What should I do if I am hated by my best friend?

The word best friend, I think this relationship should be better than friends. Even closer than a good friend. A better relationship than sisters. For a long time, I think this word should describe the relationship between the two closest people. I always think that my best friend is the closest person besides my lover. So, up to now, I don't have any friends who deserve this word.

This topic is about being hated by girlfriends. I feel that since you are best friends, you should talk about everything.

Since your best friend hates you, you should ask what you have done to make her hate. Or what shortcomings in you make her feel uncomfortable and unhappy. If she really regards you as her best friend, she should tell you directly. You know it yourself, change it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't.

If your best friend hates you, she won't even tell you why. I just want to tell you that maybe you put yourself in the wrong position. If you treat her as a best friend, she may not treat you as a best friend. All your feelings are paid silently by yourself, you just can't get a response, and you can even make her hate you. Such a girlfriend is not necessarily a girlfriend. I don't think such a best friend has any value in your life. Then stay away from her!

There is a saying that goes like this. "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", maybe you are too close. She wants to have an independent self space. But I am embarrassed to take the initiative to stay away from you. So I show that I hate you, make you feel unhappy with her and take the initiative to stay away from her. For such a close friend, I think it's better not to be too close, just keep in touch occasionally. Tired of being together every day, I may end up with no friends.

In addition, we should also learn to reflect on ourselves, three times a day. We often look at ourselves to see what shortcomings we have and what we have not done well enough. Try to correct your shortcomings and make yourself better and more perfect. I think we will have more excellent friends. Not because a good friend hates himself.

Like you said, I'm hated by my best friend. Since she can hate you, I feel that she should not regard you as her best friend or her best friend at all. To put it bluntly, you should be a little complacent. When your efforts fail to restore the relationship between you, I will advise you to give up this relationship between you. You don't need to say too many hurtful things. You just need to fade out of your relationship and gradually reduce the connection between you. You don't need her in your life anymore. I think all the problems have been solved.