Is it only women who dislike men's poverty, and men don't dislike women?

Now, on the Internet, you can often see various videos of women who dislike men's poverty. Even in many film and television works, there are similar bridges.

It seems that men are poor, not only women, but also their own families.

In people's inherent ideas, it seems that all women dislike men being poor, but it is rare to see men dislike women being poor. Does that man really not dislike women being poor?

I saw a post with a popularity of 1 1.64 million on Zhihu. I think we can talk about whether boys will dislike girls being poor.

There is a comment below that I like a lot. It says what I saw. Both men and women are masters in 985 and have been in love for 5 years. To outsiders, they are an enviable couple, but even such an enviable couple has unknown sadness. This seemingly beautiful love actually has many problems. Just got engaged, the man still gave birth to the idea of breaking up.

In men's minds, women's family is not as good as their own, and they feel that women are a little unworthy of themselves, but they are not determined to break up because there is no better candidate. In the eyes of men, the girl's family is simply too ordinary. Shanghai can't get a down payment, and parents don't have any connections.

The master's degree is not low but not high, and the appearance is not beautiful. Can only say that it is not ugly. Apart from five years of love, men have no feelings.

Facing her, I really have no desire to get married. The only advantage of a girlfriend is that she saves money and loves me. If I can, I still want to find a Shanghai native.

A man's short sentence contains various standards and evaluations. In the eyes of men, girlfriends seem to be nothing except five years of feelings. The man's short words were shocking. The woman pays everything for love and the future, but the man is weighing the pros and cons in various ways. From the man's words, it is not difficult to see that he also wants to change his destiny through marriage. As for what love, what promises are not worth mentioning.

Do men really not dislike women being poor?

The answer this man told us is that both men and women are the same, and they will dislike each other's poverty.

However, what is more terrible than men's dislike of women's poverty is that many people are not aware of this problem.

Many people around us think it is useless to have a daughter, and the whole person has no motivation. Anyway, it will be left to others in the future.

This concept is wrong. Having a baby is the same as having a daughter. Daughters are also passed on to future generations. Parents struggle not only for their children, but also for their own lives.

What is even more frightening is that some poisoned chicken soup instills in women the idea that men make money and women enjoy happiness every day, which is really harmful. It is necessary to know how many boys are unwilling to help the woman's family, and why "helping the younger brother" has become the role that everyone shouts. You can help a little, but you can't go too far. Everyone has his own life and can't always be a parasite.

Not only boys don't like girls being poor, but also male parents will prevent girls from being poor. The classic is to give you some money and leave my son. Don't think this is a joke. Life is really like this. Many couples have to go their separate ways because their parents don't agree.

In fact, it is really not a good thing for girls to be poor. Why was there a saying that "children are poor and women are rich"? What our ancestors said makes sense. Poor girls at home are more likely to feel inferior, tempted by material things, insecure, sensitive and fragile. Few boys want to marry such a girl, and not only women want to marry a boy with a good family, but also boys want to marry a girl with a good family.

Many rich people in China started from their father-in-law, and both men and women have people who want to change their destiny through marriage. Not only do you have more praises, but your parents will dislike you as long as you are poor, whether it is a boy or a girl. Perhaps many children who are still under the protection of their parents don't understand this sentence, but for adults, this sentence is really true.

That's true. You can't earn money after graduation, and your home is no longer your harbor. In many people's minds, no money is worthless, and no money is no effort. As long as you have no money, everything you do will be denied.

Therefore, both men and women should work hard for their own tomorrow. What kind of life you want, you should work hard in what direction. Of course, there are two kinds of poverty, and we can't just shoot them. Most families just can't help their parents, but girls have a slight advantage, and boys won't be disgusted as long as they are not too heartless.

As for Fan's bottomless pit in Ode to Joy, unless he is rich, any man will resent it. Therefore, it is really important to find a suitable person, a close person. Human nature will hate being weaker than itself and desire to be stronger than itself.

Of course, man is the soul of all things. Because we have thoughts, we are not so naked. We know how to restrain ourselves, so it is very important to find a person with good personal qualities. Of course, feelings are more important in marriage. As long as the feelings are good, nothing else is very important. As long as two people have the same goal, they will gradually have it in the future.