.

Boy: Have we met somewhere?

Girl: In a dream?

Boy: How do you know? Are we in touch?

Girl: Haha

Boy: I was so busy talking to you in my dream last night that I forgot to ask your name.

No matter what reason you choose to start a chat, you must understand that it is to attract girls' attention. At the beginning of the chat, you should grasp the rhythm of the chat, let the girl follow your thoughts, guide her emotions and establish contact.

3. Strange opening remarks

Everyone will have the desire to explore the unknown. In the chat, send a word that makes girls curious. Girls are curious and want to know the answer, which will arouse her curiosity, and girls will have the desire to chat with you.

When chatting with girls, don't say everything at once. You can tell the girl a little, let the girl guess what your next sentence is, and arouse her curiosity, for example:

Boy: I noticed something in your eye?

Girl: What is it? Beauty contact lenses?

Boy: No.

Girl: What the hell is that?

Boy: There is a handsome guy looking at you.

Girl: Oh, you are so narcissistic.

Boy: of course, you should dress up handsome when chatting with cute girls.

Chatting will leave a mystery to the girl at the beginning, and the other party will definitely reply to you in order to know the answer. At this time, we can continue to chat according to this topic.

4. Humorous opening remarks

Chatting with girls is a process of establishing mutual attraction. The establishment of attraction needs to start with mobilizing girls' emotions. Girls will like to chat with you with sweet words and interesting routines. For example:

Boy: What do you like to eat?

Girl: vegetables. Fruit bar

Boy: I think you must like candy.

Girl: Why?

Boy: You are so sweet. You must have grown up eating sugar.

Sweet talk and routine exercise belong to a kind of humor. Chatting with girls should not be limited to this. You should know how to use it flexibly and use your sense of humor in time, and girls will naturally be amused by you. draw